Q&A on Achieving Personal Growth Through Extreme Discipline
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Kind: captions Language: en Hey all right what is up everybody welcome to the final hour of the impact 24 hour marathon actually made it I can't believe this actually went wave but when I think back to when I started right me too yeah but it feels like a long time ago and I think I just know that like time happened time did happen a lot of time is happen at it and here we are guys we cannot tell you we are so grateful for everything that you've done to help this community race to a hundred thousand likes on Facebook we are insanely grateful and really really grateful for the way that you guys support each other the way that you guys really interact with us interact with the content share the content it is incredibly meaningful to us and important to the long-term vision of the company as you guys well known all right as promised I said that I would answer every question that came in by 6 a.m. this morning so we've got them locked in we have 34 I think questions to get through let's see and how we do yep so alright say what that feat eyes that live feed yeah all right so here we go we're gonna get through these because I have another podcast to do at 10:00 so we're gonna make magic happen these are gonna be some of the best answers ever just as a reminder we've got a grand prize coming your way this prize is massive it's all the 24 smaller prizes that we've been doing through all the segments all through the day and night and put into one big grand prize 2k worth of value this is a big bad yeah mama JAMA and if you want to win you have to correctly identify the seven Easter eggs that we have planted throughout the entire feed and full disclosure while I have been changing my shirt throughout the impact a thon they are not the easter eggs so you don't need to send that in my outfits perfectly well said alright or the dogs yes another thing that we're dressed randomly so we thought people might think so no none of those all right the giveaway question name all of the special guests from this livestream name all of the special guests from this livestream to win this segments basket of goodness absolutely so here is the basket of goodness you got Ryan holidays book the daily stoic you've got panda planner you've got QA a day you've got an Amazon echo dot quest products impact Theory swag all manner of goodness alright we're now officially in yes Kari our first question comes from Curran Davis when does it make the most sense to retain a media company from wait yeah from the get-go or after you've reached a certain metric so this really comes down to what you're trying to accomplish what your budget is quite frankly because that's a very real consideration something to focus on as you're making that decision I think there's so much that you can do when you're by yourself and I think that you can probably get pretty big long before you need to do that and also as I imagine budget is a constraint you want to be having an eye towards monetization and to not get yourself into trouble I would say really only invest the amount of money into it that you're willing to lose entirely and then up to that point you've got to turn profitability so whether that's going to be advertising on your channel depending on which platform you're building whether that's going to be doing sponsorships with brands like whatever that is whatever your niche is whatever the value proposition that you're bringing to the world is but you need to find a way to monetize that otherwise it becomes just a sinkhole for cash all right this next one comes from Laura Kay Chamberlin do you think it's better it's a better strategy to invest a lot of time in building a YouTube channel and related brand today behind the curve or to keep building that brand with less fervor and focus on diving deep into getting amazing at using my skills and passions in the world of VR where where I'd be more ahead of the general public so I can offer excellence when it come becomes mainstream so I will say this tomorrow someone is gonna start a YouTube page and in the next 12 months it is gonna be a phenom it will blow past a million subscribers and it will all happen because that person is insanely talented they spent a very long time getting incredibly good at something and they'll know how to deliver value to other people and get picked up by somebody who's an influencer who really wants to share their incredible talent with the world so I promise you virality is still gonna happen every [ __ ] day and I mean at the channel level I'm not just talking like a single one-off video so understanding that where I thought you were gonna go is to say should I spend all my time and energy building my talents in the area that I really care most deeply and passionately about versus trying to build a following and I would say focus all of your time and energy on the talents that you want to be really great in that you want to be world-class in if once you start thinking about what it where am I ahead of the curve and all that and it's not an area specifically focused on like your deepest passion so if your passion is which you alluded to is VR don't worry about whether it's ahead of the curve or not worry about the fact that you love it and you want to help bring that medium to the world and oh by the way it's a great added bonus that you happen to be ahead of the curve but I would not in any way shape or form let that be my driving factor