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fCZi2vk6zJk • "America Will Collapse If This Happens" - Trump, WW3 & Upcoming Financial Crisis | Patrick Bet David
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Kind: captions Language: en my intuition is that a recession is inevitable but the market can remain crazy longer than you can remain solvent whatever the quote is um why hasn't it happened yet and how do you think about because obviously you have the you have similar concerns that I have only the paranoids survive but how do we turn paranoia into an action plan yeah so everything is right now about mapping out different possibili so for example if we're right now in a conference room and we got bored to write on we would write on you and I would write down and we would say okay uh World War II takes place what do you think are the chances of this taking place Ray doio says 50% yes okay does a um Jamie Diamond says this the most danger Dangerous times we've had in America in decades Okay cool so if World War III happens what happens to the economy who's going to be the parties involved are we going to be involved purely through proxy or is there going to be attack here then you write down the possibilities okay if this happens what are you going to do if this happens what are you going to do then next what happens if unemployment all of a sudden goes to 7% 6% what happens if inflation goes down what happens if Powell starts lowering rates back down to 54% holy [ __ ] that's that's going to be crazy what H so you got to write all of these different scenarios down but here's a couple things that we have to be thinking about and you said which was fascinating one so credit card debt highest it's ever been you know what's the craziest thing about uh uh credit credit card that being being the highest it's ever been tell the average interest rate on credit card is the highest it's ever been Jesus forget about the debt so people are worried about the debt so imagine the interest rates in the last 5 years has gone like this to 23% or the average is 23% on credit card you know what 23% means that means the debt doubles about 2 and a half years that's like loan shark number that's lone shark three years your debt is doubling right but that's what we got right now credit cards okay so our debt is record-breaking the forgiveness for your uh loan school loan is gone so now you have to start paying for that's $ 33400 a month that people are expecting I think October November starting then let's set that part aside go to the corporations you were talking about that are borrowing money this year their interest payment on corporation that borrowed money is going to end up being around $530 billion just interest oh my God next year it's going to 7:30 next year it's going to 1.1 trillion in the next 5 years it's going between 1.3 to $ 1.5 trillion just on the corporate debt that we're talking about by the way next part car payment a credit no one's affected good credit they're making a credit payments on time mortgages we're not saying anything crazy with people with bad credit not making payments we're still good car payments and subprime they're seeing a spike in defaults where people are not making car payments the first sign you're seeing on what's taking place no problem let's go to the next one that's the scariest one us has $33 trillion of debt worst it's ever been the highest that's ever been no problem what does that really mean nobody can really figure it out here's what it means of the money that we have about 8 trillion of it the rates are going to re-calibrate and we're going to have to have new rates that we going every single time the rates go up one point just one point for the US government our interest payments Tom increases by $320 billion Jesus so imagine we raise rates by three points just interest it's a trillion dollars more per year if it's 6% $2 trillion more per year that's that then last thing that I'll just kind of get you to be thinking about um so anytime you want to know if the economy is back to normal go to Vegas if Vegas is humming okay we're good and always whenever you go to Vegas talk to C drivers and talk to the drivers who are doing Uber always ask how's conventions doing how are you seeing with traffic are you noticing things cancelling no this has been crazy for us the last three months everything's good but if they start seeing a downturn they're typically an indicator of what's to come Transportation industry we consult for a lot of Transportation companies at B Consulting one of my friends I'm about to go meet with them right after this their their con their construction company does very well we have these three clients that we have who are doing Transportation two of them are doing 100 million 80 million a year numbers are down 40 50% one of them is doing a billion a year their revenue is down 70% oh so let's actually talk about transport why would Transportation be down 70% aren't Walmart Amazon companies ordering stuff to ship it from here to there why would that be lowering what do they know that we don't know again these are people who have data to Insider stuff that we can sit there and say these are great indicators when you're studying these things on what's going on does this mean recession is going to come here like I told you earlier when we were talking my bigger fear is a reverse market crash which Venezuela just went through which all of a sudden the rates get lowered and DOW an S&P goes and DOW goes from 33 40 45 50 55 60 just goes Voom is that just the dollar losing its purchasing power exactly that's what happens the more we're printing like for example a Michael Jordan um card uh years ago a bgs 9 a half sold for $78,000 I like oh my God that's crazy but then all of a sudden all of these boxes kept entering the marketplace of 1986 Fleer so guys started buying these things and they were sending more to get graded at Becket and PSA the more they got cards graded that $78,000 card bgs 9 a half became a $60,000 card $50,000 card $40,000 card $30,000 card you can probably buy bgs 9 and a half today for $20,000 $25,000 okay so the inventory increases the more we print money the more you print dollars and it's more accessible the less it's value the less it's worth so these are some things that's going on uh today uh so you know like I you sit there and you're like okay so does this mean guys are not going to make a lot of money no no you're going to see the first trillionaire in the next 24 months cuz none of this is going to affect the guys at the top none of it this printing money every time they print money the guys at the top make more money every if there's anybody that should be against printing money it's low and middle- income families if there's anybody that should be against printing money is them if there's anybody that's for printing money guess who it is the guy's at the top why because the poor in Middle America can't keep money they spend it and when they spend it what do they buy a product owned by somebody in the S&P 500 or other people who have businesses money flows up they can pre keep printing money all they want so when low and middle income families are like look at these guys all they care about is themselves let that bill pass for $2.7 trillion you simply look at them and you say you have no clue how money works you have no idea how money Works guess what let's print1 trillion Rich are okay with it you ain't going to get the rich complaining about printing $10 trillion or $5 trillion black Rock's going to be like all right cool we're at $8 to10 trillion of money in our ETFs and we're buying up a bunch of different companies we're buying up all these properties today right now it's going to be nothing but in the next few years you have to go through us and we dictate the market and we're going to own it all and what are you going to do about it you know this these are these are a lot of different moving parts that is going on to me and again for me um the the idea of Middle America not being able to make the money they need to make to be able to for a house send their kids to school live in a nice place enjoy some of their dreams maybe not the biggest ones but some of their dreams are going to become a reality Middle America is getting smaller and smaller and smaller every single time we print money for people that don't understand the mechanisms of printing money it goes like this you are you have to have a mechanism by which you put this new money that you created out of thin air by Fiat literally just saying it now exists s uh you have to put it into the system the way it's put into the system is by buying assets because typically low and middle inome people don't buy assets they buy products like you were saying then they aren't beneficiary of that unless there are stim stimulation checks now those they will get sent directly to them so there are ways to put it in their pocket but what you're effectively doing is socializing losses so you are spreading the loss out across everybody because while I get it that um because I own assets I'm going to be disproportionately either protected or actually gain the gain isn't real and so it's really I'm looking at the price is going up and it makes me feel like oh I really did something but in the end I didn't in the end it just my dollar buys less and so it takes more dollars to buy the same thing because nothing fundamentally happened the business that I own a piece of did not become more productive and therefore can actually generate more by adding more value to the world so once you understand that like I actually as a wealthy person do complain when people print money CU I'm like hey there is a point at which you break everything because the money is just going to hyperinflate and it isn't only going to be the stock market that goes up it's going to be the cost of bread and gas and taking your family to a movie and all of that and so um look I I'm conflicted in fact Patrick Bet David you're gonna educate me here I'm conflicted about money printing because the only reason I got into doing Financial content and quite frankly learning about financial content or Finance in general uh was because of covid when covid happened this was me not being very far out from having worked at Quest and I had a thousand employees in the inner cities and I was like they're all going to get obliterated I'll be fine I'll still be rich on the other side of this but they're going to get wiped out because I didn't know money printing didn't know that they were going to socialize losses and in doing that that actually kept us from going into something that probably should have been worse than the Great Depression and they money printed their way out of it and we ended up being okay because it was spread across a lot of people now I hate that I was taxed without um without it being acknowledged as a tax and I feel that I've paid an inordinate amount of money but if that's what stops everybody from going into a horrendous depression I don't know I don't know that it was a bad idea but I know that it because I am such a student of Rayo I know that governments once they start money printing they can't stop and every time in human history that it's been used as a tool it's used Until It Breaks Until It Breaks every time without exception and that typically as it's racing towards breaking I think it's what8 out of the last 14 times it's ended up in a hot War so usually as the debt the big debt cycle go watch R Delio's video as the big debt cycle comes to an end and and uh money's inflating away to nothing debt is completely out of control nobody can make their payments everybody's defaulting you have to have a complete reset of the wealth which is I think why everybody calls this the great reset or the big reset or whatever because we are we are actually stopping we are forestalling catastrophe right now by printing but we are only forestalling it and nobody I've had a lot of people on the show nobody can tell me how you pull out of this death spiral other than austerity and no one's going to do [ __ ] austerity yeah well I mean Ray when he uh uh did that one video if you've never seen that one video it's like 32 minutes where he explains the history of money and finan and what's going on if you by the way it's got like 20 or 30 million views few 32in Finance videos are going to have that many everybody must watch it but yeah so how can you fix this thing well the the question my question would be is it a how do you fix this thing in a year no one's going to know how to fix it because it's not going to happen how do you address this and make progress towards you know getting better that over a 20e span okay now we're talking 40e span even better then you have to forecast and see what Solutions are going to be needed the next 20 30 40 years the problem with America today is the following here's one of the problems with America which by the way is a beautiful thing but it's also perinal whoever that gets elected we have cyclical Cycles okay you got Carter gets elected then it's Reagan senior then you have Clinton then you have Bush then you have Obama then you have Trump then you have Biden so Republican Democrat Republican Democrat Republican Democrat so every time you do this every eight years the system is like changing so Cycles are changing whatever you're doing is changing so you can't really consistently build on a philosophy over a 20-year period because in America you you can't put a 20-year plan in place there is no such thing as a 20-year plan on America because whoever is the next guy that's going to come take your job is going to say no we're not building that wall no we're not going to do that no we're going to cut those benefits no we're going to add these benefits no we are going to spend more money no we are going to do that no we are going to leave this war no we are going to get into this war the these things the the complexity of what we're asking about is challenging because no one leader is going to run for 20 years we just don't have that okay would you want it in a in a way when it comes down to the economy uh yes I would want it selfishly for me and you because we're alive today is it good for America long term absolutely not okay okay absolutely not because if that one person is a shitty person that gets into office for 20 years this thing's gone it's destroyed okay so at least this allows us to not be able to go super extreme because you have to get it through Congress and Senate and it's already complicated enough to do that but to fix this thing you're never going to have both sides agree philosophically economically on what they're going to be doing over a 20e span all right let's go to the next side that we're talking about while all this stuff is going on you have uh um the the War right now with China and India that is also taking place with iPhones are now being made in India you can now get iPhones where on the back of it it says Made in India first time not made in China it says Made in India really guess who blocked Tik Tock in their country India guess who's blocked a 100 apps of China India India is not afraid of China now why does China not like India why do they always be closed doors talk [ __ ] yet at the same time they're part of bricks you got Brazil you got Russia you got India you know you got China and I think it's South Africa that's part of the bricks right okay so they're part of the same thing but there's also a way of you know competing the reason why I like India a lot and I think India is going to play a very important role here is because India is seen how China negotiated with us and they've realized we're not doing that but India's also seen the mistakes China made with the one child Rule and overexpansion and what's going on with a lot of these properties that they build out in cities that looks like just like Paris I don't know if you've seen the city they build in China it's a city everything Paris has it has it looks identical to Paris if you Google this same kind of architecture if I tell you if I show you the picture you would think it's Paris they spend billions of their own money to build a city replicating EX exactly Paris that's what China did okay wow so we're talking about you know the whole everything everything they have they have a shaniz same exact model that they have over there exactly when you see the pictures like when we're done I can't wait for you to see these pictures to see what that looks like so China overexpanded very quickly India's watching China they had their one child one child policy the average age of a Chinese per right now is 38.4 years old India is 2728 okay India's uh I it Institute is producing incredible Engineers many companies here will hire Indian engineers and they're rockstars better than MIT in many cases so I think India is very important for the next 20 30 40 years very important as long as India is there China's going to hate it they they're not going to like it the fact that Tim Cook right now's got a very hard job I think Tim Cook in a span of four weeks lost $350 billion of valuation for apple in four weeks $350 billion okay one because iPhone 15 didn't do what they expected it to do two because China is now giving them a hard time because China is their number one market of iPhones they sell now China is sitting there saying wait a minute we sell more iPhones in this country than anywhere else yet you're giving our business to India who the hell do you think you are right then on the back end the real W that's taking place is the semiconductor chips and there's different levels to the semiconductor chips that's being buildt and China's specialized in the cheapest kind to make the easiest kind to make where some countries have specialized on a tough kinds to make when it comes on to semiconductor chips this is why China can't stand Taiwan being there this is why China wants Taiwan because Taiwan specializes in building the extremely technical semiconductor chips that the rest of the world uses and then there's complete other aspects to this that you can get even deeper on so taiwan's going to play a very important role you know we can't have a Russia Ukraine or a you know Israel Palestine Gaza Armenia aeran turkey we can't have that taking place with Taiwan Taiwan needs to stay separate that needs to stay protected how we do that I don't know how we're going to do that we're getting involved in one too many wars but if if Taiwan stays free and China relies on them because China destroyed the world during covid absolutely destroyed we realize 80% of medication is being built there 80% of the technology that we need is being built there they controlled everything car pricing use prices went up 50% like what are you talking about you mean to tell me I bought this car for $90,000 it's used you're to pay me $130,000 yes are you serious yes why we don't have chips to make cars are you kidding me no Rolexes they were making Rolexes for 18 months they didn't have equipment to make Rolexes you go to a Rolex shop that had one one watch like what do you have we only have one watch can I order Rolex no we're 12 months you're not going to get are you serious yes nothing this is what was going on at Rolex store so again the stuff that gets me optimistic is India is is Taiwan is we're committed to the semiconductor business here uh the things that concern me is China is erdogan being wanting to be involved in the Israeli War because most people don't realize the most powerful military in the Middle East is not Israel Israel is powerful but Israel has 300,000 soldiers of which I think 150 is reserved turkey has nearly 400 active 350,000 active Soldiers the number number one military in the Middle East if Turkey gets involved you know so we have all these dead things that we're looking at obviously the military industrial complex which Eisen are talked about where be careful with these companies like Ron and Boeing and General Dynamics and these guys that are making a lot of money when there's Wars we have to be careful with that taking place we have to be very careful with that when that's taking place but uh yeah it's very complicated very complex Ray doio says a depression could be possibly around the corner a lot of these guys are fearing what is taking place today Michael bur shorted the S&P 500 $1.6 billion of his client's money and now he did it in a way where you know you're kind of protected but still he's not optimistic about the S&P 500 what it's going to be doing uh one too many moving parts for us to sit there what will happen the rich are still going to get rich the innovators are still going to find a way to you know win the people who learn how to use AI on their side they're going to advance and Excel even more the acceleration and the disparity between the rich and the poor is going to get wider and wider and wider why because most people are going to spend majority of their lives on Instagram on YouTube on Tik Tok they're not going to learn a new skill set they're not studying AI right now they're not studying technology right now they're not learning new skill sets right now Harvard did an article Harvard Business Review did an article saying to stay competitive right now every 18 months you have 10 new skill sets to learn as an executive it wasn't like that it used to to be 10 new skill set every 5 years now we have to learn 10 new skill sets every 18 months how the hell do we keep up so so that this is the part where you know we talked about the only the paranoid survival like right now you have to be looking at this shit's out there what part of it do I control what part of it do I have not no control over if not a billionaire or a hecta or a decamillionaire man I got to figure out a way to increase my market value or else I'm going to get crushed you're going to over the next 10 20 years if you're going to spend spend more time on Netflix more time watching all these shows more time playing all these games more time watching all these Tik Tok Instagram if you're going to spend more time on that than building value for yourself and learning new skill sets yes the Market's not going to favor you the next 18 to 36 months but if you do that fortunately for that Community they're going to be okay this doesn't mean a Rec is still not coming though okay so let's start pulling apart some of the issues so the geop political part of this comes down to is there something that we can do to position ourselves um you were talking earlier about we create a matrix and it's like okay do we go to war how bad is it like all the