The Common MONEY TRAPS You Need To AVOID To Build Wealth | Ramit Sethi
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Kind: captions Language: en [Music] rise Sati welcome back to the show thanks for having me dude I'm excited as always what are some of the biggest lies that society and parents tell us that ends up keeping people broke and breaking up relationships we're told that investing has to be complicated that you have to be some genius looking at a screen with these numbers like PE ratios running through it all day that's not true we are told that you have to buy a house because buying a house is always the best financial investment that's not always true and we're told that when it gets to a relationship oh there's so many lies in a relationship some of them are uh he's a spender she's a saver or I'm not the money person my partner takes care of that and we accept that and that leads to a lot of disasters in relationship ship so the problem with money is that we're told all these things and because we don't really understand how it works we just accept it it's like the way I accept my car I don't know how it works I just put the key in and turn it on that's all I need to know but money isn't like a car it cuts across everything in our life that's why I think it's so important that we understand it so how do people begin to figure out how to think about investing how to get out of what I think you call money propaganda and because because as you well know because you and I have been discussing this now for years uh I've been going on my own journey in fact because of you I'm now going to stop saying that I'm terrible at investing I'm getting way better I'll be very honest in large part because of the show and so I've got to sit across from people like you a lot uh but also putting it into action and having now enough time under my belt to see what works what doesn't the emotional side of it which right now seems to be the biggest problem that people face is to your point either they're buying into propaganda or they're just the emotion carries them away in the Euphoria or they panic when Things fall so how do people begin to tease that out and really get their head right about money and investing you know it's interesting that by the time people turn 40 the number one thing they're worried about is money and yet the vast majority of people have never read a single book on Personal Finance think about that they will uh believe what any random person on some crazy subreddit tells them and I read all those subreddits not for stock tips just for entertainment I go don't do this they'll wa listen to podcasts which can be better but you're not sure how to tell if it's good or not they'll do everything but read a good book on Personal Finance now I'm not just talking my book here because I have my own book there's a lot of great books on money so if you want to become confident with money you have to be competent that's step one you have to be able to speak the basic language of money and it's actually not that complicated it's fun you start to realize oh my gosh compound interest works this way so if I put a dollar in today it's worth way more later okay that's we all kind of get that but when I show people a calculator of you're 32 years old if you put this much a month then this is how much you'll have if you put that much you'll have that much more it's super counter Inu um I'll give you an example if you pay a financial adviser 1% doesn't sound like a lot ah 1% as long as I don't have to worry about my money over the course of your life that will take 28% of your returns out of your pocket and into your financial this is why I don't like investing so that'll be the next thing I have to get over so now SC to admit that I'm I'm getting good at this but I don't like it why because it is the fact I know that that fact is true but that is so counterintuitive my brain cannot handle that 1% compounding becomes 28% like it doesn't sense it breaks my brain so I accept it but it's so counterintuitive and I think that's why a lot of people struggle with this the good news is the punchline ends up becoming really basic like just do it slowly over time and we'll certainly get to that but what I I want to help people start thinking about money in a different way now The Big Break through for me and this may be something that frustrates a lot of people in terms of the way that I interview and because it's how I have to understand things so I need to know what is money because if I can build the logic up if from like the most base layer then okay now that I really understand the nature of money I can predict things once I can predict things then I can move intelligently okay well they're probably people who are much better at the definitions and history of money I want to get into that today what what I want to get to is so if you laid out the the lies that people get sucked into yeah what are those core tenants that for the person who doesn't want to do it like I do it which is like understand the most foundational thing in Bill Brick by Brick over three years and oh okay now I finally get where this goes what are just like yeah I don't want to talk about it I don't want to read a book yeah give me some core simple tenants but why they work so compounding is one problem so 1% seems small but when that stuff compounds it's one * 1 Time 1 time it just like you get that result sorry it's not actually one time one times one it's whatever that number is times itself okay but here's another one um in most parts of life if you spend more time on it you get better results cooking to some extent Fitness uh certainly time with your partner or your children in money that is not true when you see people tinkering around with their portfolio and trading they actually tend to have way worse returns than somebody who puts it in a lowcost index fund and doesn't check into it for 10 years there's a famous story it's not clear if it's true or not about Fidelity investors so Fidelity you know it's fine firm whatever there were people who had forgotten about their money and they had died so the money was just sitting in an account just compounding growing the PE of course these