if I did that we wouldn't have launched this channel there were plenty of people doing stuff in this space I mean Jesus the mindset space is about as crowded this is gonna get the protein bar space is about as crowded as it was gonna get me you can absolutely shine in that and I think that we've we've come from behind and built I mean we're already like approaching 300,000 if we haven't already crossed that mark ecosystem wide and we did that in like nine months so this is in fact lesson one nine months so this is something that is very very possible to do if you focus on putting out high quality content so follow that thing that you want to be the best in the world at chase that perfect so this next one comes from Micky Jackson what is your schedule to work how did you create it do you do different days for different things or a little of something each day so it is all about having an important things list and this really comes down to specificity of goal once you know exactly what your goal is and I'll give you an example of a terrible goal I want to build a studio okay that's a terrible goal that's so nonspecific like that's so big and so far away like what are those steps that you back into that I'm not saying that's not ultimately where you're gonna get but what are you gonna be doing to date and finding a way to create the concrete steps that are gonna bridge between you and building a studio before I would be comfortable calling us a studio I'm gonna guess it's gonna take about three years so you've got a note like what do you what do you like that's three years of going all-out every day trying to make as many partnerships as I can trying to do as many crazy events like this as we can going out meeting people face-to-face travelling building out contracts getting people to submit painting a vision networking I mean there's so many things you can be doing and so you've got to be really religious about keeping a important things list which are the daily tasks that are completable they're not like esoteric it's not thinking about things it's actually doing things in order to take the steps towards that goal now that's a whole [ __ ] thing and at some point I should figure out how to explain to people how I do that because I think that would be very very valuable and right now I'm just telling them to do that so that's something we should write down Amanda but that that really is we have to do you have to get very good at identifying what those steps are and execute on a day-to-day basis perfect so the next one comes from Michelle penny what's your advice for when you find yourself in a situation where you're isolated from those who can inspire and Drive you forward should you look to create it for yourself via audio books podcasts videos etc or is it all actually an excuse and you shouldn't need others to kick you into action I mean look anytime that you can find this entirely within yourself that's amazing but I would never be tends to go out and leverage the content that somebody is creating to spark something in you and to take action but the problem is where people get lost in the omentum so hyped I love this video is amazing and that feels so good then they take all the time that they had to execute against something they got inspired and then they went to work at their 9:00 to 5:00 right and so every morning to feel that drudgery the dread I don't want to go in so I'm gonna watch these inspiring videos make me feel like I can do anything and then I leave for work so you really have to be discipline and so if you say let's say you've got an hour and that's all the time you've got and you're really just not feeling it set an alarm for 10 minutes go get inspired and then for the remaining 50 minutes execute the [ __ ] out of it now that you've caught that wave but the the reality is what you need is that roadmap so once you've created the roadmap of hyper specific executable action items which are actually going to move you towards your goal then you should be spending all of your time just chipping away chipping away chipping away chipping away and only allowing yourself to really feel good when you execute on something when you finish something when you take a task all the way to completion works like okay that brick is now laid in this foundation and I can lay that next brick and when you begin to chemically reward yourself by you know praising yourself internally then man then it really gets special because instead of always turning to the motivational stuff or the educational stuff you do a little bit of that and a whole ton of the executing and the ton of executing feels good like I will tell you I actually start getting anxious if I go too long without looking at my important things list I get anxious if I go too long without actually moving those things forward because I know those are the only things that move the company forward as a whole so execute execute execute super succinct all right so this next one question comes from Travis Porter Dane Lyon do you ever take into account how the realities of climate change mass extinction and other major social issues play into your mission that's super deep I would say that it's at the absolute farthest outer reaches of my awareness there will come a time where that will make sense when we're having to actually make decisions about how we're gonna set things up how we're going to structure it what our carbon footprint is going to be what the impact is that we're gonna have on that right now we're not putting