different scenarios and we run through them um so but let's sort of put the pieces on the table we have um global conflict and that's going to do what it's going to do we need to think about what the plan of attack is there how we position ourselves well we have the debt crisis which is just probably the thing that weighs the heaviest on my mind it seems the most inevitable and because it's so in plain sight and not at all sexy but nobody's freaking out that one makes me the most nervous because you can just run the math and it seems inevitable that it things have to break for that to work um you've got the what we'll call the Cold War of manufacturing and where that's going Apple China India all competing but But ultimately how do people begin to actually put together a battle plan so one of the you you had a really good video about advice for young men and one of the things that you said was you need to be aware of what's going on and I really woke up to that at the beginning of co co was a grand uh moment where it's like look behind the curtain there's The Wizard of Oz and I began to see how things were actually um happening that was very revelatory and just as if you want to be an entrepreneur the ironic advice that I'm going to give you is you need to learn about the body because if you can get control of your body if you can change your physique you're going to find discipline consistency you're going to see that it really adds up to an actual transformation and you can apply all of that to um business once or yeah to business to anything really once you begin to understand how the world actually works now you can begin to position yourself to weather any storm but you really do have to understand how the pieces move around the chessboard how you're being manipulated um and I don't it certainly has not then provided me a sense of Clairvoyance and oh I know exactly what to do but I feel like it makes me ask a better caliber of question to me the caliber of question right now is what is the position someone should be working themselves into so I'll paint the picture that I think and then tell me if you disagree if there's a better thing okay number one I think because only the paranoid survive there's actually two things you need to be paranoid about right now paranoia number one is you can pull out of the market too soon and Miss real opportunities and since no one is going to be able to accurately forecast the timing you have to be thoughtful about that so one strategy might be just that you dollar cost average in every day make sure that you have a certain amount of savings so that you're not going to find yourself in a panic situation and as Morgan housel said uh the the whole purpose of having cash in a bull market is to make sure that you don't have a force sale in a bare market now I thought that was a a really wise way so um what I'm going to present to people is there's so many variables on the table and I don't know how they're going to go I just want you to be in a position where you have optionality so we're going to optimize for options to do that you're going to want to be largely in um cash and index funds which is not going to sound sexy and when I say cash I'm talking money market treasury bills something like that bring Five Points right now yep which is [ __ ] amazing y all day every day I'll take it uh now would not be the time in my opinion to invest in anything where you're not just an absolute complete expert where you have so much disproportionate knowledge that you're able to really recognize a deal when you see it so I've heard you talk a lot about some commercial real estate stuff that you're looking at because you know things are going to go on sale you oddly enough I still find this so fascinating you really understand the baseball card market so you'll know a deal when you see a deal so it's like that to me optionality cash um only investing either sort of blindly in index stocks not just completely removing yourself because you could miss you know it could be six months a year before two years before this is who who knows we really can't predict it but that we are in a time of such volatility that if you are not taking every step with sort of Maximum paranoia uh you're making a mistake so that's I'm sure if somebody were here they'd have a lot of questions for that but that's my rough guidance to myself I think that was fantastic I think it was fantastic and we're very aligned look I mean here here's also the thing right like where you're you're sitting there're watching some of these guys sitting on a lot of cash why are they sitting on a lot of cash are they sitting on a lot of cash in in case [ __ ] it's the fan is that what they're doing or they just kind of sitting on a lot of cash wondering I don't really know what's going when I say people I mean Burkshire Hathaway I mean these these guys have a lot of cash right now they're sitting on the table and uh you know maybe they're not buying value stocks yet because they don't yet believe value stocks are here bshar hathway okay if you're not in this business if if you're not in the business of Investments financial adviser broker day trader don't play around do not play around and get crazy about it um crypto a lot of people got into crypto and nftd and that was not their world they didn't know about it they lost a lot of money I mean couple guys made $90 million but the people that bought their stuff lost $89 million but they got their money there's a lot of guys that made their money in nfts but it was a gamble for everybody and everybody's like oh my God but I believe it in all this other stuff okay great that's pretty crazy you know what about this and what about that now does that mean nfts are going away absolutely not my kids still buy stuff on robloxs and skins and all that there's an element of it that is not going to go away guaranteed is there 95% of nfts that are not coming back yes probably some of them are going to be gone again my opinion I I have interest in things I know about and I'm interested in like right now you know I'm looking at stuff the card Market got destroyed the last six months destroyed guys are sitting on big cards they were thinking they're going to make a lot of money on it they're not right now okay cars that would have sold for $ million two years ago are selling for $400,000 today wow but they're going to end up selling for that value they're not going away because it's art it's non- duplicatable assets you can't duplicate these pieces especially if it's things that are very few of okay so if one of one they're not going to go away art Jamie Diamond's got a $900 million art collection why Dave Dana White is telling me about a picture he has in his uh office he showed me this yesterday that he paid $200,000 for it that picture is probably worth wor $8 to10 million today art money in art being made again non duplicatable assets are very very valuable whatever there's few of very valuable but only touch it if you know a lot about it if you don't don't even get close to it if you love coffee and a little bit of caffeine but hate the Jitters and that afternoon crash that comes with it there is finally a coffee replacement that you've got to try it's from 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risk tolerance indexing is the way to go to play it safe now to to the small community of crazies that have an itch and a tolerance for madness Okay this isn't everybody this is some when you have a certain amount of money I'm talking to my Goldman guy he comes in we're having our conversation he says hey here's what I think we can do with this amount of money I said okay what about it he says here's a strategy we can use the next 90 days I said okay I said do you have any questions for me he says I got one question for you are you okay if in the next six months we lose $55 million in this what a great question just straight up I'm like no I'm not okay with this that's a big nut he says uh no problem totally get it then we can't go the way that this is one of the options we can go on because what do you think of a chance of a World War III happen next 6 to 12 months I don't know man I don't know if I'm at 50% but I'm at 10% well 10 is pretty high yeah I agree okay if that happens how bad is it going to be you know like during Co that went to 18,000 I don't know if you remember for that minute that that went to 18,000 everybody's like holy [ __ ] what's going on but very quickly went back to 32,000 so it recovered very quickly okay so what does this mean if you think a possibility of craziness is going to happen that you keep cashing it happens you can buy and dollar cost average okay yes you think you're that brilliant that you can time it historically very few people have been able to do it and those who did got purely lucky do you want to be part of that camp because most people historically what happened to them they missed being in the market on the five best days corre and missing those five best days ended up costing them the difference between making 133% over a 20-year period to making 7.8% correct and that's a lot of money by the way between those two so if that's not the world you want to play don't do it don't at all do it for me the game we're playing is a different game the game is there's going to be a lot of assets for sale the next couple years okay and if you've made the right choices and you have cash and some of these assets don't perform the next couple years there's the opportunity to pick up assets there's the opportunity to pick up small businesses I'm talking to a guy who runs a you know uh a a business that they're doing 34 million a year and he I said how many companies are there in the marketplace that you could buy right now that are between to $10 million there's at least eight how many of them can't stand you one of them we never talk I said okay the other seven how many of them love you three of them do the or four know you they know of me but we don't have a relationship get it close to them as soon as possible make the following phone call he said what do I tell these guys this what the call sounds like hey John listen man we're both in the same industry how business and you'll know by their answer how it's doing you're going to say oh great unlike XYZ we did 32% last month over last year approv okay great guess what that's not who you want to talk to next call you got six more left okay hey Larry how are things oh um yeah I mean look I mean some areas we're doing good some areas uh why what what's going on did somebody tell you something okay boom check what's the conversation Larry here's what what's going on the reason why I'm calling you we're getting calls from guys in our space and some of them are not want are not doing as well as they thought they were going to do and they're about to run out of cash and they're calling us because we have access to certain relationships and contracts and technology that they want to take advantage of I thought just to give you a call because we're within the same space are you in a place right now where you want to entertain possibility of a partnership where we can help you with our company or no if no list I'm not going to impose but if you are maybe we can have that conversation 5c pause uh you know about nine months ago I would have told you to go to hell but uh yeah maybe we can talk perfect um when do you want to come to the office or would you like us to come to your office would it be okay if we first met at a coffee shop away from everybody no problem let's do that then he go sit down what's going on look man I don't know if I want to do because I heard this and I heard I heard that and I heard this I don't want to be ripped off and I don't want to be this and I don't want to be that bro let's just see what we can do with the numbers if we can great if we can we'll support you go do your thing then the conversation start so there's different levels right now the marketplace if you have cash a lot of it companies are going to be forell the next 3 6 12 months and there's going to be a lot of opportunities for you to increase your market share within the industry if not you're somebody that doesn't have a very high risk tolerance do not screw around the next 6 12 months thinking you're no strad and you can predict the future cuz the Market's going to destroy you it's undefeated the real power is because it's not enough just to be strong it's not enough to be violent you really do have to be able to calculate it I saw the interview at Jared Kushner on Lex fredman and Kushner said um that Trump always liked to leave people with a 10% chance that he might nuke them which is horrible I say it with a smirk because I get the Showmanship of it but there is something to the unpredictability the no the belief that that person is dangerous and that it is merely strategy that keeps them in check there is something to that and at at that level to pretend that that isn't real is to set yourself up for disaster in fact I'd like to introduce my favorite Thomas Soul quote which my audience will have heard me say a gazillion times the last 50 years have been marked by exchanging what worked for what sounds good and that feels like a lot of the policies a lot of the ways that we talk about young men toxic masculinity all of that is it sounds nice it would be nice if we lived in a world where everybody could just be kind and gentle but we don't and so you wear thin the armor of civilization when you teach men to be weak you know how in families there's typically the one person everybody fears and respect when they die there's chaos and all of a sudden you know one person is taking advantage of this person or that person my my uh mother her her family had some money the moment her parents died uh one of her uh uh family members took over all the money and he abused everybody else he says you're not going to get it I have it now but when Mom and Dad were alive he couldn't do that the moment they died he bullied every body from the money that he got that money was supposed to go to a few people he took it all and he gave crumbs to people and he became that dictator you're lucky I'm giving you this kind of money no no that was their money but because the parents didn't put anything on paper he stole it from everybody and he could do that what's the moral of the story when when that Alpha when that leader is not present bullies show up you know so so for us again like this is a very chaotic time I don't know when this is going to be released you know whether it's one war or the other war or this or that um we're we're one or two people away of being offended of World War III getting started you know you got 16 million to 18 million people died World War I you know 60 million on two third one if we go at this trajectory could be 200 million Jes the the job that we have collectively is to try to do whatever we can to turn down the temperature not increase it you know if if you and your wife get into an argument and you call me and you say you won't believe what she said my job isn't to say she said that Tom oh dude if she would have said that to me it's done are you kidding me doesn't she realize how amazing you are how lucky she is to have you instead is to say Tom come on bro she loves you and you know you love her she's partly right bro I'm G to take her side how could you say something like that you're not on my side you're on her side probably on this one am but I'm telling you privately I'd go back and try to make this work screw you Pat totally get it bro let me know if you want to talk later you get off the phone I have a job and it's called Doug theuse unify and be the glue we don't have a lot of Dougs around the world today we have division today we have divisiveness today so but if there's that one strong personality leader of the Free World a Churchill a Reagan a person you don't want to mess with the world is typically a safe place yeah that is um it it is maybe a balanced place where the level of danger that is always ready to pop off is currently held at Bay um but I think the the reason that that Cycle Works where strong men make good times good times make weak men so on and so forth works is because when things are good the seed of its own instability is present because of that Loop and I don't know that there's any way to escape it it's one of the things that makes this so predictable I agree now Church Hill is a fascinating character in fact this will be fun because I never get anybody that can talk about Church Hill I absolutely am just blown away by Churchill and you can say what you want and did he have his flaws of course he did but this is a guy that felt he had let his country down in a uh military this is World War I uh he makes a mistake leading the Navy and he says okay I know exactly how to come back from this I'm going to even though he could have just gone back to England he says no put me on the front line and so he goes to the front line and he said other people didn't want to walk with him on the night patrols because he would just talk out loud and they're like bro we're going to get shot like what are you doing and he he uh said to his mother I have such a need to earn a reputation for physical courage that I'll basically do anything and so he stays in the front line multiple times narrow narrowly escapes getting killed sees countless people die around him and said to himself okay now after I forget how long but it was a long time again all voluntary uh he's like now I've earned my way back to Parliament and he goes back to England and re-engages in government life and I just thought whoa like I'm not even saying I could do it but I saying I admire it and I'm saying that men ought to have that kind of courage and that to me we've had 70 years where we really on our own soil where we have not had to face um violence and danger I'm not taking anything away from the men and women that have served um overseas obviously but there's something that still let our country's psyche be lulled into the sense that we don't need men standing on the wall protecting us and that worries me military meaning we don't need a military yeah basically I mean so uh I was quoting the uh line from A Few Good Men where he's like men like me and the thing is I hope what we were supposed to take away from that is that he's a complicated character and yes some of the things he did were despicable but he's also right and that's what keeps them from being a caricature is you you are asking people to risk being shot you're asking them to kill other people I mean it it is horrific horrific and there is there is an evolutionary seed inside certainly inside the male brain that makes that very possible you know if if there's anything like any man that wants to earn forget about you know should I go become rich should I go have a six-pack should I be in shape should I do this if you pursue anything if you earn moral Authority you you're going to have a lot of self-respect you'll have self-respect in a way you lead your wife and your kids you'll have self-respect in the companies you lead and you'll have self-respect in a community does this mean you're going to be a billionaire not necessarily doesn't mean you're going to be a millionaire not necessarily but if you earn the right and you have that moral Authority there's something to earning that that takes years that doesn't happen overnight when you're telling the story with Churchill there's something to it there's something to you know a guy setting the pace from the front there's something to earning the right you know there's something to this is why for me with the voting system that we have I think our voting system is totally screwed up in America couple areas of it I'm not a fan of it because for me I I would much rather have a 16-year-old kid who has a job working at mcdonals who made 20 grand last year and paid $3,000 in taxes I want him to vote over the 25-year-old bum living with his mom and dad not going to school not getting a degree not doing anything for him to vote I don't want this guy to vote I want to hear from this 16-year- old kid let this guy vote our system is too much of yeah here you go yeah here you go now earn the right to vote why don't you earn the right to vote well just by being an American don't I earn the right to vote I totally get it but you got to have some you like pull your little red wagon how are you going to contribute to society well that you're discriminating against dude I'm from Iran I was born in Iran half Armenian half a Syrian I'm a 1.8 GPA kid I'm a welfare kid I'm not a kid that came up here was going to be something but I wanted to come back and earn the right to say hey I want to earn this respect that America gave to me I want to go do my part I think we have to go more towards that in our house our kids you know everybody's talking right now about having a phone I don't know how many articles I've read that the more you delay your kids getting a phone the more happier they going to be by the way parents if you're watching this do yourself a favor and go watch the movie disconnect disconnect I I don't have a phone to see who's the actor but one of the guys is the I don't know if you've seen this movie or not disconnect is baitman what's his name is it Jason baitman is that his first name certainly is so the guy is that from Horrible Bosses yes okay so that guy this movie disconnect is a story about a boy who 12 13 14 year old kid goes to school there's a girl he likes these two bullies knows he likes the girl they create a a Facebook profile with the girl's picture befriend everybody in high school thinking that's the girl but it's not she DM's him on Facebook in the movie this is 11 years ago 2012 and says hey please don't tell anybody but I really like you I'm shy I don't want to tell others but I like the way you oh my god I've loved you and they're going back and forth she says I'll show you mine if I if you show me yours but it's the two boys so the boy send a picture of somebody else they got from a porn side he opens it so he sends it and then she says but I want to you're facing it as well so he does the next day he goes to school everybody's laughing at him because those two police took the picture spread it around the school then the boy runs away comes home is in his room listening to heavy metal music is trying to hang himself daughter or sister walks in prevents it from happening and saves his life and then they have to figure out how this happened because the parents weren't involved there's so many different things going right