people were gone they were dead so they didn't log into their account and the money kept growing and they compared the returns of those dead investors from the average investor the average investor gets only a fraction of the returns that you and I can get in an index fund and anybody watching can get in an index fund why because the average investor is undisciplined they are emotional they log in they get scared they see the news they sell they they call their friend they hear about some land deal they do all this crazy stuff and they lose their returns so the counterintuitive thing with investing is the more time you spend often you get worse results so set it set it with the right plan and then forget it okay so I think we need to drill into some of why that works so a dead investor is invest in that scenario I'm going to guess that they're in index funds like you said yeah and what is an index fund it's just collection it's a collection of stocks it is Diversified usually there are index funds that are just in healthare or Tech but when I talk about index funds I'm talking about like the S&P 500 index funds it's well Diversified and because it's a index it's just matching the market that means there's not somebody in some expensive suit who's charging 1% it's just a computer your fees will be something like 0.1% which is very inexpensive over your life and just so that I understand how this works so the S&P 500 is the standards and pores they're looking at stocks that meet a certain requirement they have the biggest market cap I don't know what their actual requirement is but you're at that point you're basically betting on the American economy correct RIT large like as broad as you can manage it and as a company falls off the S&P 500 a new company comes on so all of that the managing just is like there is a criteria if you meet the criteria you're in the S&P 500 if you don't meet the criteria you're not and therefore I assume as a company falls off you're effectively then selling that and buying the new one that comes in here's what people are thinking as they hear this they go well that sounds fine S&P 500 but what if I have my own idea aide of what I should invest in what if I want to pick my own companies that's the first thing again in normal life we want control that's what we're taught in America we want to take control Manifest Destiny these are deep deeply embedded cultural values but when you apply those same values to investing they can often be counterproductive so people you're really hedging they're counterproductive in 99.999999 yeah yeah of course you can pick you can pick an amazing stock and outperform the market you can but the odds of that consistently are virtually zero correct and I want people to hear what you just said because it is so counterintuitive like if I go I'm gonna pick a restaurant I know what's a good restaurant I'm not just going to look at the reviews I know and I go odds are pretty good I'll pick something that I like with stocks you cannot predict it over a long period of time so there are people on my Twitter they go REM Index Fund is fine for like people who don't know that much but I do my research I do my research and I invested heavily in Tech I go okay and Tech has been booming for many years but guess what happened Tech came down hard and this is what happens Industries go up and when they're going up you know there'll be companies like Facebook when it started it was inconceivable that there would ever be a day where Facebook wouldn't be the biggest social network for us that day has come right now it's hard that for us to imagine that there's a day where Amazon will not be the biggest and most convenient company that day will come as well history has shown that and so what Savvy investors do is they do not try to make individual bets in their portfolio they just acknowledge I have no idea I'm going to bet on an index some are going to win some are going to lose but over the course of time we know that the index S&P 500 tends to return about 7 to 8% that's after inflation by the way I'm saying that because these days everybody wants to talk about inflation that's like the I'm getting two questions right now inflation and ibonds ibonds I don't even know what that is let me tell you the fascinating thing is there's no real reason that the average person should be asking me about ibonds it is s it's basically a a type of investment that you can get like pretty high returns for a bond and particularly in High Times of inflation and it's like it can be considered to be a good investment here's why people are asking cuz it's all over the news and I go why are you asking me this like do you have a diversified portfolio what's your asset allocation do you understand how much guilt-free spending you have those are big questions and ibond is like me coming into this house and saying Tom what finish did you use on your door knob like it's just so esoteric it's it misses the point and so this is why individual investors get poor returns they are fickle whatever's in the news they start chasing it and so what Savvy investors do is they have a plan they understand the plan it's a simple plan counterintuitively simple and then they don't deviate from it one of the reasons that I think that I've achieved what I've achieved is I don't trust myself I don't trust my emotions I don't trust my ability to read the future and so because of that I'm constantly seeking disconfirming evidence here at the company we have something comes from Ray Delio the largest hedge fund manager in the world and it's called principles the doc collector and what it is I just had one of my employees write me today and he was he didn't want to he had critical feedback for me and he didn't want to put it in in the dock collector because it's public and people can see it and I was like no no no please like I want people to see because he was like I'm just convinced that people are going to get punished in some way for giving critical feedback and I'm like they're not because the reason that we structure it this way the reason that I want you to tell me what you think I'm doing wrong is what if you're right and now if I can get my ego out of the