out that kind of physical stuff so yeah I'd be lying if I said that that was a priority for us right now this next one comes from Gabriel Broly Tom you said that you meet yourself when you suffer and it's great to make calculated pockets of suffering that will help you move towards your goals thus you created this impact athon to suffer and give back to the community so what are what are your takeaways from this 24 hours what did you learn about yourself and what did you learn about the team and the community well let's start with what yeah let's start with what I learned about the team and in all fairness the team is my priority and I hope that makes you guys feel good I hope that really resonates with you guys I think that it will I learned something amazing about the team I did not ask a single person to join me in this crazy endeavor certainly not for 24 hours I figured we kind of schedule things out I'm gonna be one person sort of through the whole thing and the way that everybody ran a fit that so many people stayed late so many people that couldn't stay through the entire night came ass early I mean it's just unbelievable and just felt a really insanely wonderful response this team I'm realizing not not tonight in fairness this is an echo of a realization that I had before that I'm going through one of the most beautiful periods of my life right now and this is just incredible and I'm having so much fun so that's the team they are unbelievable this is the result of them so they did everything and simply told me where to sit and what to read off the screen so the team literally killed themselves to make this incredibly special beyond what I ever would have imagined so I won't say that that I realize this about the team because I already believe this but seeing it in action is always thrilling they are unbelievable I have never seen a team of people like this before ever in my life and I've been a part of some incredible teams but this is very very special the community you guys were so much more engaged than I ever could hope for we set a high-water mark for the number of people all at once during a live which was incredibly rewarding so thank you guys just absolutely mind-blowing and what did I learn about myself meet myself and suffering I actually didn't end up suffering which is kind of fascinating I expected this to be way more tiring I thought God that I would be like sort of making it like across the finish so I learned that this engagement with you guys with the team gives me so much energy that I've never experienced anything like it before so that's just being real alright our giveaway winner is Joe cross Joe cross congratulations I Joe was very active in the community thank you Joe super glad that you won that's awesome yeah great awesome question Gabriel next question comes from kg Barry what's the best way to change the story you tell yourself how did you craft that story and what do you specifically do to keep telling it to yourself every day so the best way to change the story that you tell yourself is really just to make immediate modifications in the form of imagine you're writing a story and you say words exactly like I am the type of person that gets out of bed in ten minutes or less I am the type of person that is willing to suffer for his health I'm the type of person that would always put the team the team's needs before my needs like you you say things like that and then you have to act in accordance with that to not feel like a fraud now that's a major motivator for me if you don't mind sitting in feeling like a fraud then then my techniques just aren't gonna work for you because once I say like I'm very careful about what I say okay there are many cool things like I would love to say I'm the type of person that does whatever it takes to get yoked and they just have a crazy physique but the fact is I don't care enough about it so I know I'm not gonna stay true to that so I don't make myself that promise so I am willing to suffer for longevity I'm willing to suffer for my health so there's so many things I want to eat that I don't need and I always stick to that and so I feel a deep sense of truth when I say that to myself or I say that to somebody else but my physique is an exact reflection of how much I care which is some but it isn't like a fitness model so just keeping it real so you have to be very careful with that how do you mind yourself to say it every day there should be benefits that come from it so you should have a compelling future that you're trying to reach that this new thing that you've done to your identity is so important to reaching that compelling future I mean you're actually very excited about it you want to get to it nobody has to remind you so if you're like you're slogging and you have to like push yourself and convince yourself like you don't have a compelling future so first focus on not get something that you're really really excited to get to and then back into what the things are that you have to change and your belief system to get there so once you have that becomes a lot easier to remind yourself to say it over and over because it's creating this momentum in your life is moving towards the thing that you want all right so this next question comes from Matthew Greenheck I really enjoyed the infobar at the bottom of the screen when we had our inside quest videos any chance you could bring them back it was really a great value read we have we've talked about it but never gotten very serious about it because it was