now in society that we we have to we have to be aware of people earning stuff phones are dangerous today that you know kids are picking up on what can happen to them if you do you have to educate them if you do you have to hold them accountable if you do you have to watch and see what's going on but in our family um everything starts with earning uh the currency in our house I've talked about this God knows how many times it's reading you read you earn the right the more you read the more you can ask for if your grades are solid you get to ask for more if it's not you don't and people say Pat how could you have standards like that when you had a one point GPA what does that have to do with anything I didn't have those standards I simply grew up in a house that nobody cared what my grades were they there was never an expectation of me doing anything like gr so guess what I'm going to rise up to the standards of whatever whatever it is as a 14 15 16 year old there was no standards so I was left alone in our house there is standards there is expectations you got to perform to it you do you get more so America started off as earning we got away from that because earn is now another one of these curse words that people don't like to talk about how could you say something like that how could you say something like that all you care about is money all you care about is this no man I cared about you being proud of the contribution you're making to society because the more proud you are of the contribution you're making to society the safer the place is going to be the less you contribute to society the more bitter you're going to be feeling like everybody owes you something and then you could do something very bad to everybody else so yes I think we need to go back to earning like when you're telling the story of Churchill to have that moral Authority it's very interesting to me there's something super telling in the fact that people ask you well whoa whoa whoa how can you ask them to keep their grades up when you didn't keep your grades up because that reveals their value system now I have a feeling that their value system they've never taken the time to lay it out and I think one of the biggest problems when I think about okay what's ailing men how do we get them back on track it's what is your value system what do you how do you believe a man ought to be write it out then at least we have something that we can actually talk about when some somebody says how can you do that you didn't have good grades what they're going for I assume is fairness the second your primary focus is on fairness and now we have a problem so the reality is of course life isn't fair and I don't mean that in any sort of cheeky way it's just if you're trying to optimize for fairness you're setting people up to try to say uh the game is always going to be controlled go out there you're going to be fine and then they're going to get into a fight and I don't mean a literal fight but they're going to get into a fight for their business a fight for a promotion whatever and it isn't going to play out fairly and if in that moment they're emotionally devastated because they've been taught that everything revolves around fairness they're going to be in trouble if on the other hand we and this is very specifically what Tom Billy wants people optimizing for what is effective so you have to have a goal you have to know what your goal is what am I aiming at and then you're going to judge everything by whether or not it's effective did it actually get me towards my goal now I'm going to assume that your goal is Honorable if it's not then we already have a problem but assuming that your goal is Honorable now you can just is believing this doing this whatever is it going to move me towards my goal if yes I'm going to do it if not then I'm not do you know Jeffrey Canada oh Jesus I've got to meet somebody that can help me get this guy on the show I've been trying and trying and trying and I have no idea that he will agree with me on anything however he has created the most effective school for kids so he uh he will go into an underserved area and in the same building that the school is already being run at and they're delivering kids that are like three years below and reading and graduating levels just absolutely atrocious he'll go into the same building with the same kids randomly select students so it's not even like a merit based anything randomly select students and then put them into a merit based school system and now it's like are you following our discipline rules are you doing your homework are you getting your grades like all of that and if you do you stay and if you don't you're out dude the outcome by being regimented by being disciplined by saying you are going to live up to these standards and of course I'm sure they do it in a way that gets the kids [ __ ] excited the kids aren't like oh man like I have to pay attention it's like hey if you learn this stuff you can control your life you can get out of this neighborhood you can go on to do whatever the hell you want and that kind of because again I I need to interview this guy to make sure my breakdown Jeffrey Canada to make sure my understanding of what he's done is accurate but from what I can tell a big part of what he's doing is Sid stepping the um the unions and so if he's got a bad teacher bye like you have to be good you have to be performant and so they just churn out graduates at like an insane rate it it's startling and remember these are the same kids that before they got moved in were failing just abject failures they do it in the same building it's absolutely bananas and that to me says especially at that age structure discipline the right value set and helping people tap into um I I have no reason to believe he would use these words these are now my words and my interpretation of this that when you can show somebody how to generate ferocity in a controlled manner oo now you've got something now you've got something but most people can't find that gear yeah that's pretty wild but at the same time I'm not surprised right I'm not surprised where a you know Bill Walton who's a hippie goes into a system that they have with UCLA and he comes in with his beard and his long hair and he says hey uh John Wooden says uh go get a haircut and then come back you got to shave your beard and you got to cut your hair or else you're not playing he said I'm not getting a haircut no problem you ain't playing he so what are you talking about listen kid I know you're the number one pick in the country today cuz you're the best center in America today you're not going to play for this team he says I got on my bike when I cut my beard when I cut my hair came back and I think they ended up winning the champion National Championship one or two of them but when John Wooden died I was at the Ronald Reagan Library in UCLA I think it's one of those in in uh LA and uh uh one of my friends Dudley Rutherford is there and we're in the waiting room we're having a conversation about to make a big decision in my life this has got to be I could even tell you date it's got to be between June to September of 2009 when raikan died has to be around those when John Wooden died and uh uh uh no it's yeah somewhere around that season anyways maybe couple years after that so I'm sitting there and I'm just watching former UCLA players 67 68 69 showing up coming down the elevator they're crying leaving coming on the elevator they're crying here's a man that impacted their lives if you ever read books on him his Pyramid of Success and things that he did fascinating this guy lived up to 99 years old because of how many people's lives he changed but what we don't want as a young man as a young boy that person that disciplining us eventually ends up being exactly what we want I'll give you one here depending on the levels of audacity from the kid I'm 18 years old I'm in the Army we're just talking about the sound of flight here and myself and three other kids were from New York we're all acting like we're tough guys we're not tough guys but we're acting like we're tough guys like that story you were talking about earlier you use a certain phrase that hey you know they're loud but it's not really they're not going to do anything we're thinking we're gangsters we're tough guys all this stuff we're fighting each other in the laundry room hitting each other all this stuff we don't have a clue what we're doing with fighting we just have a lot of testosterone but we're not listening to this guy drw Sergeant Green one day he asks us to get into the hve he said I'm going take you guys to place get in there we get in there no Prime we're driving to the back 40 30 minutes 40 minutes we never been here before he goes into a place it's not on a road cool pulls up gets out it's not saying anything to us picture a guy that moves slowly like Bruce Lee okay think about when he's not fighting he's just moving like that takes his jacket off his bdus takes his hats hat off takes his uh uh dog tag off and he says who want wants to go first we're like what do you mean I said who wants to go first I said D AR what are you talking about he says if we fight here no one will ever know but we're going to fight who wants to go first he's 5'8 okay we're all big guys all right but we have no clue what this guy's background is but he's very confident so one by one by one we go on there casually one by one by one he beats the living [ __ ] out of us except he's got one rule doesn't hit us anything up here everything is here we're all on the ground begging him to stop he took it to levels where he knew we were going to be able to do pt the next day but not to the point where the Public's going to know what just took place and then we're done he says okay you sure you guys are tough guys no Dr Sergeant you guys going to be good moving forward yes Dr Sergeant you guys are gangsters no Dr Sergeant we're privates get in a hum let's go back we got on a hum we went back back let me tell you I wish they would have recorded it there's a picture of me standing next to him um with me and my dad you could tell in that picture who ran the show you could tell who was the alpha he was the alpha you know what that 18-year-old kid needed that 18-year- old Patrick that's exactly what he needed I needed order he was the first guy I faced that I couldn't get away with everything I was doing he wasn't afraid of me he put me in my place boys need that God knows how many boys in know because let you say that doesn't happen in my life we're not having this conversation today let you say I'm just like a regular guy I don't get that discipline from somebody that challenges me and he doesn't care from parents got a divorce he doesn't care where I'm from he has no sympathy for me he's trying to lead me that's his job to make sure soldiers are solid so when War happens somebody like me is going to be able to stand up to the enemy but today that would never fly today he'd go to jail today he'd be written about all over the place today they would make a movie about him and I would get a from Disney saying it's so unfortunate that he discriminated against you that you're Iranian Armenian Assyrian and you're Brown that's why he did that we should go sue the Army and we should make a movie about this and turn him to be a villain he was not a villain he was a leader he he he made the world a better place by checking me very quickly at 18 years old so as you're telling these stories and you're going through Jeffrey Canada maybe his approach is a different approach maybe he's not going to use the approach that jur Sergeant Green used with us but at the same time we need more people like I don't know who he is I don't know his standards but based on who you're telling me a guy like that we need more men like that in America yeah I'm with you so how do we get going back in the right direction in fact talk to me about the military so um what's your confidence level in our current military you know there are certain things that I talk to my boys about that I don't want my wife around and she doesn't want to be around I said babe this is between me and them you can't be here right now I got to talk to these guys and I will talk to them okay and she respects it and we do our thing um we got a couple rules in the house I don't give the girls poow they don't get poww what are you saying powpow powpow that's what we call in our house it's called papow they don't get spanking they don't get anything the always it's a different story they don't get it anymore but they know what can come um and when I need to talk to these boys to put them in their place I have to have the conversation privately what's the point if you've never been in the military if you've never been to war you you have no understanding of what it takes to prepare somebody to defend you have no idea what it takes to get somebody to defend you've never done that before so what does it mean in war when the other guy is trying to kill you there is no hey man do you have your mask on cuz Co it could spread how often are you checking your credit score afraid of identity theft or account breaches we all use the internet every single day for important things like Personal Banking and remote work so why not protect yourself with our sponsor Aura 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mind either surrender or I'm killing you that's what happens in war so how do you psychologically prepare somebody for that well maybe we should just prevent people from going to war totally agree I'm not for it I'm glad we didn't have it for few years just all of a sudden when we don't have fear respect and admiration for a leader in America we have more Wars okay everybody thought the last three years were're going to be friendly and peaceful and we were all going to get along forget about us getting along in America the world can't get along the last three years right so how do we get back to it we get back to it by the following manner you got 50 employees here give or take uh based on what I what people told me and you build a good business and you're doing very well okay how many times Tom matter of fact let me ask a question a different way how many people including Quest including all the businesses you've ran how many people have you hired person actual employees that you personally have hired I've interviewed 1500 people okay more now because that's the when I clocked that stat it was like five years ago but so yeah I've interviewed 1500 I've had 3,000 employees I was involved in hiring probably 30% of them directly fantastic you you were the COO or whatever role you CM or Co I think one of those roles last you told president okay so president has one of the hardest jobs because you're the COO and your your Ops your data you're all of that stuff okay how many HR managers have you interviewed oh Jesus um interviewed probably 25 okay so watch this how many have you hired or have you had uh four okay so did you ever have an experience when you interviewed a your first HR manager where the next one this one didn't work it prompted you to ask two additional questions on this one that you didn't ask on this one and on the third one you ask better questions than the second one and on the fourth one you ask better question then a third one right okay so first HR manager I'm hiring it's like we just need somebody to do the payroll you know total you know all this stuff and you know check GNA Insperity ADP who do we use and $39,000 and do this and okay great man I'm so glad we got somebody handling all this payroll and then hey we got a complaint here 401K benefits health insurance cost going up is this good I don't know and don't get car right next one we need a better one we need a better one we need a better one in Co covid happens we had a HR manager that was reactive to everything and it's the end of the world and it was causing everything in the office to be chaotic I said this is not going to work out so I'm interviewing people and here's how I'm interviewing people I said hey uh Mary just out of curiosity let's just say in our licensing department we have 20 employees there one of the employees comes to you and says I got a cough and I'm not feeling well you tell this person to do what go get tested great they get tested they come back it's positive what do you do what are your next three moves oh send everybody home okay I can't hire you second person comes in and that just that answer alone I already know you're not fit for this job next thing I go comes in licensing department has 20 employees one of the employees comes to you they're coughing they're not feeling well you send them and they get tested positive what do you do what do I do yeah here's what I do I send an email to everybody in the company I tell them such and such as Co it if you'd like to leave you can take a laptop and go home and work okay great better answer but still a little bit too much third person comes in for the interview hey licensing department has 20 employees one person comes to you they're coughing they get tested positive what do you do um I ask who in that department has been with them if they have I tell them they can go get tested and then if that person's gone in the kitchen I'd say who else was around you when they were you know in the kitchen or the bathroom such such have you shook anybody S I shook I'll go to that person and tell them that and ask them if they want to get tested they can and then if they bring back negative come back to work if not totally get it okay reasonable we're hiring this person so I started hiring people based on case studies where am I going with this your question is how do we go strong like we used to because it's chaotic today here's a point next time you're picking a president think about your hiring somebody for a job and ask ask better questions one of the questions we need to hire today when we're wanting to pick our president or our governor is how to handle chaos based on what experience not based on what they've said based on what experience what have they gotten done what's their biggest accomplishment how have they helped the economy what do you want as a president do you want somebody that needs other people's money when they go run for office because the more people's money you take and the more they give guess what comes with that nobody gives $1 million and says what yo you know what you don't owe me any favors but here's $10 million don't worry about doing favors for me in your super pack I'll give you $100 million but I don't want any favors from you that doesn't work that way they'll give $100 million and there's three favors in the back and hey you got to change his three laws to prevent this guy from competing with me any president that ever ran that needed the least money the people of power hated I'll give you a list of these guys John F Kennedy his father funded 50 40 or 50% the entire thing and then people showed up a big number and by the way he said I'm willing to spend 100% of it when he became president who hated Kennedy it's a long list of people are you kidding me the oil people you got CIA you got Federal Reserve you want me to keep going you know the story you're a smart guy there a lot of people that don't like that guy why because he didn't take money from anybody that they needed they knew he could do it on his own Reagan his own financing okay you go Trump his own financing you go Hillary Hillary Clinton 100% other people's money Biden nearly 100% other people's money that's a bit scary okay Kennedy was a Democrat you know Trump is a republican it's not like you're talking left or right but maybe if like when when uh you you probably know the story with Steve Jobs when he started Apple when he started Pixar right he put $7 million of his own money into the company okay we're having a meeting yesterday with with Dana White at two-hour meeting nice meeting and we're having a couple other conversations about what could possibly happen business dealings all this other stuff guy comes to you he says Tom we want to raise $10 million for this project we're working on you're going to ask we're going to ask probably the same questions 80% will be the same question 20% is going to be different but what do you want to know so far who's the management team what's their past what's their background what's different about this what's their blue ocean do they already have a technology is there an MVP what kind of results do you have how many transactions have you like our app man we've done nearly 10,000 transactions 100,000 uh times this app's been downloaded we have Revenue in the seven figure Mark so we have a number to look at it now I come ask you for $10 million and you say okay what are you going to do with the $10 million I tell you oh that $10 million I'm going to take five off the table for myself and then we're going to take the other five and I'm going to give myself a $500,000 year salary and we're gonna pay this person this and then the last two million that's left we going to put into technology are you given that $10 million no now watch this what if I come to you and I say uh Tom here's a product this is our proof this is what we done this is our leadership team here's our salary we're paying ourselves right now the $10 million we raise from you and your Camp I'm taking zero salary I don't want any salary nothing and I don't want to take a penny off the table we're going to take that money to put into technology you're probably more open to the idea of entertaining this and if I finish up with the following thing and I tell you by the way Tom I have put $6.8 million of my own money into man you're not going to say 6.8 doesn't even want to take 6.8 right now of the money he put into the business he's willing to do it later on he wants to put 100% in and he doesn't want a salary and he doesn't want to change a salary in the company you're probably going to sit there and say what's the risk for me there isn't let's talk about it let's get lawyers involved let's look at the deck let's get deeper etc etc if a president comes in and they're running and they say I'm putting XYZ amount on my own money that kind of gets my attention because you're risking your own Capital as well we we have to we have to start asking um what do you have involved that you could lose if this thing doesn't work out you know as an investor we have to look at hiring our president and our governors in that way we've not been trained that way we've been trained to just he's been 30 years in public service is that a good thing or a bad thing