way I just got more powerful so does it sting when you realize you're doing something wrong yeah I guess a little bit but I over time have accumulated so many pieces of information that I can then leverage to tremendous success but it had to start with me being very skeptical of myself understanding how people trick themselves into thinking they know something and and my big fear that over time you're going to hold me accountable to this every time you see me that people's thinking calcifies into Dogma yes and so they think they've got it they think they have everything figured out because it's worked and so what I'm trying to do is as I get older I know the tendency is to go towards I'm like look look at what I've achieved I know everything totally and then you die well it's a gift that you give all of us me coming here and getting to go back and forth with you and everybody watching and listening to this because what you do is hard it's hard to say I don't trust myself and the more successful you are like you are easier it is to say no you know what I actually do know that and so I don't need to listen to anybody so I think it's a real gift you're giving us and it's interesting that's not hard for me it is out of almost Panic really yeah so Panic that what what will happen that I will make the wrong move I know how easy it is to be wrong and how hard it is to be right and how hard it is to be right consistently and on top of that dude other people are smart and so not everybody obviously there are morons and so you really you really do have to get good at filtering so in fact the guy that gave me critical feedback today my punchline was I think you're wrong but I'm like this is a data point and so if I keep getting this data point from a bunch of people I'm going to start to be like maybe he wasn't wrong I I called them seagulls seagulls you know there's this old story about Sailors and they would look for Birds when they were sailing to know that they were close to shore that's a clue you're close to Shore and so when I hear a seagull like somebody telling like they used to tell me um I used toh hear that I was skinny like and I heard it one time I I was a really skinny guy and I heard it two times and I heard it three times and I was like oh I must be really skinny I didn't realize it until I heard these seagulls and I started listening to him and I hear him in business and I hear him with the economy and in my relationship and I don't always listen to him because sometimes I'm just like whatever but sometimes I'm like whoa what what's going on there I got to lean in and try to figure that out so that's it's very interesting that we both have that uh principle yeah I wonder sometimes so looking at the way that people invest they invest like life has taught them that they're right all the time and I'm like whoa has life just taught you a different lesson like when I look at investing I think oh cliches become cliches for a reason people say that you're not going to beat the market Ray Delo is screaming from the rooftops I have $100 million a year spend in AI I'm trading in milliseconds you're going to try to go up against me and 1,00 people in my company all like doing things with AI in the fraction of a second with gazillions of dollars what on Earth makes you think you're going to beat me how do people look at that fact though and still do it they don't remember when I told you they do but they lose money I know but listen remember when I told you they haven't even read a single book about money yes they haven't read that they they have heard Ray on some podcast for 5 seconds but they never actually cracked his book they don't even understand the basic language of money is it arrogance though like what makes CU we'll get to people that just bury their head in the sand but what makes the person think that they're going to beat the market are they they're a gambler it's actually the worst combination it's a little bit of arrogance but it's ignorance as well so ignorance and arrogance it's basically like being a teenager you're like God these teenagers are so dumb but they're not dumb we were not dumb maybe we were at some points but it was a combination of ignorance and arrogance I have uh ridden in my car a thousand times without the seat belt so why do I need a seat Bel nothing bad's happened until it does and when you don't have that experience of being scorched in your portfolio it's really easy to say oh my gosh it all goes up and we should remember the Dynamics of Manas okay I uh like in the last few years the market has gone up in a huge way and if you notice the entrance of new investors they come and they people Wall Street pejoratively calls them the dumb money so most of the dumb money comes towards the end of a Mania because uh your taxi driver is talking about how much money he made in crypto the news is talking about how everybody's getting getting rich and if there's one thing people in America hate it's your friend who's stupider than you who got richer than you we just can't accept it so we go you know what I'm getting in I'm opening up a Robin Hood account you should never open a Robin Hood account and they get in this they don't understand what's going on but all they know is the number goes up so they start pushing some buttons they take 2,000 bucks or 5,000 bucks whatever they have and they go I'm going to be you rich and if you were to stop them right there you go hey I have a question are you trying to get rich quick what do you think they would say no yeah they would say no no no no no no I'm not trying to get rich quick but everybody's making money in crypto and like I did my research I went on three different subreddits and I put my money in here and look and this is the craziest thing of all it actually does go up for a while so there is no disconfirming evidence until the day their car runs into a tree and they're not wearing a seat belt now most people actually do not do this I don't want to scare people away from investing investing is actually not this roller coaster of emotions you know what it is for me it's like watching paint dry I spend one hour per month on my money I don't it's like asking me um how do I feel about