oddly enough a fair amount of work and so we've instead decided to put that energy into creating additional content and since we're about to literally destroy ourselves with an entire new show and expending what our show notes because when I didn't SciQuest I don't think we had like really expansive show notes they were just like here's a description and great point yeah great point so we we all agree and recognize that it's that it's bad but everything's a trade-off right so or I shouldn't seem bad it's worse than it could be but we believe that we're getting significantly more value out of the things that we do choose to put that energy into so hopefully you agree all right so I'm like forgetting words right now so our next question comes from Stacy Smith this one it's kind of funny there are people who choose vegetables over cake [Laughter] yes because they know some part of them believes that they're supposed to depending on what your goals are I would say it's probably a decent strategy I would choose vegetables over cake and the irony is though because I use a bright line strategy that decision doesn't even have any cognitive load for me so I would never choose cake so there are other ways to offload that cognitive burden so our next question comes from Naomi Hernandez much love from El Salvador what an amazing team you've built Tom thank you Tom you often say that you reward yourself when you do something that makes you proud what types of rewards are these and how did you decide on them so they're all like verbal praise so and it's all internal I'm not actually saying it out loud but just when you act in a manner that is consistent with your identity when you act in a manner that's consistent with with what you told yourself that you were gonna do and you show up and you do it when you encounter something that's hard and you have every desire to quit except for you have a stronger desire to reach your goal and you push through and you do it so all of those times I'm literally saying to my son to be honest and not really quite words it's like it's just that sense of yeah I [ __ ] did it like I said I was gonna do it I did it I showed up I crushed it I feel good about that it's not always fully formed words like that but that's sort of the sentiment that's running through my head I may allow myself to tell Lisa that I did something that I'm really proud of and that I know show that she'll reflect that back at me and congratulate me and she's very good like if she knows that something's really meaningful to me she'll like bring it up a couple times later like I'm really proud that you did that so cool or she may even do something cool like this like I really want to like cook all your food today I don't want you to get anything just because I think it's so amazing that you did like XYZ so that kind of stuff is super dope and I'm beyond grateful to have that in my life yeah so I mean yesterday morning Lisa cracked my eggs which is really sweet that's pretty legit yeah yeah all right so our next question comes from Erika Iglesias good morning Tom would you say in a letter wait what would you say in a letter to your younger self that's very easy there is this thing called a fixed mindset you have it in spades you believe that your talent and intelligence are fixed traits and that they can be adjusted and so you're about to go on a really wasteful path of putting yourself in smaller and smaller types of places where you feel like the smartest person when in reality there's this other thing called a growth mindset and it's actually true and it is that your talent and intelligence are malleable traits and that through discipline practice that you can really develop anything and look at one simple fact we're all born a lump of jell-o that can hardly hold its own head up and yet we learn to walk we learn to speak a language we learn to do all this incredible stuff and at some point we stop believing that we can do anything we set our minds to and if you don't do that then you can accomplish anything you set your mind to and I would obviously be more compelling than that and I would give some amazing examples that I would stop and really think about but that is the only thing that I would need to communicate to my younger self the growth mindset alright so our next question comes from sim land Samantha's been a hello like super in the feed alright so what's your favorite moment from the matrix the my favorite moment oh wow my favorite moment from the matrix is God there's two I'll have to go because every time it gives me the chills when he spoiler alert when he rises back up puts his hand out and says no and all the bullets stop mm-hmm that every time every time that that's like one of those things it gives me the chills like I kind of want to cry and I want to cry it's one of those moments every time yeah that feels very consistent because we had a similar question and I feel like that was your answer to it as well I also love the meeting with the Oracle yes the second shows alright this next one comes from Cory G Rhoda well we get more panel sit-downs similar to one we did with Modi US House health and will we be releasing that segment as a podcast episode well that's interesting I should never even thought about that I'm super young - yeah release it as a podcast I would love to do more things especially as we get more involved in health I think those could be really really useful for people also as we get deeper into nerd culture getting a bunch of people on to talk about