think well you know 30 years in public service we ought to give him respect as a cop cool 30 years I get it respect 30 years in a military salute to you sir 30 years as a firefighter that's a tough job you've been 30 years as Congress what have you done for the economy who's your funders who's giving you money we have to ask better questions now most people don't want that conversation to be taking place but I think our interview process of whoever we pick that come with the policies that's leading to the catastrophes we're experiencing we have to be a little bit more selective of the presidents and the governors we choose let me ask you do you see because I think one of the real um one of the real roads maybe it's a 0.1% chance maybe it's a 70% chance uh what do you think the odds that we are already in some sort of Roman Empire like decline meaning already in it in that it will happen in the next 10 to 15 years um I don't I don't know if we're there I'm not in I'm not in the Doom and Gloom yet why because um the great thing about capitalism is what here's the best thing about capitalism capitalism prevents you from doing stupid things because it's going to hurt your capital okay when I recruited sales people over the years I gave score there's a scoring system in this book choose your enemies wisely on who you can have your running mates 15 qualities for running mates and you score them based on six different qualities okay I would look at guys and I would say which one of the people I work with is going to give me the least amount of headaches and here's what I learned okay extremely good-looking guys and girls single in their 20s gave me the biggest headaches why CU everybody wanted to be with them and testosterone level's high at that level and guess what they're going to fool around you may be high one month and kill it next month you're dating three girls in the office and one of my best girls who made a lot of money last year you just broke her heart you left her for another girl she can no longer come to the office cuz she's embarrassed and she left us to another company so do that for about 3 years and then go see 17 therapists who have no clue what sales is like then you're going to realize I have to change my Approach then I'm sitting there and saying man that guy over there is so boring dude he is so boring nothing's exciting about him but he went from making $500 a month selling Insurance to $1,000 a month 3 months later to making $2,000 a month 3 months later to making $4,000 a month but a year later then he's making $6,000 a month 6 months later then a year later he's making $8,000 a month then three and a half years later he's making $118,000 a month steady man you are there's nothing about you that inspires me but you know what here's what I learned he was married and he had kids so what's the point he has to make it work he has to make it work cuz he has to protect those two kids that he has he has a mortgage he has to make it work he can't go screw around he's married the likelihood of him going and clubbing and partying with all the other single people and smoking and doing ecstasy is lower so I realized I have to invest my time in people who are the most bankable longterm stable home stable relationship more things to live for more things to work hard for more things that'll prevent you from making stupid decisions perfect now bring that into the Roman Empire following all this other stuff okay Jamie Diamond's not going to want to screw up what he's doing and his legacy is going to matter to him because there's no way in the world he's going to let Sandy wild be able to say I told you guys that guy fed he was a nobody he's not going to let that happen and he's running the most you know company that every day7 trillion dollar they see come in and out JP Morgan Chase right um Apple Amazon Gates Microsoft these guys have assets are they going to let something crazy happen to it I don't know musk who is standing up against the establishment he's not okay with what the establishment is trying to do and with social media a lot of this bullshit's being exposed whether it's talking about ESG and what Black Rock and you know they're trying to do or open Society Foundation or these Dei scores CI scores which California is famous for they're getting exposed right and people are talking about it so social media is allowing us to hold people accountable I don't know if you saw what just happened right now this week with Supreme Court having a discussion to say social media companies cannot take anything off their websites whoa this week so censorship at the highest level you don't have the right to take anything down people can post whatever they want that's crazy if we go that direction was that a preliminary preliminary it's not done yet no it's fully preliminary you got to look into it yes so you got my attention so so because Supreme Court is now what 54 right so now it's kind of like they can impose and kind of push the envelope there okay and they can protect sanity in America with some of the ways that businesses have been bullying people during covid Co what it did do which was great it was so awesome in one area you know what it was what's that quote you know absolute power you know uh reveal what this person's driven by right you know and and Lincoln said if you want to test someone's character give him power and see what they do guess what during covid who did we give power to fouchy CDC California New York uh governors of some states had led too much better they were like Emperors pretty much you know hey if somebody in La you see them without wearing a mask text this word and we'll find them and D what are you talking about you're paying people in LA to snitch on other people it's a part-time job what do you do for living I snitch I make six grand a month really yeah what an incredible way of making money so during covid if we're not oblivious and not naive we realize what the people of power really wanted to do and we saw that in Europe everybody's walking around with their covid passport and they're kind of doing this kind of stuff um so to me it was fantastic to really see them show their cards oh this is what you're trying to do to America we're not going to let that happen what did that do they got guys like Rogan to flip I'm no longer on your side you got guys like Elam oh so you were full of [ __ ] the entire time I thought you were trying to do something good got it I'm not part of your Camp I'm gonna go by Twitter Scott Galloway this guy's full of [ __ ] Professor Galloway there's no way in the world he's going to buy he's bluffing all of you he's fooling all of you there's no way he's going to buy Twitter Elon Musk bought 100% of Twitter and now Scott Galloway on Bill Mah last week with Andrew Kom saying we need to show some Grace we were wrong during during Co we were wrong during Co I'm sorry Professor Galloway did you show Grace did you show Grace oh now you want Grace but you never gave everybody Grace and you're this professor from New York who's had exits of a couple companies and you've not taken salary from you Berkeley respect you you simply go and do the work I've seen the money you've given to Berkeley $ three and a half $4 million but you don't have any Grace you didn't show people Grace so what happened now but it was beautiful you saw what universities were doing Harvard got exposed during Co no no more campus you guys got to go home okay so does that mean the annual tuition is still 60,000 or is discounted to 20,000 no no still 60,000 what for what you're not giving me food you're not giving me place to stay you still want me to pay $60,000 yes we do Bingo you just showed your true colors beautiful that was fantastic hey we want you guys to go and work from home really yes all right [ __ ] so I'm living in New York I'm working for XYZ company they're pay me 250 Grand a year I can't live normal life in New York I'll go live in Florida work from home except now I'm not paying the taxes oh no no no no we don't want you to work from home why now I can work from home from Florida no we want you to come back to New York now got it so you screwed up the policies but now I'm in Florida I'm not coming back to New York because I actually love Florida and I'm stuck here and people from California went and work from home in Texas and now they're saving a 133% now they're not coming back so they were like oh people going to come back they never came back right the people never came back back so this this Empire is falling the great equalizer Tom is social media if social media sticks around and they can't silence people from sharing their thoughts and opinions I'm not talking about people getting up there and saying we should go do this I'm not talking about that I'm saying hey what about this and we start questioning things then the people of power that revealed their cars not everybody but the establishment that wants to control more the people they're like yeah we're not we're not doing that bro you know what do you do if you're playing poker with somebody okay and you're going for the river and you didn't hit you know FL you know whatever uh uh pick something you didn't hit your three of a kind okay you missed everybody you got two pair it's a jack you got a jack you got a jack on the board all of a sudden you're about to Bluff the guy maybe go in 50% of what the chip is you know there but one card accidentally falls on the ground and you see it it's an Ace and there's an ace under what are you going to do what are you going to do you already know you lost so guess what the establishment revealed their cards and we saw it and if we don't realize it and do something with it and they still move their agenda it was our fault all along but if we site and we unify and we come together saying hey guys we the people have the power they ain't going to push us around we love this country country let's fight for what makes this country great let's go and support what this country was great about let's bring it back to that let's be a little bit more responsible let's have better incentive programs let's expect better policies from them let's hold them accountable to what they say they're going to do now we can go in the better Direction and we encourage certain people to run and get involved in politics and office so I don't think it's going to happen because I think on one end capitalist the rich people are not going to want to lose all them all their money so they're eventually going to be like yeah I don't support what you're doing Soros yeah I don't support what you're doing Charlie Munger said something very interesting he says look I love Larry thinkink but I don't want him as my Emperor what a thing to say fer here's a guy that's 94 years old I don't know how old he is but mid 90s he saying hey I respect Larry f but I don't want him as an emperor because they know what Larry think's trying to do people are not dummies right so those types of people I think are going to fight each other enough and if we keep our eyes open this will continue to be the greatest country in the world and hopefully even better if we rise up to it if not the best days are behind us if we don't learn our lesson from the last three years it's interesting I have a slightly different take if I put my I'm paranoid hat on uh so I think that at some point we started attacking the very idea of structure itself which is how you end up getting into the gender conversation and once you start if it takes hold and it's a very difficult argument to figure out fure out how to be both compassionate and draw hard boundaries you put lines and boundaries and one thing we didn't talk about is you create rituals that create lines that I'm no longer a child I'm now an adult like really clear demarcation points instead of like oh transition effortlessly anytime from anything to anything it's one of those ideas that sounds awesome and it sounds loving and it sounds caring but the outcome of it is is to tear at the um infrastructure that holds the society up and so it's pretty interesting this is something that um Douglas Murray who I have not ever sat down with but I'm very familiar with his work he's talked a lot about Camille laalia uh has talked a lot about this that in end stage Empires they become obsessed with pulling apart the um structures of the society and it tends to manifest as a conversation around the ultimate structure which is male female so this is one of those it's a a positive feedback loop and again I'm I'm just wearing my paranoid hat I'm I'm not betting against America I love it I want to be here um in fact I I this is going to be weird I can't believe I'm about to say something that's going to sound political it is not meant to be political but I want to fly an American flag I want to remind people that this is a beautiful country and that it's worth fighting for ideals of personal freedom etc etc uh and that the way that we rebuild build is by putting structure in place that has a metric associated with it so we can see whether we're moving in the right direction or not that would be the the thing so anyway it this feels like a positive feedback loop I don't have a clear picture on how at a societal level we unwind it but I do understand it at the individual level and the things that we as an individual person can do uh to make sure that we are doing something that will be very sweet you're very sweet and here what I mean by it um I am so confused when I hear a guy who created thousands of jobs created a billion dollar of value for people who owned Equity that you're worried about saying I don't want to be political about the American flag because it may offend somebody no I didn't say that I know that but what I'm saying to you is even the fact that you gave that qualification to me is um is where I uh I don't think we need to be there here's what I mean by I'm talking at this Christian School that my kids go to and the the dean what is what is above a Dean whatever the what do they call the person that runs the school what's I thought it was Dean no there's one other guy there's something about it that uh whatever it is the dean reports to this guys do you guys know what that's called or no not principal it's a different name they have for him Headmaster is it Headmaster sure okay so Headmaster and uh he gets up there and he's giving this talk to 600 kids and he's bringing me up Veterans Day he's like well you know America's not perfect and we have this and we have flaws and all this like peak of Co like a year and a half ago I'm standing there I'm like dude like where have you lived you know have you lived in Iran have you lived in other places like what what they think about this place and I get up and I and I say first of all thank you for this and B blah blah blah and I said America is the greatest country the world okay and you know we don't care if you're a Christian I don't know what your faith is we're getting along I'm Middle Eastern bro you're white every time we're together we get along best conversations when I'm talking to you fantastic convers I got so much respect for you to build what you build your wife came in sweetheart gave me a hug warm welcome your peers your people here how you're working how you're moving what you're doing having a blast creating great content great conversation but I do think we need to we need to have some um pride in how great of a country we live in I think we need to sell it I had Governor Des sentus on the podcast two days ago we did an hour live podcast he flew into the office and it was a great conversation he's one of the candidates that's U you know potentially presidential candidate and I said can you sell America please sell America and you know he did his best to sell America in his point of view but I think we need to do a better job selling America saying selling the ideas of America here's what happened the last couple years I'm having this conversation I don't know if I'm having this conversation with Rogan or whoever I'm having a maybe it was on the r yeah it's on the Rogan podcast we're talking on communities that hurt America okay I said one is the tolerant Christians who hurt America they're like it's okay it's okay it's you're either a Christian or you're not you can say whatever you want about Muslims but what guess guess what Muslims are they believe their religion okay and you're not going to be able to say things about their Prophet you can't go say something about Prophet Muhammad see what happens go say something about Jesus see what happens yeah it's okay he's just upset you know okay cool all right the other one is Libertarians because Libertarians who are like do your thing bro as long as you do your thing I'm good do your thing do your thing do your thing do your thing do your thing all right now they're doing their thing with your kids now what do you want to do it's too late it's in your school well no no no I didn't say that well I'm sorry you said libertarian to each his own well no no no that doesn't mean you come and do this to my kids no it's called as long as you do your thing I'm good to do your thing they came back and haunted you through your kids no I'm not cool with that well then maybe maybe you're not really a Libertarian maybe there's a different element to your politics that you got to really reconsider the the the wealthy you know conservatives who raise good kids who all of a sudden have all this money but they're afraid God forbid it leaks that they have an element of conservative oh my God I may lose my AUD I may lose this I may L and go we won't be invited to those parties and they're not going to like us I'm today I'm having a conversation with Chris CUO Cuomo and I have turned into very good friends we don't agree together politically we have a great conversation together I'm at his house in in uh Sag Harbor and we have lunch and we go to his place and all of a sudden he surprised me with a called with Robert dowley Jr hey what's up pbd what's up Robert dowy and I say hey kids come see what this is oh my God it's imagine a reaction of kids who watch Iron Man die and they're like crying saying he's alive he's alive he's alive right here in the flesh but we're having these conversation I'm sting thinking to myself did these guys know my political positions that I take and we're getting along it's okay it's not the end of the world this is what I believe in you know but these Republicans that conserv that took their money and they're like look as long as we protect our money just buy real estate have some assets but don't do anything with all this money we have no problem the other guys went and bought New York Times the other guys went and bought wo Time Magazine China owned Forbes 95% of Forbes was owned by China and 2021 International woman of the year is who Hillary Clinton what she doesn't run a business how about Oprah winfy how about Cheryl Sandberg you give it to Hillary what what did she do in business Forbes is all business the guy who ran Forbes the son the guy who started it was his father but the guy that ran it that took it to the next level he had a jet Google this it says capitalist tool his jet on the corner the name of the plane was capitalist tool his yacht it would said capitalist tool the helicopter said capitalists tool these are the tools a capitalist use he had all biggest collection of those eggs you know the Russian eggs there's a name for those Russian eggs Fab Fab that was estimated to be half a billion dollars whoa this he had he had 15 of them his best friend was Elizabeth Taylor best friend for his 70th birthday party if you've never seen this guy's documentary his 70th birthday party everybody's there you know what he gives to everybody on his birthday party a Rolex who does that this guy's a capitalist at the core and guess what we admired back then wow life of the Rich and Famous today is life of the poor and the Miserables no we're admiring things that people are grown up to want to pursue no we got to edify the guys that busted their taals to build a company we got to edify the people that are creating economy we got to edify people that are going out there being good net positive to society we need more Tom billes in America but those three communities and I can keep going with a couple other communities but I'll stick to those three communities I think they have they have they have uh they have given others a lot of uh uh Power as a as a as a guy who was an atheist for 25 years of my life in the Army I've told this story before in the Army I was invited to go to this uh uh uh camp with this man 70-year old man and you know we were able to jump into this Lake and play pool and all this stuff but every night for one hour he had to sit down with him and listen to him read the Bible and I would sit in the back I'm like dude you can tell me about Bible all you want I want you go back to Iran and see what I saw when we got bombed go ahead go see what I saw go see the parks I used to go to and these buildings I were torn down when I see what's going on right now in Palestine Israel I live this I the whole alarm T Joe T Jo ales attention attention red signal means that planes have crossed the border the enemy is here you know what that does when I listen to this I go to YouTube sometimes and listen to to see how quickly I can go to the 8-year-old kid and see it the other day my sister sends me a picture says hey this is me and you at 8 years old you remember this I said okay what's the big deal with this picture we got a lot of pictures like this she says you know how you always talk about the windows dad used to tape look at the windows I see the windows it's the tapes from my dad they put the tapes because when bombs would explode they didn't want the glass to explode all over us they wanted to stick together that's what we did in Iran and you know so today when you see this whole concept of you know I'm at this camp in the military you know he gives me a Bible he says this my parents gave me this Bible December 24th of 1974 and son I think you need this more than me I said sir I promise you're giving it to the wrong guy he says just please take it from me you need this I said I don't need this keep it it's a gift your parents gave you I have the Bible till today he gives it to me I don't read the Bible it sits at my barracks in the Army but I started praying three times a week three times a a day every day and here's how my prayer was God I don't believe you exist I think it's for weak people but if you do exist cool let's see what you got if you don't it's going to feel good talking