uh the two two different pairs of underwear I have one's black and one's gray I I don't care it's a commodity it's the same thing to me that's investing because once you really understand it is so simple it's counterintuitively simple you almost feel like what's the catch but just like in Fitness just like in food just like in relationships it's counterintuitively simple when you really understand it with relationships people want to feel hurt they want to feel appreciated they want time quality time do that you get the basics right and that's why I always encourage the 85% solution with your money get 85% of the way there and then move on you do not have to be perfect to be successful all right so I want to go into the detail of what people are combating in their own minds and then what success looks like for what you call a Savvy investor but I think is uh a wise investor maybe okay so uh you many people think that they know better yeah many people are prone to Mania yes everybody thinks that Buy Low sell High will be easy but the reason Buy Low so high has become a thing is because the actual preponderance of activity is the reverse they buy High panic and sell low the reason they buy high is the Euphoria I I had never paid attention to the markets before until like 2020 through 2021 and I watched it felt awesome it was so fun at money everywhere it was just it was rad and everybody was like yeah you can make money everybody felt like a genius I've heard you say that before and so in the Euphoria you feel dumb if you don't do something yes so now you've both got the excitement and the fear of the Dumber guy than me is making more money than me and I'm an [ __ ] for not doing it like that I wouldn't actually be able to look my wife in the eye or my parents in the eye or my friends in the eye or my kids in the eye that I didn't take advantage of this moment I had my money manager was like yeah Tom what are you doing you're missing out on historic gains because I so paranoid I was like this can't go up forever so I was like I'm going to be cautious at this moment so to finish that thought you're more likely to buy high and sell low the reason that you buy high is the Euphoria the reason that you sell low is the panic when it starts to drop because you're not realizing the way that you've gotten wealthy the way that you advise people to get wealthy which is really about time and so the reason that you're not worried about volatility the reason that you aren't panicking is one you're investing at the index level so you're betting on a huge group of things that just meet some criteria S&P 500 it meets that criteria and while there will be short-term volatility short-term meaning a year two years three years eh no big deal s years 15 years 20 years we're going to be winning but most people can't do that honestly everything you just said is a true master class in investing I have to say and I was here a year ago and we were not having this level of discussion it is really impressive thank it's amazing what you just said takes a lifetime to learn the truth is hitting your career goals is not easy you have to be willing to go the extra mile to stand out and do hard things better than anybody else but there are 10 steps I want to take you through that will 100x your efficiency so you can crush your goals and get back more time into your day you'll not only get control your time you'll learn how to use that momentum to take on your next big goal to help you do this I've created a list of the 10 most impactful things that any High achiever needs to dominate and you can download it for free by clicking the link in today's description all right my friend back to today's episode just to comment about you're not concerned about volatility in the short term because you have a 25-year Horizon that there are thousands of books that have been written about just that concept so for everybody everything you just said is deep and usually it will take people making their own mistakes to come to the conclusion you just said but it gets me excited to hear that because if you're saying that and everybody watching and listening is hearing you and if they if they even pick up on one thing they go you know what I don't want to buy High I want to avoid Manas or I'm going to check out this Index Fund thing what is an index fund that sounds pretty good that is gamechanging it can change your entire socioeconomic trajectory I talk to these folks all the time they're instagramming me they're sending me emails and they go I was the first kid in my family to go to college um I used your material I landed a job I started investing I do the 401K match and I am now 31 and I have $140,000 in my accounts and I already know that I'm going to be a millionaire by this month of this year and I go this is amazing they have changed the trajectory of their lives and their family's lives it's amazing it's incredible so now getting into the psychology of why I think I'm going to make a hypothesis you don't like Robin Hood yeah they give you credit which people need to be very thoughtful and if the one piece of advice I would give people is supposedly rich people know how to use leverage and all that as a rich person I'm just telling you right now I don't [ __ ] with leverage thank you like that is terrifying that's how you get yourself into trouble okay can we just talk about this before the Robinhood slam so people have a lot of misconceptions about rich people it drives me insane so when you get rich people to actually share openly it is revelatory so I wrote a PO a series of tweets about how everybody thinks rich people have these secret Investments that they're getting like 10 times the returns of normal index funds I go listen I'm rich I have access to all this stuff and I can tell you right now yes I do have access to more things than the average person like private Equity some Venture Capital certainly private Investments uh companies but guess what they usually do not outperform an index fund and so can they yes we both know investors I know you've invested there's a lot of investors who have picked a company it went Bonkers and they're incredibly wealthy amazing but that doesn't happen every