to take pop culture seriously is the easiest way to sort of round it off but yeah I think we could do some really cool panels here's the problem with panels they're so hard to schedule yeah so hard like it's crazy it's crazy yes and thankfully somebody else scheduled that one for us right and I love it because you never think about how hard it is to schedule and like you think oh I'll just put together a panel like super easy no no never liked that very much not all right so this next one comes from can't hits who's definitely been in the field I think there's nine am kate has been rock so he's like alright Tom if you're because this is a live question Tom if you were a young guy with few responsibilities that was debating whether or not to drive across the country for a live two day event for the sheer ability to surround yourself with growth minded individuals and hopefully form deep bronze would you go before I answer that if this feed is bringing value to you please share it that would be amazing this is our final hour our home stretch we want to get as many people engaged with this as humanly possible that would be awesome so please go right now hit that share button and get this bad boy out there also I'd love to know your feedback if you notice I'm answering these questions very differently now I'm trying a very succinct very direct approach every time I do this as an amis tile the they just crush so our hope is that it's just a preferred method for you guys so new rule for grand prize these guys are cheeky now you must also share this video I love it I love you guys a style with a way to slip that one in like tired and like right so would i how far is he driving across country yeah cross the country I hear yeah that's actually yeah if it's the u.s. that's one thing yeah so I would say there's okay if it's this one look there are enough things that are gonna be going on probably much closer to you that you I mean sort of no matter where you are there's are there gonna be one in Texas there's gonna be one in Chicago there's gonna be one in New York that's gonna be one in LA there's there's gonna be a lot going on so I would say it's very important to begin networking it's very important to get around like-minded people it's very important to join groups like the impact theory League which you can do on Facebook stuff like that we really gonna meet like-minded people that I think you're gonna be very beneficial whether you're looking for somebody to partner up with you in a future business or just finding people that are going to be encouraging it's probably no reason to drive across country so I think that going to them is great I just think they happen a lot they happen all the time and they don't necessarily need to be massive ones so you can start something local that maybe isn't gigantic but is a little more accessible I think in this case getting to that balance between quantity and quality so you going to you know five or six local events that are of good quality is probably better than going to one national event we have to drive across country and it's like a three day or four day commitment there's just only so many people you can meet in a day so yeah that's my answer I feel like I would I would push back just just because it's interesting that you would say that you would drive across the country because that in and of itself is a particular experience because I feel like flying in it's like super easy like if you do want to go on some type of experiential adventure like that because you could be meeting people all along the way you never know or you're joining yes like it's no one exactly I would I would end up meeting a bunch of people actually well no this is just gonna derail I know we have a ton of questions to get through so another Q&A will like / the story about this like mysterious dude that me and my friend met who was from saint-petersburg but like we were in Panama City Beach and like we had this like whole almost like soul bond and then like disappeared never spoke gym because I broke my phone and I had lost this number and I was before I had like an iPhone and get back in serendipity actually you have to see all right so if you're out there are activists spotlight yeah bring that now so yeah we're gonna read why all right this one is Matt Kohn our boy yeah so Tom showed me by example that the most sustainable and impactful business model is one that genuinely seeks to solve meaningful problems at scale as he said before quest was never seeking to deliver a delicious nutritious nutrition bar it was a delicious bar designed to prevent disease empowering people to improve their relationship with food and in turn their quality of life how can you be spearheading that mission and not be radically driven into the world to drop driven to that world-changing cause since this advice I've launched multiple brands and products that have achieved success I never could have expected helping me make the transition from a struggling broke freelancer to a thriving business owner tom is the goat Wow well congratulations dude you've done all that work so sending out a vibe of inspiration hardly qualifies you know when you put in the work when you do those things when you take that risk like that's all your ownership man but I'm I'm very honored trust me very honored that you would send it in and say kind things so thank you very much man keep doing the damn thing keep inspiring other people that's incredible I love that yes okay and so with that I feel like we