to myself anyways because I know nobody in boot camp now from Iran there's not a lot of Iranians in boot camp So eventually that idea of having faith is what Hitler feared he did not want people to have faith the whole Dietrich Bon hoofer story if you read what he did he didn't want people to have faith he wanted to eliminate having faith does that remind you of anything we can't pray anymore we can't do the pledge allegiance when kids go to school oh but we should learn about lgbtq stuff yeah it makes a lot of sense let's take out faith and let's replace it with somebody may be gay you may be gay your mommy and daddy don't know so guess what happens parents in Florida are saying we don't feel comfortable because our kids want to transition and Governor the santis doesn't allow so we're moving to California they're coming to your state and people have started making decisions saying it's okay if they take these pills under 18 years old what are you talking about what are you talking about so an under under 18 years old I can't own a gun I can't join the Army I can't under 16 I can't own a car I can't have a driver's I can't drink alcohol but I can change my sex you tell me somebody who has Common Sense sell that to me over 18 go do it totally get it under 18 in what logical manual of a group of 100 people people that can reason they could say this makes sense there is no none of that it's gaslighting so we have to sit there and listen to it and say and by the way I know this is off brand for you this is not the kind of conversations you have on on you know I don't want you to get uncomfortable but I am completely comfortable for me I think we need to go back to square one we need to go sit there and like I was having this conversation with a group of people who are not Christians and I said you got five countries to live in where do you want your kids to be raised a country that's atheist they don't believe in anything a country that's Catholic a country that's Muslim a country that's this a country that's a country country that's Christian what do you want to raise your kids where do you want to raise your kids they're like well probably more country that's this okay why why because the values and principles are XYZ great no problem even we had a the debate the they had two Muslims and had two Christians on a podcast and they're debating each other and the guy's talking about all these things and then I said listen I I I have a lot of Muslim friends I great conversations why don't people immigrate to Muslim countries why do Muslims come to America I don't know why do we in America have all these different denominations all over the place nobody cares why don't they move in to these other places oh it's purely economical okay why aren't we moving into many of these other places that economically they have a lot of oil why are we not doing that well it's this this that totally get it by the way to the Christians who get upset and like well you know but you don't understand what Muslim are doing and they're going to do this and eventually they're going to run America of course they are how could you say that they're having 2.9 kids per women and the rest are not not even close so mathematically yes we're eventually going to have a Muslim president if we haven't already had one eight years ago we're going to have Congress being controlled by them and that's also Senate on the competitive side instead of being upset about it why don't you start having more kids we're not having enough kids so the people that should be having more kids are not having enough kids and the people that shouldn't be having kids are having way too many kids this is also a problem that we're not talking about so to me we have a lot of issues some we can address the next 3 to five years some that we can fix and make progress on the next 10 years some of it's going to be 20 and then some of it is what Bray doio talks about and that he's talking Investments but I'm talking a cycle of 50 years that it's going to take us but these are the types of things that we should have open dialogue about we should be comfortable selling uh America we got 53 million immigrants in America more than any other country in the world and it's not even close there's a reason for we can ask the question why maybe we offer the best thing in the world and we need to protect of that and people who come here it shouldn't be I'm having this conversation with one guy on my podcast I said if an immigrant comes to America who owes who does America owe immigrant something or is the Immigrant that owes uh the the country something oh America ow The Immigrant America doesn't ow immigrant nothing nothing the person coming here owes America everything cuz they let you in that's who owes the other person well no you you're how could you think like that you're thinking like what they did a 100 years ago no no it's called logic it's called logic you're allowing me to come into your Homeland and you owe me dude you don't owe me I owe you thank you so how do you show gratitude how are you going to show gratitude so you're an immigrant Now in America how are you going to make America a better place like like what we had before when you would go to you know uh um what's that island that you would go to and you would show what talents you're bringing and that would let you into America LS Island LS Island right okay so all what do you bring to the table you know nothing I'm just excited about the benefits you guys offer but what do you bring to the table we need to kind of present this argument why should you earn the right to come to America and what can we to get the best immigrants coming here what can we do to get the most educated people coming here who are from IIT graduate people what can we get the people that are best in math that are bringing something here these are very basic Common Sense conversations that the last three years people from Academia and universities have confused the hell out of kids where kids coming out of college today are questioning common sense at a guy that's one of my seet executives every time I would talk to him I would say how's your daughter doing how's your daughter doing how's your daughter doing he says breaks my heart I said tell me why my daughter and I were like this I spent $200,000 sending her to this XYZ School in Illinois every year my daughter hated me more by the 4th year she didn't even want to come back to the house she moved to LA wow I said you got to be kidding me he says Pat I spent $200,000 to lose my daughter now here's the thing odds are my daughter's probably going to come back but she may come back at 32 I could lose 10 years of my daughter's life at this age at this age I will look at his face this is a performer this is a rockstar he's a leader he's a mul he's had multiple exits he's a leader successful guy but you could see the anguish on his face that's not cool that's not cool so you want me to send my kids to you and you pin them against me and I'm the one that paid the money to go to your college that's not okay while you're sitting on $60 billion of money in your endowment that you can afford to pay every single students's College tuition for the next Hundred Years yet you want us to pay you $60,000 per and I stay home instead of go to your college yeah you you showed us who you are and I I am not going to forget it I'm going to impose and I'm going to keep talking about this stuff and enough people are going to sit there and say that was an interesting conversation you know maybe we need to think about that babe did you hear what he just said did you hear what she just said and then collectively 2 3 4 5 10 years down the line like I used to not be awakened to see what's really taking place cuz my head's down building a business I don't care about politics I'm just simply trying to build a business and then all of a sudden you're like no man I got four kids an 11 10 and a 7-year-old and a 2-year-old we got to kind of be involved I know I went off tangent but when you made that comment about I don't want to be political America I think you're the prime example of what makes America great and we need more people like you are men today weak and if so what can we do about it if you look at data yes from 19 60 till today our population has increased around 90% but in 1960 7 million people used to live by themselves today's 38 million W 442 increase right so what happens when we're alone you don't have competition kicking your ass challenging you pushing you having all that stuff taking place standards today are slightly uh lower uh you can look at strength with men with boys what they have going on uh then there's another data that's deeply concerning when you look at from 1940 the percentage of kids that were born to a single mother in 1940 was 4% 1940 4% that means 96% of kids that were born in 1940 were born in a household of a mom and a dad in today we went from 4% in 1940 to 40% today wow that's 10x a data we do not want to be bragging about by the way worldwide we're the worse when you look at data China India they keep it together we don't keep it together Middle Easterns they keep it together Muslims keep it together but in America we've gone a complete different way now some people will say this was FDR's bad policies because the whole welfare state some will say this was Lyndon Johnson but regardless who we choose to blame and put the responsibility on here's what we will look at a father offers two things that naturally comes to him when it comes onto boys so when we're talking choose your enemies wisely I'm talking to Tom Brady and usat Tom when I look at somebody that does something very big they have three things in common one they experienced unconditional love so somebody that no matter what you did you got arrested oh my God babe are you okay what happened in jail did they do anything to you like you can't do nothing wrong in this person's eye like you actually understand I cannot believe this human being loves me and I can go to jail you still love me freaking awesome right we need that the second thing we need is an unbelievable amount of pain from someone you loved meaning no matter what you and I do we can never make this person happy you can win Mr Olympia you can become a billionaire you can become a president you can become whatever you want to become this to this person's eye it's always going to be like yeah whatever but yeah whatever so you're you're never going to win this person and your entire life you're pursuing converting this person and baptizing them into finally celebrating your success right and the last thing was you choose your enemies wisely Brady chose his enemies wisely Dana White chose his enemies wisely you got a lot of these guys that you look at so where am I going with this you come back to the boys you're asking about young boys not having a father father gives one of three elements that you need as as a kid growing up you have to be loved but you need somebody you fear and you need somebody you respect if a boy is raised most boys you get to an age I remember one time I'm 14 years old my mom is hitting me and I'm like what are you doing your hand hurts what are you doing so last time she hit me cuz it it hurt her when she's hitting me I'm 14 years old it's doing nothing to me that was the last time I said you can hit me all you want it's not going to do anything to me so what happened in that moment I no longer feared her I no longer saw from an authority place I just saw from place that I love her not fear not respect like you're going to make me do something you can't make me do anything I'm coming on at 10:00 my parents were divorced I'm coming home whatever time I come home where were you not your business I'm home right that that kind of respect that a kid will have but a father if you have fear respect and love that boy has a highest likelihood of doing something big with his life our current incentive program in America our current tax system in America doesn't reward husband and wives having kids together that decreases the chances of a boy being raised by a father what does it do produces Reckless criminals produces kids that don't have order produces kids that think they can do whatever they want to do and essentially they become net negative to society so you ask me the question I would say yes but it's a multi-dimensional answer yeah so when I think about what it takes to form a strong man in a time where the thought of power itself is considered negative so this would be now 23 24 years ago I created a domain called seeking power and I remember telling people about it in the beginning and there was just sort of an intuitive oh yeah I get it that's cool but somewhere over time that became like oh power like that's such a gross thing it's almost disgusting to want power I was caught so off by that because I had my head down I was building something and I was building things in a way that absolutely required aggression and power and when I look at people that want to do something big in their lives that aren't able to generate power they're not able to tap into aggression I'm like you're not going to be able to do the things you want to do you're going to have a sense of internal weakness um a sense of frustration not knowing how to make the things come true in your your life that you want to and then if you layer on top of that a victim mentality and somebody tells you no no no the problem is that somebody's holding you back or whatever you suddenly have a story for why you feel the way you feel but it's not the true story and so to me that creates this like death spiral of for forget like I'm not doing it as like a keep off my lawn thing but I'm really mortified by what is being pushed as like this is what we should aspire to and reading your book was really interesting because your book isn't about how to make strong men but the tactics of getting successful at building a business and obviously it's more Nuance than just building a business but it is an easy way to talk about it um you basically spend 300 Pages talking about how to cultivate capture and use aggression so walk me through what what is the trick that people are missing one do they need to uh understand power Revere power what is power you ever read the book power versus Force I'm I'm certain you read the book okay power versus force a guy like you good luck putting it down it's it's it's written for a guy like you so the author David Schwarz talks about different levels we go to where we calibrate at the bottom whatever these eight levels are you're trying to force life and then the next levels you actually start gaining power you start becoming powerful right so at the bottom the lowest level of calibration he talks about is shame then it's guilt aathy fear anger Pride desire like I desire drugs alcohol stuff like that first level of Consciousness that you start gaining power and control of your life is courage you have the courage to be wrong you have the courage to fail you have the courage to talk to people you disagree with courage then it goes willingness then it goes acceptance then it goes neut neutrality like I can stay neutral like you have a very high score if you look at the book your score is going to be high because you have courage you're willing you're able to stay neutral and process both sides of the story acceptance then it goes love joy peace Enlightenment and Enlightenment there's only been two or three they put at that level this is what you talking about Jesus people like that in regards to the aggression you're talking about or the the power why should somebody have you know fight for the power or how to go about getting the power it it it all comes back down to what level of a life you want to live okay I'm having a conversation with this guy and I said do you believe in God he said I don't believe in God I said okay so what is God everybody has a god it doesn't matter who you are you got a God no I don't yeah you do no I don't I don't I don't have a guy oh really no why are you building a YouTube channel with 4 million subscribers this is the guy I'm talking to you know who he is he why are you building something like this what what are you trying to get what are you seeking maybe your God is data for some people got his sex for some people got his porn for some people got his drugs or attention or whatever it may be right power is a similar way as well you know years ago Phil donu was interviewing Milton Freedman this we're talking 50 years ago this is in the 70s 7478 he's wearing a yellow if you put it I think it's like 43 minutes and Phil Donahue who at the time was a socialist you know it kind of came from that side he says so why do you think you know what do you think is the problem with all these greedy people in America and Milton fredman smiles and he says it's always the other fellow that's greedy right you're not greedy at all he's saying to him he said oh we're definitely not greedy here it's always the other person right everybody's greedy everybody's selfish everybody wants power everybody you know wants to get a certain level of attention everybody wants to win everybody wants affirmation to be affirmed and say you know what you're a leader you're a CEO you're a rockstar you're this we want that that is a form of us being almost proud of ourselves that our existence was worth it everyone's going through this journey how you go about it is trying to question everything you know I remember this whole concept of selfish now that guy is selfish that guy is selfish and then you'd say I'm not selfish and you would fight it you know what you got lucky I didn't get lucky you don't know how hard I work to be this and then eventually I'm like I'll dance with you you got lucky I agree you're selfish yeah you don't have anything to say because everybody is selfish everybody wants to be lucky I don't mind being lucky but here's what happened in the book there's a section where we talk about the selfish selfless score right what percentage of you is selfish and what percentage of you is selfless so we had a a focus group that we did and we're ask in a group we said what is a person who's a 100% selfless 0% selfish look like and what is a person who is a 100% selfish 0% look like then who is actually more of a net positive to society you know what conclusion we came with the person that's selfless probably smells doesn't take care of themselves they don't care about themselves they don't wear nice clothes they don't eat good food they don't take care of themselves everything's about other people it's in a state of Conformity and the other person that's selfish 100% probably doesn't make a good friend probably doesn't make a good spouse but they probably look good they probably smell good they probably make good money they probably eat good food they probably find a way to win do you want that person as your CEO no do you want that person as your husband or your wife no do you want that person as your president absolutely no but guess what individually just for the sake of selfishly not embarrassing themselves they're going to do things cuz it's all about them so then we broke it down and we said what level of calibration is good to be a SE of a company okay do do you need a 3070 30% selfish 70% selfless well no that's bad why because we need you to have Big Dreams we need you to be pursuing something we need you to be after something if you're not pursuing something why are you coming to work early why are you spending a weekend thinking about ideas you're not going to be thinking about that somebody's driving by the freeway the average person's like oh nice thing right there you're going to be like babe can you pull over let me go in there oh I just got an idea think about it look at it from this angle what if we did this to the company and what if we brought this product let's walk inside and see what this building looks like cuz you're constantly thinking about getting closer to the vision that you have so we learn the profile of somebody that is at the right scoring to be a leader is 7030 70% selfish desires you're going after Vision who you want to be the life you want to build then 30% is selfless that person makes for a good father that person makes for a good husband that person makes for a good leader that person inspires others to go that person challenges others that person's not going to get too content too comfortable so as we're talking about aggression or power or or any of that stuff you know somebody may be listening to this and they're going to say man you are not my cup of tea totally get it I'm not for everybody but the right person watching this they're going to be like that makes a lot of sense I've never seen selfishness explain that way before that makes a lot of sense I've never heard Milton Freedman explaining greed that way before that makes a lot of sense about power okay let me find a way for me to become a net positive to society and then you kind of go through that process but we got a lot of words that we have a hard time with because somebody told us it's a bad word you know be powerful have power be selfish you know greed no no no I don't ever want to have any of those and I don't want to be lucky when you break it down and you actually look at it people who ended up winning at the highest level they got lucky they seek power they had selfish desires they were greedy ended up having a life that they had and they were more of a positive to society than people who didn't have those four things they also inspire people there's to me I think what all this ultimately boils down to is nobody and I mean nobody wants to feel out of control and once you understand that to gain control of your life you must have at least Power by mind definition so my quick way of defining power is close your eyes imagine a world better than this one open your eyes and go gain the skill set necessary to actually make that world come true and so it's really a battle to get better at something that matters to you and serves yourself for sure but also other people and if you live in that Pursuit you will very quickly realize that you are up against the world's tendency to move towards chaos now people hate it when I frame it in that this is just the second law of Thermodynamics the world moves towards chaos that just is true it's entropy but I guess because it has a weird word attached to it people don't really stop to think about it but if you're trying to be an entrepreneur I will tell you there are two enemies that you're going to face your own mind and entropy and