day and that's very unpredictable so this enraged people it enraged them because oddly enough we have a cultural belief here that the rich get richer which is true but primarily because of tax reasons and therefore if RIT is telling me that the rich don't actually have access to these secret Investments then the entire Paradigm for them falls apart I can tell you if you look at private Equity return like if you go look first of all most people don't even know what private Equity is but let's just say you get access to a PE fund the way PE funds Market their returns they're like we get like 22% irr but in a tiny little asterisk on page 62 of the prospectus they will say amount return to the investor is something like 5% very often these super sophisticated Investments when once you factor in fees and taxes underperform a simple Vanguard S&P 500 Index Fund 80 plus% of VC funds fail to beat the market 80% of active investors on Wall Street these are highly paid investors fail to beat the market so what I'm saying is there's this big myth that the rich have access to these secret Investments now they do have access to more Investments but that doesn't mean they are better and I can tell you as someone who has access to these I've basically decided I prioritize simplicity I want to wake up in the morning and not have a gillion things around me Simplicity and I know for my goals a simple set of index funds sure maybe a few different individual Investments you know some angel stuff maybe but like tiny you peel off a certain percentage to play with exactly just like going to the casino you go okay I'm gonna do a hundred bucks and that's it cool you managed your risk the problem is like when I talk to these crypto Bros and they go REM you're such an old guy who wants 7% returns that's so boring I go okay so you're into Bitcoin that's cool uh what percentage of your portfolio is in Bitcoin they go portfolio what's that that's their first comment and then I I'll suggest to people hey if you want to invest in speculative assets okay but why don't we limit it to maybe like 2% or 5% and they just look at me like Diversified portfolio why would I diversify and they then they use words that really sophisticated investor do the only problem is they don't understand them they go it's concentration concentration is how you make your money diversification how you preserve it I go do you know what the [ __ ] you are talking about you have $300 in your portfolio and you're talking about concentration risk some people cannot be helped that's okay with me I do what I can but the people who are watching and improving for them there are a lot of simple ways that you can make a lot of money it just takes time here's where it gets tricky they're not wrong and I forget who said diversification Is for Suckers it was somebody huge yeah and they're right but only if you get it right the odds of you getting it right oh my God they're vanishingly Slim So This is it's the same reason that people chase money or fame there there really is utility to it so money is incredibly powerful and it's why people can't stop themselves from trying to get rich even though I how many people have to tell you that if you're chasing money you're going to end up emotionally bankrupt it's just ruthless they don't believe you though they don't they do it they have to do it themselves and make the mistake but the reason that that won't go away is because money actually is powerful the reason that the idea of the crypto bro whether it's crypto or anything else is that when it hits for somebody it really hits man and it is transformational and they tell everybody about it and it's for that person it's probably real like and so everybody chases that one it's like somebody becoming a movie star you go I want that if that if Tom Cruz sits here and says well let me actually explain the statistics of how many people were in my class and how I'm the only one who everyone's like whatever Tom I just I want to be like you and so it's okay if that's what you want to do then God Bless but you need to understand the game you are playing some people go I am going to give my entire life to try be Tom Cruz okay do you understand the tradeoffs and maybe it will work one in a million one in 10 million okay but what if it doesn't work so this is a common thing for entrepreneurs as well I have a lot of entrepreneur friends and we talk about what are we doing with our business and our money and you wouldn't believe it but very few of them invest in the market and I go what do you mean you don't invest in the market you're rich you have a lot of money put let's put it to work and they go dude they look at me like dude I can make way more putting it in my business than putting it in the market which may be true in the short term but I go you're right you should probably invest aggressively I mean your business is great I have nothing to say about your business but I also say how many businesses do you know that were around for 60 years seers even they went out like big companies go out I say why take the risk of going from here to here why not take some of your cash flow FL and diversify it it makes you sleep at night if something catastrophic happens to you or your business you and your family are taken care of like why not and that that is a productive conversation because I think business owners they kind of get risk they think about risk a little differently um honestly you know I don't want to scare people with money where it gets most exciting for me is people who go okay I'm ready to invest I just don't understand it those that is an amazing conversation because in the course of couple of hours you can change the way somebody thinks about money if they're scared of money if they talk about it with their partner with money and those are the people that are ready to make a change all right so let's get into the person that they decide okay cool I am going to invest but what I think we're up against because I think they're going to be drawn to the robin hoods of the world they're going to be drawn to Wall Street bets yeah my hypothesis is that there really is something about um gaining mechanics gambling that is so enticing and so