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And this, the Prophet sallallaahu Alaihi Wassalam said, in a valid hadith narrated by Imam Muslim.
"If one of you wants to have sex with his wife.." It means that the husband is ordered to. So mom reminded me. "...He should read
"In the name of Allah..." Allahummajni bi syaitoni wokni bi syaitoni ma rozqtana. "O Allah keep us both away..-
- from the devil. And keep the devil away from what You have bestowed upon us." The meaning is the pleasure of sex -
- and also if there is a child, the child should not be disturbed by the devil. Because the Prophet shalallahu Alaihi Wassalam said, "Who reads this and is blessed with a child.
- the wife is pregnant, then the devil will not harm the child.
The hadith scholars said, "They (the children) will not be naughty."
This is a guarantee from the Prophet Alaihisalatu Wassalam.
Then also, in biological matters. One should start with fondling and this is not a disgrace when discussed in religion.
- because this hadith is authentic. Where the Prophet sallallaahu 'Alaihi Wassalam said, "It is not our group that does not fondle (his wife) before intercourse."
Indeed, he must help each other, of course by preparing food, a comfortable place, with perfumes -
- to maximize biological (relationships). So this is not just finished, but this is worship that is done to get pleasure and reward.
Then also, it is not allowed to have intercourse with the wife from the anus. It is also not permissible to have intercourse with the genitals (wife) during menstruation and childbirth.
In accordance with the words of the Prophet Shalallahu Alaihi Wassalam, authentic hadith narrated by Imam Ahmad, Abu Daud, and Nasa'i -
"Cursed .." means that his life blessing is lifted, "Whoever has intercourse with his wife through the anus." And sorry ladies and gentlemen. Because usually a lot of people --
among us learn biological (relationships) from porn. This is so untrue!
Because non-muslims teach their ways, not ours. (biological intercourse) from the rectum is prohibited. And ladies and gentlemen, you need to know
- HIV was discovered for the first time precisely because it came from the male genitalia that was touched to the anus.
And this is the disease from there. The place of discharge of feces (feces) is not for biological enjoyment. So be careful. Cursed and raised the blessing of his life.
In another hadith, the Prophet sallallahu 'alayhi Wassalam said, "Allah will not see any husband who has intercourse with his wife from his rectum."
- ..also in another hadith, namely the authentic hadith narrated by Imam Ahmad Ibn Majah. Another authentic hadith is also narrated by Tirmidhi -
- Ibn Majah and Abu Dawud, "Whoever has intercourse with his wife who is menstruating, or from her anus, also comes and believes in a dukun -
- indeed he has disbelieved in what has been revealed to Muhammad shalallahu Wa Alaalihi Wasahbihi Wassalam."
So if you are menstruating, you are not allowed to have biological intercourse, because it is dangerous. And that's dirty blood.
Allah mentions in Surah Al-Baqarah (2) verse 222
اللَّهِ الشَّيْطَانِ الرَّجِيمِبِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمنِ الرَّحِيمِ
لُوْنَكَ الْمَحِيْضِ قُلْ اَذًىۙ اعْتَزِلُوا النِّسَاۤءَ الْمَحِيْضِۙ, meaning, "Asked you (Muhammad) about menstruation, say stay away from women to have intercourse -
- ..in her genitals when she is menstruating.
But that does not mean that you should not make out, not that you should not seek pleasure. because the Prophet sallallahu 'Alaihi Wassalam said in a hadith narrated by Muslim -
at that time he was asked, "O Messenger of Allah, did When our women are menstruating, we can't touch them at all?" The Prophet sallallahu 'alayhi Wassalam said, "No -
- ..do anything except intercourse."
Also in another hadith said Aisha RA, when asked what is permissible for a woman to do husband against his wife who is menstruating?
Aisha said, "Everything except her genitals."
And Aisha RA also said, "And if one One of us was menstruating, and the Messenger of Allah wanted to have sex with her, so he (sallallaahu 'alayhi wassalam)
ordered her to tighten the cloth at the place of her period, then he had intercourse with her."
So everything is permissible except the anus and the genitals during menstruation and parturition.
So including oral sex, all kinds. (In fact) masturbation is forbidden for men if it is done alone. But if his wife does it, there is no prohibition there.
We close ladies and gentlemen, with noble hadiths with two hadiths that I hope you can understand these hadiths.
What the Prophet, sallallahu alayhi Wassalam, said, a hadith narrated by Muslim,
"The worst human being in the presence of Allah on the Day of Resurrection is a person or husband and wife who are biologically related...
- then he has intercourse with his wife, his wife also comes to him. with her husband.
- then they both spread the secret of their partner."
So if you are here, God will give you a wife who is MasyaAllah, satisfying from a biological point of view..
- hold on (self). Do not tell friends (personal biological relationship problems).
Don't say, "My wife is like that.." Don't tell.
So mothers are the same. If Allah gives a husband who is satisfying biologically, MasyaAllah, there is no need to tell stories with friends.
This is the first there is a threat. The worst person in the position on the Day of Judgment. I mean, God hates him.
Second, he does have a social effect. if it's men here, for example, that means out there, not here--
there because it's better out there. If there is a man whose wife, MasyaAllah, satisfies him (husband), then he tells his friends
- "My wife is like this.." Then among his five friends (for example) who heard that his wife was not like that, what would they say? will occur?
He'll bully his wife this guy (disgrace storyteller)
And it happens a lot. The household is broken because the man tells about his wife, and he doesn't realize his friend is contacting his wife secretly.
And his wife was shocked, "How can he know my secret, huh?"
"How can you know women use feelings?" Open communication, finally divorce and marry that person.
Many things happen. Likewise with women. For example, "My husband is like this.."
Their husbands are friends, not like that. So they thought to disturb this man's husband.
So there is a lesson, Syar'i that we must understand.
The last one, ladies and gentlemen, is the hadith of the Prophet Shalallahu Alaihi Wassalam,
still the same case. The Prophet, sallallahu 'alayhi Wassalam, said, after the morning prayer, he spoke in a loud voice -
- this is the end of our discussion. "Perhaps .." Said the Prophet sallallaahu Alaihi Wassalam, ".. One of you tell what he did with his wife."
- ...and maybe a woman among you, O woman in the female line, tells what her husband did." What she did with her husband.
Said Asma Bint Yazid RA, one of the companions of the Prophet, peace be upon him
. He said, "That's right. By Allah, O Messenger of Allah. The women did it and the men did it... -
- at the time of the companions of the Prophet it was done (they did) it. But they don't know the law yet.
The hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wassalam came out. So the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said -
"Don't do that (the story of husband-wife relationship), because it's like a male devil or a male devil meeting a female devil...
- on the street, then he has intercourse with her, while everyone is looking at her."
And this hadith is narrated by Imam Ahmad.
So you should be careful, ladies and gentlemen.