entropy as represented by uh your wife Falls ill at the worst possible time when you have a major presentation um you have a competitor that's trying to take you out you get sued by somebody uh in a moment of fragility whatever like there is going to be a Litany of problems every day is like getting kicked in the face and in those moments the only way to persevere is with a level of ferocity like you have to be able to push through those storms to inject enough energy into the system that you can bring order to an otherwise chaotic system and move it in the exact direction that you want it to go but to do that you really have to be able to get aggressive that's the the kindest word I will give to it you're very unabashed about talking about I'm using my own words but talking about aggression in your book what I call the dark energy um one do you agree that the reason that you the reason that I would want men anybody listening to this any man certainly out there anybody that's training you to um you should have a gear that is soft you should be able to be gentle I'm not trying to create um people that that only have one gear but one of your gears should be aggression Focus determination the ability to run through a wall to ensure that something gets done that will not happen by accident you're absolutely going to have to make that a value turn that value into a set of skills courage being one of them and then pushing yourself forward in a very specific way towards a very specific aim do you agree with that need or am I miss I love the way you put it I love the way you put it so the keyw here we use is business planning for the audacious few right audacious few audacious few it's not for everybody it's the audacious VI for example when you break down who you want to be on life okay I don't know if you're a sports guy or not you watch a sports team there's a guy that's just a Supporting Cast that's what he does that's the role he's going to play there's a guy that is coming off the bench and he does what he does then there's a guy that's the flag carrier to the best guy okay each team's guy a flag carry in a lot of places there was this player named Paul George he runs a podcast with uh one of my good friend Dudley Rutherford son Dallas they do a very good job together and they interview other uh basketball players and he said something so powerful in one of the podcasts he says look it took me years to realize I can't win a championship as a number one he says I've been the best player on a team I can't win a championship as a number one I can win a championship as a two and a three but I can't win as a one guess what he realized he has to be a flag carrier he's not a one this week I had Ronda santis on the podcast Governor Ronda santis right did you watch the whole thing cuz it's a pretty uh fiery podcast that caused you have so much content now that uh well and ended up causing the number two trending hashtag for two days did you guys end up arguing cuz the part I saw you guys were very cordial we we didn't end up arguing but I asked him a couple tough questions about marketing his boots and all this other stuff and a video of him Trump anyways it was it was a bunch of different things we talked about but when I'm talking to uh the stist I asked him the following question I said I think there's two different types of presidents and he says what type I said one is Alphas y Lincoln is the alpha ulysis ESR is the flag carrier he became a two-term president not a great president but he was not an alpha okay he needed Lincoln to be the flag carrier to Ike Alpha Nixon he was a flag carrier John F Kennedy Alpha LBJ took him out he became president allegedly you got Reagan Alpha okay senior is a flag carrier you got Obama Alpha Bill Clinton Alpha those two are alphas Trump Alpha George Bush the son flag carrier father lineage Prescott then you have Biden today he's a flag carrier he his way of becoming a president was Obama you're the greatest you're the best you're this you're that boom this is your opportunity for being loyal to me now I will come work for you you become the president right I ask Governor Des santis do you think you're the alpha or a flag carrier okay now his answer could be whatever he thinks it is but the market is going to determine whether he's an alpha or he's a flag carrier so what do you think he said Alpha well technically he said I'm a leader and by the way you may be an alpha in a room of 50 you may be an alpha in a company of a th000 you may be the alpha in a company of 100,000 you may be the alpha in a state of 30 million but you may not be the alpha in a country of 340 million Alphas have levels and it depends what level of an alpha you can be and that's very tough to swallow for everybody it's not for everybody and why is that here's why you said something very interesting you used a couple words and you said you know two reasons business all this stuff you know your wife gets sick and you're going to an appointment what do you do with that there is no manual that says hey when your wife gets cancer 19 steps on what to do next there is no such thing as that your your son just went through this here's a eight steps one there is no manual for that in life and by the way the people who went through those situations like a I recommended this book recently I read the book 2008 when it first came out uh by the coach of indet Indianapolis colds uh the book is called quiet strength Tony dunie okay I don't know if you know the story or not he's coaching the weekend of Super Bowl he's about to win his first Super Bowl ever okay his son dies at 23 years old Jesus his son dies at 23 24 years old there isn't a single person in the world that's expecting this guy to be there on Sunday to coach if he didn't what would you and I say we wouldn't judge him we like do it what are you talking about totally get it this guy chooses to show up to the game with a smile on his face he says cuz I believe he's in a better place he's with God right now now I'm at peace they win the game I got the chills all over my body he writes this book quiet strength Incredible Book I remember I heard this guy speak gave a talk when he came out and go explain that to somebody and say hey you should go coach nobody has the permission to tell anybody to go coach that's the individual's level of handling chaos pressure pain and everyone's different than that there's not a manual for that however where where I'm going with this on the alpha side is if you want to be the guy of the guys of other guys you can't go by the standard as everybody else does for example um world war II's taking place okay Chamberlain has doing what he's doing UK the most hated guy in that country is a journalist who talks [ __ ] about everybody okay who Chamberlain hates disgusted by him very arrogant very very cocky pompous sometimes if Twitter was around when Churchill was around he'd be on Twitter all the time that kind of a guy he had an opinion about everybody and he was only 5'6 you know what chamberlan has to do he has to beg Churchill to show up Churchill shows up the only man that was able to face the most feared man in the world was Churchill Churchill may be the reason why we're doing this interview in English and not in German today think about the power of that however the chills this guy Churchill that we're talking about was hated but he was a wartime leader when War took place everybody had to call the person they hate the most cuz they they knew they were not cut for that job it's not for them so there's the levels of alpha there's a levels of success you want in life there's a reason why Jordan said you know if you don't want to play you know but I'm going to win in the last St and he starts crying you know you're like dude I can see this guy's fire that's why there's only one mic that's why we were all blew to the screen for 5 weeks on Sundays watching two episodes from 8 to 10:00 and we were all blown away by how this guy was a wired but who got pissed off afterwards Scotty Pippen and then Scotty writes a book and in the interview he's being asked Scotty how do you want to be remembered and he's got a smirk on his face he says I want to be remembered as the greatest of all time dude you're not a greatest of all time you're top 50 see he forgot he was a flag carrier and he wanted the respect of this guy to have the respect this guy is not duplicatable that's a lot of effort so for somebody watching this again choose your enemies wisely but it's business planning for the audacious view not the timid majority it's not for everybody this is for the audacious view if you feel you're part of the audacious view this book's for you if not it's not for everybody this is admittedly meant to be inflammatory but I care so much about the answer to this that I like the inflammatory nature of the following question what should a real man be like I believe there are a set of things that I am perfectly comfortable laying out saying this is what I think what should a real man be like what are the qualifications what should a real man be like um you know for me I had a a man Monty he would say something he would say you know your house every 90 days you should you know they should feel the fire but not enough to burn a house down but every 90 days your kids should see what you're capable of okay where they're like ooh I just saw that sight of that okay and his reference was with your people you're working with with your salespeople now today God forbid you say this on H po they're going to say you have mental issues okay you need to go to therapy you need to go hire Jack Nicholson to go through a real life of anger management and you're Adam Sandler and you know you have issues you have you have anger issues but there there needs to be a certain level of fear and respect where a man imposes but you don't have to use you know the reason why they call it a great equalizer the gun is because you knew I had it but that doesn't mean I use it what's the whole purpose of Jiu-Jitsu or martial arts is for the other person to know look bro you just don't want to fight that's all there is to it I have no desire to fight you but if we do fight it's going to be very bad there's this video on on uh uh Tik Tok and Instagram that went viral and his father is outside this guy's punking his daughter every time he walks by he says bro what's wrong with you what's the matter with you and the guy's swinging he says don't do this I don't want to do this to you he starts swinging he say I'm telling you I'm telling you again don't do this I'm going to hurt you the last time he does the dad picks him up drops him to the ground drops him grabs his hands doesn't punch him one time he said how many times did I tell you don't do this I know what I'm doing cops come take him and go away right the marketplace should know what you're capable of now to get to that point takes a while when you're a kid when I talk to my kids and we talk about the values and principles we have where we lead respect improved La we don't get bullied and we don't bully that's our principles that we have um my son knows the market today for him is the school he goes to the school just needs to know what you're capable of one time Market is going to do its part everyone's going to talk to each other you don't need to do it 50 times you don't need to do it 100 times you need to do it one time once they know the other people are like you know what not the biggest guy but I just don't want to mess with that guy because he's annoying he's going to keep fighting you leave that guy alone let me pick on this guy right and then that guy's job is to do the same thing so from that perspective um I think it's good to have a reputation in the marketplace uh I think it's good to have a reputation within your family where your spouse feels protected by you when we got married at our wedding at the end of the wedding uh everybody's hammered everybody's drunk and I got up to give a speech I said I got a couple things I want to talk to you guys about there's 500 people at the wedding I said one uh I don't know how long we're going to be married we're going to take you one year at a time but if we take a one year out a time maybe we'll make it I can tell you guys all right now I think we can make it for one year every year we've taken a one year at a time we're at the 14th year we just crossed 14th year okay two I said if you come to my wife at any time without us telling you if my wife is pregnant you will never see us again it's none of your business you go through me and you don't ask her that question cuz you don't get to put that kind of pressure under my wife and say you guys are not getting pregnant are you sick are you is it him is his thing not working is your thing not working don't ask me that question because you'll never see us and I'm being I have some levity while I'm saying this where it's not like I'm being a drill sergeant talking to everybody but it's a way of managing expectation where my wife feels safe to know you know what we're going to be okay I think if you ask that from the man's standpoint there's an element to it as a husband there's element to it as a father there's an element to it as a son to protect your father there's an element to it as a brother to make sure nobody messes with your siblings then there's an element to it when you become a CO of a company to know that you're a formidable guide that people are not going to bully your company and if they do you're gonna have their backs You're Gonna Stand Up in politics eventually you get to a point where if you become a president fortunately one of the biggest problems we got in America right now is those three components that I talked about love fear respect love fear respect if a father has all those threes you're Trifecta if if you if you are loved and you know how to love if you know how to impose the right amount of fear and if you are respected you have to Mi sure that that makes for the best cocktail of parenting and leadership as a president as a president if the enemy fears you if the enemy respects you it doesn't matter if they love you but if they fear and respect you chaos are down we have a president today unfortunately that's not feared that's not respected and is not loved what happens worldwide chaos when you have leaders at the type at the top leading the way as the number one alpha and there's not fear respect and love catastrophic situation you're in and that happens in marriages companies parenting parenting as well as countries loving America shouldn't be political I wish I could say who the following person is because people know him uh but I have uh somebody I'm friendly with I would not call him a friend I just don't know him well enough but uh people certainly know his family and he said oh I put an American flag up in front of my house and I was like I guarantee that's going to get torn down he was like yeah it already has been and I I was like H I hated that I that that was obvious that in Los Angeles flying a flag is is a political statement that for many borders on right-wing extremist and that is so startling to me as a child of the 80s where I was supremely proud to be an American it was awesome and I could take it for granted I mean obviously not everybody in America loved America but that's how it seemed I thought all of us like there was just enough people that were so proud of America that you could take for granted so I never knowingly ran into anybody that didn't love America as a kid it was an awesome feeling and as that has waned I've often said to my employees like I'm sad that you guys didn't get a grow up in the 80s when you knew and look true not true almost doesn't matter but you knew America was the greatest country in the world that the world was going to get better by the day you knew who the bad guys were you knew who the good guys were and you were it like we were exporting our culture everywhere everybody wanted to to come to America it was awesome and to have watched that flag is crazy now for me the way that the you you speak as a um Warrior for the cause that's my language clearly not yours but like that's how you feel to me and that isn't my natural voice and I get a lot of [ __ ] from people I respect a lot um in the natural way that I talk uh you said I was very sweet I'm actually not trying to be sweet I'm trying to exist in the world of actually understanding all the pieces that are at place so I can build a strategy that will actually be effective and so what I see is that you're you're in a a fight over values and as long as you understand that you're in a fight over values and then you can either realize you have to convert them religiously because values are religion you have to convert them religiously or you have to defeat them I won't even get into what that means but those are your options and so I'm simply trying to be honest with myself about what what the battle really is because it isn't that they don't understand your position it's that they think you are wrong and that you are going to ruin lives and I think that's how you think about them that it is uh they are wrong and they're going to ruin lives and I will say people with ineffective ideology are wrong and they're going to ruin lives that's certainly my stance so then it just becomes a question of where do we where are we all drawing lines about what's right and what's wrong but once you want like to me there are only two conflicts you can have there is um much to do about nothing where you just have different base assumptions so we believe different things to be true but we don't even realize it so I believe the world works this way you believe the world works that way and if we could at least explain that to each other then we could be like oh wow if the world really did work that way then I would understand why you see it that way Collision of values is there is a God God is good God is right and God gives us these Commandments in a book and if you adhere to them you're good and if you don't adhere to them you're bad now if I don't have that value now we've got a problem because there's it's not that you don't understand what I'm saying like I don't believe in God I as far as I can tell it is just self-evident that there is no God now however and this gets where [ __ ] I dry people crazy but since I know everyone has a god-shaped hole in their heart and that you eject religion at your [ __ ] Peril and what we are living through right now is this is what it looks like when you eject religion it will get filled with something because people have a god-shaped hole in their heart they are going to have a religion they are going to have something that makes them feel like a messiah 100% And the fact I've heard you talk about this so I know you know George S Soros literally referred to himself as a guy God and said that I have a messiah complex uh that I worry sometimes will get out of control it's like yeah that's the Human Condition and so we all want to feel like we have done something so Grand and so joyful to this world that we feel a bit of that Messiah complex and I'm team be paranoid distrust yourself that's my team I think people blind themselves and act a [ __ ] fool and they take everybody down with them now I'm also optimistic and I know that we're capable of love and so right now I have kind of a uh a dark hat on because I want people to understand what my position is my position is people are [ __ ] stupid they do dumb [ __ ] all the time and I'm one of those dumb people and so I'm really trying to understand what's actually happening cuz I have my God as you said earlier they have their God and I could get them to understand my God which is probably founded closest to freedom and they're still going to disagree and now because I know how violent and destructive humans can be for the last three years I have been like oo you know when an earthquake first starts you don't know if it's going to be bad or really minor when 2020 popped off I'm very fortunate to have an EXT extraordinary view but from that extraordinary view I could see La burning and one of the photos on Twitter was a picture of my house and it said burn the rich and I'm watching La burn as I'm reading that tweet and I'm like well then I feel the ground slipping underneath me and I don't know how bad it gets and so I opened all this with Now's the Time for paranoia I don't know what the future holds maybe tomorrow everything's great and Israel diffuses and Ukraine and Russia diffus and all is well and Taiwan gets left alone for another generation maybe that'd be awesome and I don't know I don't know I can't predict the future but godamn can I feel the Sands moving under my feet Yes do I know if it's about to be big or small no why do you create content why did I start or why do I do it now why do you do it now you don't have to do it you you you have plenty of money why do you do it you trying to be famous I don't think so I don't have why do you create content I need to be famous uh I create content because I I don't I don't think that's you I I don't see you as a guy that's doing it because you want can I take a selfie with you Tom I don't see you as a guy like that yeah uh I do it for one reason and one reason only I really believe that I am of average intelligence and the thing that separates me and my beautiful house and all my money is that separates me and all of that from an average person is a set of ideas and these ideas don't feel like they are mine I feel like I am a steward of uh if I were really going to put like hard language to it I'm a steward of the Dow deing meets Carol DW's mindset book with a little bit of Angela Duckworth and Joo willink thrown in for good measure those ideas are so powerful and so effective that if anyone adopts them they will make their life better now once you know that that is true if you have my wiring then you want to get those ideas out as fast as you [ __ ] can so a I love seeing other people have that moment of Awakening where they realize that they're capable of more and I'll tell you a story and this is um this is a true [ __ ] story and it's one of my favorite stories it's tragic but I know it was real uh somebody I love and care about very much who at a time when nobody knew who I was and I'm driving a Ford Focus I meet a former drug dealer and he's working for me and I say look don't bring violence to my floor and I'll give you every opportunity in the world because I can tell you're smart and so we have this packed and he comes in and he works he's incredible and he helps me unify a line made up of both Crips