fun and so innate to The Human Condition yeah that people cannot help themselves so as let's use Robin Hood as an example I actually don't know them very well but I know enough that I think I understand why you don't like them but tell me where I go as yeah they they have gamified um gambling by doing what speculating when you when you first of all where where is it uh advertised where is it talked about in the height of the crypto boom it was talked about all over the crypto rooms you don't really want to be in those rooms if you are a long-term investor you do not want to be uh but okay that's where their marketing was happening fine when you sign up for an account and log in they give you free money they go pick pick something part scar here's a free token that is not how investing should be done and do you have to pay that money back is it a loan or is it you can lose it and it doesn't matter yeah I think free um this is long-term investing it should be it's not it should not be speculating because individual MERS should not be speculating and how do you speculate because the part that scares me about Robin Hood isn't even that okay they're encouraging you to pick your own stocks and make you think you're fancy and you're going to end up losing your money yeah it's that they get into puts calls options where you have infinite downside correct that's where people commit suicide that's the one that freaks me out and and things like that have happened it's um quite dangerous that's a rarity you know um they do offer it and in my opinion the individual investor should not be doing it I don't just to give you an example why am I going to take so much risk to make a little bit more money than I even need why I I'm making enough and I have a longtime Horizon I'm good for the individual investor who's just opening an account they've never invested they come in it's like going into a candy store except it's candy laced with drugs it's not the kind of thing I would never put my family members on Robin Hood what's the drug in the scenario uh just picking stocks well that is a minor drug that's like um what's worse than caffeine but it's like a drug speed I I'm not the drug guy I don't know I don't know anything about drugs I was like doing spelling bees when I was a kid not drugs uh better for you yeah um the risks are number one you start thinking that investing is picking individual Investments that's individual stocks that crypto should be your entire portfolio there's a huge risk number two all the advanced things that really you should not be using as an individual investor call options trading there's no reason for it uh and worst of all once you get into this world this Zeitgeist and you're of course going to search Robin Hood investing tips you're now surround it's like you've gone down the rabbit hole and this is your world it's like you took a wrong turn on the internet I have a personal theory that people who signed up for Robin Hood during the crypto boom will have lower lifetime returns than the average Vanguard investor why because if you get used to 300 or even 3,000% returns for two or three or four years how are you ever going to be satisfied with a 7% annualized return it's impossible and so this is important it's like making a decision in your adolescence that can affect the rest of your life and I know you said that you believe a lot of people are subject to um manipulation or being gamified and things like that I agree that is very true and it's exploitative my my view is there are also a lot of people who want simple investing they're willing to put in the time they don't want uh whizbang fancy stuff they just want to know how basic investing really works they want to understand their money psychology they want to feel good about money those are the people I talk to okay so tell me a little bit more about leverage so that's the part about Robin Hood that scares me is that people can get themselves in a situation so I certainly understand you're what you're telling people to do invest in an index fund put it in wait a long time just dollar cost averag and keep adding money and don't touch it yeah we know though that people get excited they like the gambling mechanics so what are the things that they should be on alert for how how does leverage enter it what is leverage how do people get themselves in trouble would you ever use leverage with the S&P 500 no way okay Leverage is basically um it's it's putting put a turbocharger on your Investments now if that sounds awesome it sounds really good however however people forget that leverage works on the way up but it also works on the way down so when things are good and you use leverage they can be really good you're borrowing money you're applying that towards your Investments and it's like oh my gosh it's appreciating fantastic of course you need to manage your leverage uh you need to sell you need to do all these very complicated things that the average person on the street has no idea about where it goes really bad is when things start to turn there's all these famous stories about people who had tons of money and then one day they are wiped out those stories terrify me and they also confuse me because if you have a million dollars or10 million or however much is a lot you have to play a different game you have to decide what what is risk to me like when I was 22 and I was not making that much money and I was starting my first company I was like I'll work really hard my risk my downside is low because I live in a house where my rent is 800 bucks a month and like I'll go with my friends at Google and eat lunch there and take my backpack pack and stuff it with food to take home like great my risk is much higher now if I lost it you know I got used to these sweaters man what am I going to go back to wearing the old sweaters I used to no I have a family uh I have a lifestyle that I like and I have Investments and plans for how I use my money I have a team I have employees so my risk tolerance changes okay when you're using leverage if you are really really really Savvy and I mean um probably savier than 99.5% of investors leverage can make sense many borrow money to buy some yeah some type of security it could be a house even you know people use leverage for their house and that's great a lot of people point to that as a great reason for Real Estate outperforming true on the other hand when prices go down as they are now leverage can be your enemy so if you put a little bit of money down and the price of the house goes down just by this you can be wiped out why how how does that happen I have to show you the math I don't have it handy but imagine what is the metaphor here that I can share with you it's like putting on um a a heavy weight vest and and I get launched into the sky I'm gonna go faster because I have this weight vest it's just like forcing me up there any physicist watching this please don't write me about how I don't understand gravity you're right but when you turn and come down that weight V is going to make you come down way faster than you ordinarily would have um that's the best example I can give let's step out of analogy and go into just the reality because in in the housing market I think the only way that Leverage is going to bite you in the ass is the following so Leverage is literally just borrowing money so you have the leverage of somebody else's money so they give you money let's say you put 10% down but you buy the whole house so if the house costs $100,000 you put $10,000 down you now owe $90,000 when the house is worth more than the amount that you owe all is well because you could sell the house and get that money and you can pay the bank where you get into trouble is if your house is worth less then you owe on it yes and your payment goes up let's say because interest rates change you had an arm an adjustable rate mortgage and so now you can no longer make your payments you can't make your payments now the bank is sweating you saying hey you better give us our money back you can't sell the house at least not for what you owe and so boom you end up losing your house yeah that's basically it although the interest rate doesn't necessarily need to reset there are a lot of reasons why you can be in a bad position but that's a you can't make your payment is the punch line because if you can make your payment it doesn't matter the price of your house or the value of your house could go down down down down down and it wouldn't matter uh technically yes uh there are some psychological wrinkles people hate to keep making payments on something when they know it's worth less than they paid that is a minor psychological difference but nothing is forcing correct nothing ising but now I want to talk about using leverage to invest in crypto or the stock market because here's where people get absolutely obliterated so you're using the value let's just use Bitcoin you're using the value of Bitcoin yeah as The Leverage to get the loan so hey you have Bitcoin that's worth $100,000 we're going to give you $50,000 loan use the uh Bitcoin as the collateral so you then use that to buy more Bitcoin the problem is if the value of the Bitcoin drops enough the second that value equals how much you owe them they force liquidate you to make sure that they don't lose any money yeah so they're like word thank you they sell they get all of it you go from having something to having nothing in an instant known as a force liquidation yeah wait has this happened to you no but I couldn't understand how people were getting in trouble I was like I what do you mean a liquidation so because I was used to thinking like a house and I'm like as long as you can make a payment what's the problem but they're not making a payment it's just the collateralization so the second that it drops to matching then they're like we can't afford this dropping anymore we have to sell to get our USD back so they force you to sell I didn't know that was a thing yeah so thankfully because here's my thing dude going back to the first thing I said I do not trust myself I'm going to be very trepidacious so so even now with as much money as I have dude a I don't have leverage on anything but the only time I would ever even consider doing something on Leverage is if I understood that thing and had proven to myself that I had performance over long periods of time completely I love that you say that we have a similar philosophy you know there's a spectrum of how risk seeking you are with money and you know people follow these somewhat predictable moves on the Spectrum when you're young you'll take all the risk in the world when you have a little Capital you maybe get a little bit less risky um that's normal but I remember a mentor of mine many years ago uh he was he was a pretty successful Silicon Valley investor so we were out for lunch and he was talking we're talking about money and he said R I have a no debt policy in my family and I thought to I was young I thought to myself wow must be nice not have to take any loans buy a car cash I wasn't even thinking about a house but he has a no debt policy now that I've gotten older I've grown my own business and personal wealth I actually admire him even more because as someone who has a lot of money he could easily leverage himself to buy a house buy a car all kinds of stuff but he doesn't he knows what enough is so out of all my friends well let me ask you do you have enough enough no okay we can get into why I want to know why so I've actually heard you say and people say this all the time you want to talk about a money lie that drives me crazy uh you've got hundreds of millions of dollars you could never spend it what dude I could drop easily half a billion dollars just making one film and marketing it so to me it's like bro I need so much money to do what I'm trying to do so even though in the average world I'm freakishly wealthy with what I'm trying to build I feel hamstrung by money all the time wow so all I think about is how do we generate more Revenue so that we can keep investing in the business so but I don't fall prey to that I don't actually have enough you know what I mean like for what I'm trying to build I don't have enough but if I stop having fun H then I just stop and go be rich okay so I'm not I don't trap myself in in uh foolish beliefs we could really derail into frame of reference right now which I actually think