and bloods long story and he's like hey originally I was going to use this job is a front for my drug money but like you've really shown me that I can actually leverage my intelligence to to do something straight ended up being awesome this guy turned his life around turned his family's life around it was unbelievable it's one of the things I'm most proud of in my life is just having been some small part of this guy's transformation ends up getting killed by two kids who stole a car [ __ ] stupid but whatever at his funeral his daughter came up to me and said um actually she said this from the front of the room I want to thank Tom and Lisa we all know my dad was a gangster and you she didn't say taught him ideas but just to bring It full circle you taught him a set of ideas they changed his life and they changed mine and she ended up going from almost getting kicked out of school to uh being valid dictorian of her class like seven years later I mean just absolutely unbelievable uh and she's like our lives will never be the same because of these ideas and and dude my whole life because I believe in meaning and purpose it's the most important thing I'm highly verbal I know I'm good at this and so eight years ago I said put me in front of a camera and I will get these ideas out to the world aggressively and that's why I do it interesting so um profound story with that guy by the way you know if you don't bring violence to your blood Crips unifies then steal in the car they kill them um you know I I I think there are certain people who have the ability to communicate a message and get people to see uh things that others cannot see are almost responsible to do something with those gifts you can choose to be 100% selfish and not doing anything with it or you can choose to do with her which you are doing a lot with with the ideas where the daughter says you know set of ideas that change the way I view things let's set Faith aside forget Faith we're not debating Faith or God this is not the podcast to do Faith or God that's a simply a different conversation over dinner if we even ever do it but if you're a math guy and you're a data guy and you're a guy that knows x + yals z then you know what works and what doesn't work you know what philosophies work and doesn't work you can take the position of you know Patrick you have your ideas and the people in California have their own ideas and you know they have their reasons for that and you as a capitalist you know Freedom all this stuff it's this great but there has to be a way to measure and see which ideas produce better results and then if you do which is proven then what's our job to do is our job to sit on the sidelines and not offend the people who were wrong and let them keep harping and convincing others that they're right is our job to sit on the sidelines and allow them to keep confusing kids in universities is that our job to do is our job to allow these guys that keep asking for $60,000 of tuition today which when you look at inflation and cost of living where cost of living's increased since 1980 212% but cost of education has increased 1200% a thousand you mean education has improved a th% over the last 40 years you and I know it hasn't you and I know a four-year degree doesn't have any more meaning today than it did in 1980s maybe he had more meaning in 1980 than today because today our teachers are more political figures and they're more social you know organizers dividing people against each other yeah so I think I think for me I'm not worried about the faith conversation I know what it is to be an atheist I was one for 25 years I have my own reasons for doing what I did for me it's more about a numbers guy a data guy who watched everybody and my mother's side believed in rich people were greedy and my dad's side believed poor people are lazy and from my mom's side who were communist whose Bible was The Communist Manifesto and my dad was an imperialist it took me 20 years to realize who was right maybe even 25 30 years to realize who was right we had a family relative of ours his name was Luther alas amazing man this was my guy looked at okay when we were when I was a kid we would go to his house in Upland you know where Upland is Upland is uh couple hours away from here San Antonio Boulevard closer to like uh Rancho kukumanga is where it's like an hour and a half away from here okay without traffic it's 45 minutes to an hour once a year we'd go to his house you'd go all the way up San Antonio then You' make a left on the street and at the end it's his house he had a massive 40ft bird nest here bird cage here you'd pull up he always had a Cadillac Park de he liked jaguar and his one of his relatives Alfred would live here above the parking lot above the garage and then you walk into the door to the right was his office you walk a littleit more hallway all the way down as his bedroom he had a jacuzzi in his bedroom living room here you'd make a left come down here is the kitchen Big Island I would always closest to the uh window my backs to the street I would sit here and I would watch them talk cuz I'm not family my dad was best friends with his brother since they were born in Iran so lutter was an entrepreneur he made a lot of money he owned golf courses if you went straight you made a left you came here there was a pool table he had a picture on the wall everybody was dressed white family daughter son everybody and then he had a picture with Al Gore even though he was a conservative why do you have a picture with Al Gore good friends with Al Gore as a conservative okay and he would go outside he had a big TV here we would watch to Bulls play pull swimming pool outside changing room here like a small little one-bedroom PL basketball court tennis court here and he had a garden of fruit and all this stuff and I would watch him how he would be with his kids he would always poke and challenge him to debate issues he would says I no longer believe in God at a moment today you guys have been sold a bag of Lies Jesus wasn't real and his kid would they would lose their minds and they would go on a three-hour debate and he would say okay I'm back to believe in again and he would say next thing such and such president is making a worst decision ever how could you say that that and it was always how could you say that and the whole family was debating I was fascinated every year I'd see him so from 13 years old till 18 I saw him seven times and I saw this guy as a possibility one day I can be like him anyways later on in life I ended up winning in business and he died four years ago three or four years go at rafi's place in glendel and his daughter sees me Jackie and his son Vladimir who's a pastor now San Jose when I was a troubled teenager he invited me to be part of this basketball organization called the Sentry City basketball association centry City basketball we would play at Echo Park terrible Community Echo Park is like not a safe place at the time not terrible Community not a safe place so shootings all this stuff blood crib black diamonds everybody would be there and we play basketball to all of us so he was patient with me as a kid and then I joined the army and boom so we're at rafi's place and I said Jackie I want to say something to your dad he says great I said you mind if I come over no problem 20 people sitting out that table to have a big family I says Uncle Luther can I tell you something he says yes he stands up I speak to him in Assyrian and English like it's like Assyrian English together Aramaic I said you don't know this but for 10 minutes I recite Vivid memories I have of what this man did okay and I kept saying you did this one time and you would do this and you would do that and you said this to your daughter one time you said this to your son I was sitting there when you confuse them with faith and business and this this that and this is how you would watch Michael play and Magic play and you would do this and I'm describing his entire house he no longer lives in that house he's crying I say you don't know this but you're the reason I'm a businessman today if it wasn't for you I wouldn't be where I'm at today my dad played a role of love and being a man but you played the role of me being an entrepreneur he inspired me and at 33 years old I go to my mom and I said Mom can I ask you a question yes why' you always say bad things about Luther what did he do to you you always said he's Rich he's greedy he's this he's that and my mom I respect her a lot for what she said to me she says you know what maybe because once he made the money and he was running his companies we never saw him again I said Mom he's busy he's running businesses we're not family to him no you're probably right but I didn't like the fact that I didn't see him because I actually liked him like you tell me this at 33 years old do you know how much this affected me when I was 13 14 years old I thought this was a bad man he says no you're right I just had this conversation my mom's no longer a communist but at that time you know that's the what's the point here the point here is if you have proof that a certain way of ideas and philosophies work sell it constantly and protect it and defend it don't play vanilla don't play neutral I think sometimes us you're no longer a smalltime guy bro you're a very big guy we got a lot of influence you got a lot of people that follow what you got to say and you are very you know when you kind of you do your humble brag you're a super smart guy yeah you're like you're a super smart guy I'm not at your level of you're a very very smart guy on the way you process ISS and what way you can talk and you're very reasonable and non- emotional you stay you know where you are when you're explaining it um I think it's a risk for us not to defend the logical things that prove that way worked better and then we sell it over and over and over again because eventually you're going to produce 50 other to Bill use 100 other Tom Bill use and that's all it's going to take you're not going to need to have another million Tom Bilu you just need 100 Tom bli if another 100 Tom B do what you do then we're protected the next 20 40 years but if we're a little bit too timid and too careful to defend ideas that have proven to have worked again set aside Faith you can take Faith any way you want to take it I think we have to be um louder Warriors like you use I use that word True Believer Crusaders of selling guys people [ __ ] about the rich people don't pay taxes you know know what percentage of taxes Rich pay the top 5% pays 80% of taxes what are you talking about no AOC said this no no this is pure data how dare you say that no no how dare she say that and confuse the [ __ ] out of you this is data guys this is not from me this is how taxes was paid to the IRS I never knew you sure about this go verify it it's on the US Government website that's insane of course it is but they sold you a bag of goods and you bought it cuz it was for sale stop going to Macy's and looking for sale ideas pay full retail and don't buy these ideas that are nonsense because they're stealing decades away from your life that's the only difference for me where like I remember five years ago when I started 30 years ago when I started talking politics dude trust me I remember what everybody in the marketplace said about me I know exactly what people were saying about me because W would come back to me and they would say kiss of death for pbd he's done we had 3 million subscribers at the time and I um decide to talk politics and I'm like dude I don't know how to do this part because I know it's going to piss a lot of people off but I'm respectful and I'm curious and I'll talk to anybody I don't care who you are you can be a communist Professor from you know Riverside County you can be you know slavo xek you can be anybody I'll sit down with you let's have a conversation Nom Chomsky come on down let's talk I don't have any problem right but we started the podcast on a separate Channel with zero subscribers our first live podcast was 57 people watching us we got seven comments we were so excited now imagine how hard that is to do because you got a 3 million subscriber channel on this side and now you have to start from scratch right you know about this I know you know about this and then all of a sudden that grows and now value taming just crossed 5 million today and pbd podcast is at 1 .45 whatever it's at right and we're getting you know however many eyeballs on a monthly basis what happened was it a risk yes did we get people thinking yes people stop me nowaday like man I got to tell you man I never missed the podcast how about the entrepr I watch that stuff but I really want to know what you think about current events and very interesting what does this mean this means I think people want to know a little bit more about what Tom Bilu thinks that's all I'm saying maybe they want to know a little bit more because that brain has a lot to offer and and the life you've experienced can give people perspective but more from a position of there is a scoreboard this philosophy won but this philosophy is louder don't let the noise convince you that this philosophy is not working this is the right way to live I think we have to sell that and I think some people are afraid of doing that at that level let me ask this question so let's let's have a little bit of a banter here exchange I like this a um what what causes a company to attract tens meaning if you read Steven schwartzman's books book in it he talks about how at one point 30 billion guy at one point he realized it's all about hiring tens not nines not eights but hiring tents but most people can't afford tents when you read readed Hastings no rules rules they realize a 10 is the equivalent of 28s okay 11 is the same as 28s sounds about right sounds about right okay so what causes a company to attract tens you want me to give you the breakdown I want to hear from you okay so number one is going to be uh a mission that is bigger than whatever Mission they have in their own life that they are very excited about next one is going to be um that you're building something that is novel and is actually going to allow them to bring the full weight of their talent and intelligence to bear um so not retreading old stuff this is really something new got it um the world actually wants the product uh they are compensated well they have a sense of ownership autonomy um and they're surrounded by other tens okay so compensated well did you say autonomy autonomy okay and then last one was you're surrounded around other tents yes okay I'm not going to ask you how many tens you have here because I don't want to cause a fight but uh uh we won't go there surrounded by it isn't all tens I think even team knows that so so so when you look at this compelling Mission novel you know full uh uh you know uh where we're going what we're doing World actually wants the pro uh product compensated well autonomy surrounded by tents me um what does Blackstone do to get tens is the mission that insane I don't know um what does Netflix do to get tens what what does Yahoo do to lose tens to Facebook what does Facebook do to lose tens to Google what what does um what what what are tens attracted to to me everything here you could have an incred incredible Mission check you could have novel man this is we're doing a really big thing historic check World actually wants the product check if the incentive program sucks you're not attracting those people period let me make go a little bit deeper for you you live in the great state of California you know California how many people they lost between California and New York the last last year 1.4 million 1.4 million you saw the stat do you know what state in America is 50th place for the most people lost last year California do you know what state's number one uh Florida's number one receiving net positive net positive population growth Florida is number one Texas Texas number two then you got Carolinas this just came out by the way very interesting number for you to look at because at the bottom is California New York Illinois okay the economy is bigger in California the economy is bigger in New York the economy is bigger in a lot of different places why are they leaving because the incentive sucks so if a state with better incentives is in place like Florida which means what you keep your state taxes if in Texas you keep your state taxes Tennessee keep your state taxes we'll figure it out in California why are gas prices in some places seven bucks why are gas prices in certain places five bucks six bucks you got this gas tax on top of this gas tax on top how come the other states don't have the gas tax these are the incentive programs why did one of the biggest liberals in America that try to save the world you really want to talk about climate change no one probably did more good for climate change like try to do good for climate change than a guy named Elon Musk who voted for Obama who voted for all these guys who voted for Hillary and this guy moves to Austin Texas why would he do that why did the guy who try to legalize Marana for the longest time who said I'm voting for Bernie Sanders what what is he doing moving to Texas guy named Joe Rogan why did 40,000 employees leave Toyota go to Texas because of the incentive program so where am I going with this I you and I are on the same place where everything starts off with you and I like what do I control what can I do about it right and as you get to a different level I'm sure you've paid a lot of taxes if I were ask you about how much taxes you paid you paid a lot of taxes for the money you've made you guys build a billion AO company when you have a billion auto company and you've taken money off the table multiple times you know and you're doing it in this state you could have your capital gains 23.8 but you got to the 13.3 on top of it so on your state you sell you get $200 million in the state of California you're going to pay roughly $80 million in taxes but you do that in Florida or Texas you're going to pay 60 million $50 million in taxes that $30 million stays in your pocket guess what that's pretty attractive incentive wise what else when you look at it you look at other people that want to live as well the average person that's making 60 Grand year in California dud you you have to live 80 Mi away in Palmdale to be able to make it and Palmdale's even getting expensive today courtz sale you got only a couple Pockets you can live to be able to survive with the kind of pay that this uh Marketplace is paying you so when I'm going back to the question and you said well what percentage of people are really going to be thinking about that question this is the problem that we have we think we have to win everybody over we don't we think we have to convert a 50% of the population you don't don't it's the 12% in the middle that run America that's who runs America you got 47% that's going to vote Democrat no matter what you got 44% that's going to vote Republican no matter what then you have that middle whatever that number is going to be that you're dealing with you know maybe it's going to be 4244 then you got the Libertarians degree and all this other stuff the independence and Libertarians rule America so if those guys who have the ability to have courage to have a change of thought and are neutral neutrality and are willing to accept alternative Solutions and they're able to reason well guess what they watch a podcast like this and say [ __ ] this makes a lot of sense we have to change incentive so what do we do either one you say that I have no desire to get into politics so how can I help okay no problem go back somebody up that you can feel that they can do it and start recruiting people to run you know behind closed doors I'm recruiting people to run like I'm talking to people and saying you got a lot of values that people would love I think you ought to consider it really yes you ought to consider it I never thought about that I think you should think about that why don't you read these three books see if it does anything to you why don't you go look at what the bushes and the kennedies had as a legacy their legacy was simple in their family you make money first you take care of your wife you take care of your uh kids they have enough money to not have to worry about anything they're set for school and all that stuff you set yourself up a little bit of retirement if you want to make a little bit more money go for it but but Al you got to give back to the country that give you this incredible life how do you do it nonprofit okay you either go into politics or church but somehow some way you got to contribute so I I want more like I used to not care about politics at all until I realize America's problem is is the incentive program the reason why we went from 4% of kids being born to single mothers in 1940 to 40% today it's because of the incentive program the reason why we have so many divorces in the world we are leading the world in divorces and ways it doesn't even make any sense we're at we're at 23.8 some numbers you look at where China and India are at 3 or 4% our incentive program sucks when you look at small business owners when you look at people going out there fighting for let's print more money every time these guys print more money guys like you get richer every time they print money you and I make more money because your money's in assets and your money is in equities and that money is going to go to these Equity so the valuation these companies flips like right now everybody's worried about a market crash you know what's bigger than a market market crash today you know what scares me more than a market crash today a reverse market crash you know it's a reverse market crash it's what happened in Venezuela this year imagine stock market goes from 10,000 to 64,000 what like right now we have interest rates at four at 8% 8 and a quarter some places but let's just say 8% and and real estate prices are going up it's a least amount of refi we've done in 27 years refi application is at the lowest for 27 years and the amount of inventory of homes for sale right now is the lowest we've had in 20 years but real estate prices are going up how so imagine if Powell today takes this 8% and he brings it down to seven to six to five to four what happens market Dow goes to 60,000 40,000 50,000 why it's not because the economy is doing good because we have that money in the market it's going somewhere so what happens all of these people that were talking about W look at the Rich getting richer