is the ultimate thing that you point out for people yeah but to get into frame of R maybe later but well first of all I just say I like your answer a lot um I only know one other person besides me who says he has enough he's a friend of mine he also studied all my money stuff years years ago and he's done very well and I asked him recently do you have enough yes didn't miss a beat I was stunned I was like meeting a unicorn I said what you have you're the only person I've ever heard say that besides me and we talked about it he understands money he understands compounding he knows how much he has today and he knows if he does nothing else he just leaves that turkey in the oven and just lets it sit it's going to turn into a huge amount of money he knows how to spend it how to leverage it leverage meaning not use leverage but how to um make use of his Mone use of it yeah so I don't mind if most people would not answer yes to that question I don't mind it your answer is great it's on a far end of the spectrum but I do want people to know what is enough and if I ask somebody what is I asked them this all the time in my podcast and their answer is uh a million bucks or three million bucks I go okay how'd you come up with that and they go well you know I just I feel like that's like a good amount like I'll feel safe when I have that and I go can I tell you something they go yeah I go you genuinely believe that when you have $2.5 million in the bank you're going to feel safe it's never going to happen the way you feel about money is highly uncorrelated with how much you've got in the bank and I I've talked to people on the podcast who have they believe they need $100,000 to feel safe a million 10 million 15 million and without fail when they get there they're still worried they're still worried because the two are independent so we have to understand first of all what does a million dollars mean how much can you generate from that if you do nothing and you want to keep that money safe how much can you turn that into in terms of cash flow that's just basic understanding things like the 4% rule but then we need to understand the emotional psychological part of money that's super neglected especially among techy guys you know they're over here on making their spreadsheets and in the fire Community they go oh I need my Trinity rule I need to do my spreadsheets I go man you're going to go the rest of your life optimizing your spreadsheet and you're never going to actually feel good about money and that has been the focus of my work for the last few years it's very interesting I always find myself drawn to what's the psychology of that person because the fire person they're not focused on the same thing that you are correct but they're getting off on like really scrimping and scraping and like it that has become the game for them and I remember when I was really broke and I wanted to spend money and I didn't have money to spend and I'm not sure what gave me the the idea but this ended up working amazingly what if I gamified saving what if I put all of my dopamine in that basket so that as I watch my bank balance go up even though it was going up from like $115 to $127 could I get a dopamine spike out of that and become obsessive about saving and it worked it was awesome you still do that no not at all how'd you turn it off I got really rich but so I mean this is like and okay so there there are things about my brain that I am really grateful for and there's things about my brain that really piss me off but I am hyper malleable and I know how to change myself so when I needed to save I was like intuitively I understood I need to make this a game because then I'll be attracted to that I didn't I wouldn't have said oh this is about dopamine but I knew it'll be fun that was the only way I could explain it I'll make this fun so I knew how to make that fun but the whole point of me getting into business and doing all this was so that I could build the studio so so I once I got there then it just became a question of what do I want to use the money for which I know is a big thing that you talk about but I want to talk about safety for a second because as you were saying that I realized I will never having money in the bank will never make me feel safe the O there's literally no amount of money because I know how easy it is to spend on something big or take a big risk and it's all gone the thing that makes me feel safe is that I know how to make money and so my skill set makes me feel impervious so I don't the only fear I actually do have one fear around losing my money and that's it will it will really not make me look cool to my wife if you lose money if I lost money yeah so that would I would not feel studly in front of my wife and so that makes me really bummed out the thought of that happening but because I know I can rebuild yeah dude honestly like I sometimes fantasize about I lose starting it all over but like not I can't even start my own company I have to go in somebody else's company do you know how fast I would get promoted through that [ __ ] company the ma that would be amazing yes if should it all go away I will come knock give me a call but yeah uh okay so that's amazing the fact that when I talk to you it's so interesting I hear similar things that I hear from other people but your reasoning and your level of reasoning is just completely different from others it makes perfect sense you know you are as successful as you are and you think about this stuff every single day it's like a joy to talk to you most people are scared of not having enough most people worry about money they believe that a certain number will make them feel safe in your case you worry about money a little bit you don't feel safe with money those two things are the same but you're you're impervious to uh that type of risk CU you know know how to make money and you acknowledge it might be embarrassing you know for you and your life would definitely be embarrassing what I want people to do is to go deeper than just saying um I don't feel safe with money I want people to go deeper than saying I worry about money I and I this is what I do I
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