the poor getting poor your policies of printing more money is causing to Rich to get to richer and the poor to get poor because the disparity is getting wider if the rich are making 12% on their money and the poor are making zero because they have it in checking accounts what do you think's going to happen every year that distance going to get bigger and so what do we have this year in 2023 most strikes we've ever had you ever seen any this many strikes in our lifetime we're three years apart you and I I've never seen this many strikes UAW stri strike finally agreed 42 bucks an hour you got UPS strike you got Walgreens CVS you got Kaiser 75,000 you got there's so many strikes going on today what are people saying dude I can't make it I can't make the money and in your state California uh they raised the minimum wage for fast food restaurants to whatever the number is 22 bucks and you know what Chipotle and McDonald's just announced they're raising prices why cuz they have to how are they going to make that money you can raise minimum wage all you want the restaurant is going to raise the prices they're going to have to raise the prices so now all these automakers that are sitting around saying oh you want us to pay these guys 42 bucks an hour no problem guess what the consumer is going to have to pay $1,500 more for the car they buy is the consumer okay with that CU that's how math Works math works that way so to me at this phase of my life if a person's 20 years old watching this don't worry about what we talked about last 20 minutes just go make your money if a person's 30 years old watching this and they got a wife and kid and their careers like here they're about to kind of go focus on your career pay a little bit attention to this but if you're 40 plus 45 plus and you're seeing what's really going on in the economy and you're like what the hell are all these policies I love my state of Illinois but what the hell are we doing here I love New York but what the hell is going on New York I love San Francisco but it's no longer San Francisco then you have to pay very close attention to the different incentive programs in other states and ask why can't we do that in California why are we not doing that in New York why are we not doing that in Illinois people in California are not asking those questions so uh I love this compelling Mission novelty you know novel World actually wants the product compensation autonomy surrounded by tens but at the basic most simplest thing is our incentive program at the top of our US Government today and by many states absolutely sucks it's interesting so um let's have a collision of Visions here so I think that every word you said is true it is necessary but not sufficient to understand what's really happening so it show me the incentives and I'll show you the outcome so says uh Mr Munger and he is correct when a system becomes deranged so when you're talking about an incentive program which I know you leading sales teams have experienced the madness that ensues when you get something a little bit wrong in your incentive structure and it incentivizes terrible Behavior I've seen that up close uh being in web 3 I've seen that up close where suddenly people are treating something that should be fun like a video treating something that should be fun like it's a um roulette wheel or a gambling machine and so for sure people are going to find like whatever little minuscule thing that they um Can exploit but to me the key is to avoid deranging the system as much as humanly possible and the way that you avoid deranging the system as much as humanly possible is to give people values right now my big problem is that people are not being inculcated with values and I can't believe I'm saying this because I am like the least conservative guy on the planet however I am so obsessed with what [ __ ] works like what what is the outcome that you want if the outcome that you want is the America that you see or wherever in the world you are okay great then whatever you're doing is working for me this seems like uh as close to a humanitarian crisis as you're going to get in the west I mean when I was a kid I really believed I could do anything I set my mind to and because I believe that I went and did it but if you don't like I dude so I've worked in the inner cities a lot and the first time I heard a kid say uh I was like why aren't you even trying like bro you're so smart why aren't you trying like why why are you here working for minimum wage this is crazy I'll teach you anything you want to know about how to grow and climb up in the world and he goes oh uh my mom told me that the world doesn't want people that look like me to succeed and I was like so [ __ ] what that's the worst advice ever assume it's true assume it's true assume everyone is against you now what you're just going to take it you're just going to take the first minimum wage job on a line that you can get you're not going to like push yourself you're not going to again develop personal power get so good at something we both love Kobe you got to meet him and I did not but he's got my favorite quote booze don't block dunks you can get so good at something that people can't stop you even if they hate you even if they're paid millions of dollars to be better than you to stop you from doing a thing this guy still scored 81 points by himself in a single game okay in a game where often 80 plus points is all that's scored pure and ity and so if this is why like I don't have kids so the odds of me suffering from what I can see coming are very low it is but a love for Humanity that makes me want to scream the whole idea of impact theories I really believe the ideas that you believe about the world matter so much they will control the quality of your life and so now I'm just trying to make sure that people get high quality ideas about self-ownership about what you're capable of about everybody should be trying to build as much personal strength as humanly possible so that they can do the things that they want to do in many different areas so getting people to understand all 10 fingers of responsibility should be pointed back at you that if we want people to build a society that is better they must believe in a Grand Vision there must be a mission to their life to the lives of others that mission must have some tie to measurable results so that we don't just do what feels good or sounds good we do what actually works and so to me there there is a massive restructuring of the way that we think about raising kids about the way certainly my contribution is once you come to work for me cool I'm not going to raise you I'm not going to raise my own children it's not the way that I'm playing but godamn it when you come inside of impact Theory we are going to run this in a way that's going to be effective it's going to make you a better version of yourself it's going to make you a better version of however you're contributing to the company and that [ __ ] is a non-negotiable so everybody has to sign a culture document that says and I quote you must be a hardcore [ __ ] like period end of story and if P.S that turns you off great this is not the place for you but I know what it takes to actually fight against the chaos of the world and you're going to have to choose your enemy wisely in fact this is something we haven't talked about yet part of what I'm trying to get them to now I think you have to balance the beauty of what you're trying to do I'm trying to make sure nobody gets to the age of 15 without encountering a growth mindset at scale through entertainment and ideas cool but then you also need to be able to tap into the dark energy and that to me is about an ability to capture the energy output of the fire in your belly for lack of a more literal expression so tell me why when picking an enemy it needs to be somebody that really makes me feel some kind of way because uh choosing an enemy how do you judge an enemy there's 14 different types of enemy we talk about in the book but the way you judge an enemy is the lifespan of how long that enemy can drive you you may have an enemy that drives you for a day you may have an enemy that drives you for 30 seconds somebody cut you off you got an enemy for about 30 seconds okay you may have an enemy that drives you for a month somebody you're going up against for a sales contest I'm going to beat that guy okay cool short lifespan not a big deal then you find an enemy that drives you for 5 10 years 20 years now you got something good unfortunately Tom most people choose The Wrong Enemy uh when they're when they're competing I going to read something to you is this the book or is this a different book uh I think it's the book is this the book let me see if this is the book I'm I'm going to open this up and see if this is the book or not let's see here all right hang on one second if it is I want to read this to you oh [ __ ] they sent you to heart look at that look at you buddy respect I don't even have this literally I'm telling you I don't even have this funny thing is I didn't get it either I got a PDF so when I saw it here I was like all right who send this to you do you know who s I don't know the team really so penguin send it no yours okay well I don't have this I don't have this cop that's Sam sent it e e sent it so you got it directly from penguin just so you know this is the first time I'm seeing a cover copy of this let me read this to you okay two quotes one A wise man gets more use from his enemies than a fool from his friends balazar gra graian let me read the other one for you which fires me up okay you have no enemies you say my friend the boast is poor he who has mingled in the fry of Duty that the brave endure must have made foes if you have none small is the work that you have done you've hit no traitor on the hip you've dashed no cff from the P perjured lip you've never turned a wrong to right you've been a coward in the fight Charles Mackey okay all right so you read this coward I'm not a coward I'm I'm not I'm not I'm not going to be categor as that totally get it but if you're if you're going to be doing something big you're automatically going to have some enemies now we're looking at Elon Musk earlier and we're talking about him and you look at Elon who's been driving for this long everybody asks isn't this guy worth $300 billion yeah what are you doing buying Twitter when you're worth $300 billion you're already running SpaceX you're already running Tesla you got these trucks that all of us are waiting for okay okay you got to figure what happens with that rock you threw out the glass that the glass broke we got to fix that right and at the same time how many kids you have nine or 10 kids and you're doing podcasts you're always on podcast you're interviewing with people how the hell do you have time to sleep why would you buy Twitter and I you're the most second most hated guy in America you didn't become a friendly person when you bought Twitter you got worse why would you want to do something like that psychologically you have to have issues so then you ask the question okay say this guy in 3 years is the first trillionaire say it happens in a year what do you think he's doing the next day after he becomes a trillionaire you think he's taking three months off and going to Monaco no not him why because while the world thinks this guy's doing it for money he's not doing it for the money he's on a mission okay fair but why at that level because he's got something that drives him that none of us know about could it be his father very high likely that could be his father could it be something else we don't know about of course could it be what these you know astronauts said about him and made fun of him that we think space experiments should only be done by the government and not by free enterprise and free market maybe and it got him tears if you've never seen that 60-minute interview I'm sure you have right it could be but it's him now Michael Jordan same thing Tom Brady talking to him same thing anybody you admire that's able to tolerate the kind of pain required to win at the highest level they have an enemy that drives them they're just not telling you about it most people will never disclose who the true enemy is it's private Bill Clinton in this one book uh it's called The hypomanic Edge and you know First Rate Madness I don't know if you've read these books or not uh it talks about bipolar hypomanic you know ADHD why all these people that end up doing something big they typically are a little bit off how does this guy how is HE capable of going 18 hours straight and he's still doing it and he but what's wrong with this guy how can he do that there's that element that they just can't help themselves right yeah B Clinton you know they asked him about his mom him and his mom his mom drove him a lot most people don't know about this and in one of the interview she said there's no benefit from me saying anything bad about my mom literally there's no benefit for a man to say anything bad about their moms you're not going to win you're never going to be able to commiss the marketplace you had a bad mom as a man you can do it as a woman you cannot do it as a man the Market's going to be like how dare you say something now men can talk trash about their dads the market will receive it they'll make a movie about it right but you can't do it about your mom that was clintons who drove him you know people have it people now at the same time you know 14 types of enemies in the book that I talk about you know there's also the concept of choosing the wrong enemy that could steal decades from your life decades away from your life hypothetically I'm doing an event at the Vault conference okay this is two years ago and on the first night we go through a personal audit questionnaire that you got to go through and the next morning you got to come back and talk about it with the group and we're looking to see who's going to have a breakthrough based on the questions that you have to answer okay no problem these are 83 questions that I went through back in 2003 at the Mador Beach here by Zuma I'm sitting there going through myself crying like a little baby my note yellow notepad that I'm answering these questions I had to break through boom I added these into this list that people are going through and they get to experience it for themselves who do you get along with who do you not get along with is there don't know people that piss you off the most why is that who do they remind you of these types of things that kind of for you to see what you're going through so the next day 2,000 people in attendance everybody's given theirs husband and wife this the Breakthrough we have another a breakthrough we had one girl over here not getting up her her sister's like elbowing her my sister wants to say something I think she really had a big b breakthrough babe what are you doing babe you got to tell him babe tell him okay she gets up she Pat this is very hard I so what is it so let me tell you who I am I've done very well as a person who runs her own business I make more money than All My Exes I make more money than the guys of my life I make more money than any of my teachers I do very very well with the salon I run I make very good money my people make very good money I have a nice house I drive a nice car I have money in the bank I have all the Chanel purses everything I said okay so what's the point but I'm alone I'm not married I don't have any kids I don't have a family I don't have somebody to look forward to coming home to and talking to celebrating any of this I said what where are you going with this she says for the longest time men have been the enemy and I realized they're not I'm wasting my time having men as an enemy if you've ever seen a movie Jerry Maguire where all the divorced women are sitting around the table and they're bitching about men and their husbands and all this stuff and then Jerry walks in and she's like I don't care I love him you guys can send your bitching about all your ex is all you want I love love this guy I love this guy I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life I want somebody in my life they in that group had identified their exes and men as all enemies she's like I'm not joining your Camp you know how hard it is to leave a camp like that these are groups of people that go through this how about some of the people that are 65 years old that joined a feminist movement at 15 years old never got married have no kids how many of these videos are going viral right now on social media I wish I would have never joined the movement I'm 65 I have a cat no husband no kids what the hell am I working for my parents are dead and it's just me what's that all about so many people choose the wrong enemy and it cost them years if not Decades of their lives you have a person in your life that's challenging you pushing you to get better encouraging you having high expectation of you you think that's the enemy that's not the enemy the actual enemy in your life is the people around you that are saying eat more pizza here's more cheesec cake sleep in don't get to work screw your husband the hell with your wife I hate hate your boss he's a [ __ ] all he cares about his money those are your enemies you got to step away from those types of people who ruin your life and then 17 years later you used to work with a company that if you would have stuck around you would have had a nice sex of $2.8 million but you screwed up because you believe the other people that quit and you never had that experience and now you're sitting there for the rest of your life trying to explain to your kids why quitting was the right decision but deep down when you go to sleep and you're in front of the mirror you know what you tell yourself made the biggest mistake I should never done that so this is a very much of a emotional decision for a person to sit there there's a formula on how to find that I've been doing business planning with guys for the last you know business planning you know how it is if you have a sales team hey let's sit down do your business planning for 2022 let's do the business planning for 2006 how many years have you been doing the business imagine how many oneon-one business plans you've done the month of December with people right I will sit there and business plan here's a onepage business plan right and what are your goals for the first quarter and how many calls are you going to make and if you do this what are you going to get yourself I'm going to buy myself a new suit from such and such and Stefano Richie and I'm going to buy myself a C-Class or M5 or a Range Rover we're going to buy this house and a call the sack and all this other and here's what we're going to do great you have a little bit of dream the rest is logic you write this thing maybe you look at it for a month done you forgot where you even typed it at and you don't remember what's in it after March or April okay where to me eventually got to a point where I judged the effective of effectiveness of business plans based on how we would do business plans together and I see how you respond to it where your energy goes how you come out the gates in every year then I said we're finally getting closer at learning how to do better business plans with people because you were able to pursue it and it came down to 12 building blocks six of the building blocks were logical okay we're talking systems processes things like that cap at all and then six of the blocks were emotional you have to study your competition but your competition is not going to drive you the way you identifying your enemy people who have the right enemy in their lives um they'll be willing to tolerate way more pain than those that don't have the right enemy in their lives can you describe why because the point is if you don't do it for the rest of your life the other person's going to be able to say they were right and can you live with that if yes go for it fine if not you ain't doing it for the money you ain't doing it because you need another Lambo or something you're not a car guy we're talking earlier this house you live in that's a palace a place most people around the world would dream about living in this is a eight Lamborghini garage that you turn into what you turn into cars don't drive you okay it's not something that fires you up who cares if you pull up in a Lambo okay maybe no this is bigger than that this is about you being able to look at yourself in a mirror and saying I'm proud of you others can say it to you it's great to hear it from your mom and dad it's magical I'm sure you remember when you heard it when your family told you they're proud of you very emotional moment when you hear that right some parents are loving so some parents say the day you're born some parents don't say it until way later on so if you got I'm proud of you very early just because you fill out a piece of paper it doesn't have that big of a meaning but if a parent didn't say that to you about 18 times while you're growing up and then you heard the real I'm proud at 32 years old you're in the car you're going to cry by yourself it's a very Monumental moment you going to I remember that day when it happened to I was speaking at this office on citos and I pick up my mom from the airport I had seen her for seven years since I was in the Army and she sees what I'm doing and where I'm at at 26 years old she's like what happened to you and you said yeah I'm proud of you I remember my dad said it to me I'm proud of you we're driving back from Long Beach uh uh Queen Mary and we're in the car and he sees what happened to me and I told him you don't have to work at a 99 cent store ever again at the Englewood right next to Great Western Forum I don't even know how I drove home that night I was flying I wasn't driving it's an incredible feeling but as great as that feels there's going to be a moment where it's you're in the car by yourself you're 43 years old 41 years old 39 years old and you you can sincerely say I'm proud of you without low standards that victory Of You versus you is a powerful thing very powerful thing when you go through that so and you're going to need that right enemy to drive you to go through those tough times cuz they're coming they're going to come it's given to hear more about Ray Delio's warning on the upcoming recession which we're almost certainly already in watch the full episode here talk to me about the three forces that you see that are influencing this moment we've got Banks collapsing US dollars under attack uh looming recession what