should go to a video question all right from Joe cross Joe everyone so this next question comes from Shaun Watson what's your favorite guilty pleasure so I want to answer that honestly I don't really have guilty pleasures because all the things that I do I've found a way like so even videogames right it's now bonding time with my wife so that would have that before at least I started playing that would have been my answer because it was definitely selfish time something I did by myself other than saying that like there are definitely times where it is legitimate practice of calming your nervous system but that edged up hunchy key but now that we played together it really is like bonding time and video game time so that's the only thing yeah also full disclosure there are times these days it doesn't happen very often if my wife is eating dinner upstairs I might go up for 15 or 20 minutes and if she has a car dashians on I'll actually be like wait I thought that they broke up like what's happening so yeah I'd be be lying that's happened but it's not nothing I spent a lot of time on that's fair yeah next one comes from Philippa Maia Filipa all right I've been blogging mainly about my journey positive attitude and growth mindset I want to grow my personal brand and platform because I want to make impact wait yeah I want to impact people's lives however I'm terrified of exposing myself I haven't even put my photo on my blog yet how do I get over this fear honestly the only way that you're going to get over that fear is if you believe that your content is really helping somebody and if you believe there is somebody whose life will be fundamentally altered forever and for the better because of the content that I'm putting out you'll take the risk if your content isn't quite there yet and you know you have a lot to learn and they're putting it out now exposes you makes you uncomfortable and you're not sure that it's helping anybody that's where it's like it's probably better to just double down get good focus on that don't worry about exposing yourself and and really focus on that but at the end of the day it really like once you're doing something in service of other people you find that that's that's pretty easy it ends up being like a small price to pay to help somebody and that I mean that's what I return to when things get hard I return to like people like Matt Kohn writing in and saying hey look this actually really had an impact or God the ones that really get me you know I've been struggling with depression and you're helping me climb out like those are like whoa because yeah that that's just incredibly meaningful so things like that they'll they'll give you the courage that you need to get out and do that and if you don't have it look there's you don't need to create content you don't need to be documenting everything you do so if it makes you uncomfortable like find the thing that that really lights you don't fire maybe writing is your jam and you can use a pen name and you don't have to be exposed like that nothing wrong with that and and the content could still really add a lot of value to people even if it's just entertainment so keep that in mind find that thing that resonates with you all right so this next one comes from Michael Anthony how did you assemble the Avengers defenders guardians level team at impact theory yeah so this was this was a history cool this has been a slow burn so started at Quest so the first real Avenger obviously outside of my wife was you and you were oh that's right you were the first one that we sucked over but you're right so we had court was it Courtney first and did you find her baby so I can't even take credit for Courtney that's right so my old assistant June knew Courtney brought her in and then I think she and Lisa really clicked so I'll give Lisa full credit for that one and Courtney is a beast and I'm very sad that she does not like to be in a lot of the content so you guys don't get to see she's absolutely incredible and then you came before Casey right mm-hmm okay so we stole you from quest that was originally your jam and you were like AI really viable yes you came over and you were like you survived the gauntlet so like you legit like I didn't have time to like really like if I'm a bad manager now I was really bad then so everything was just like level like a million and yeah it was just like hyper direct if I can get this done like come on we got a grind and you just never backed off you yep God at boom-boom-boom-boom-boom I know it wasn't easy for you but like you never you never made that my burden right you went out you [ __ ] crushed it and he came back what's next that was incredible then I'm just gonna [ __ ] up the whole timeline forgive me for that but yeah Christopher again like Jared I think was the last Jared was definitely the last while we were there I didn't I was involved in hiring Christopher so he came from Courtenay right so it really is like that would amount to snack yeah 100% so it's what the only thing that I will take credit for is not being dumb and making sure that like everybody stayed together and then now since we've gotten here it's it is truly been a group effort and I think the only thing that I'll take credit for is around myself I put out a vibe that's it and people either resonated with that vibe and stayed or they didn't so that's it but this this is such a team effort and I can't tell you how often I feel cheeky that because I'm the one that the cameras pointed at that it's I get more credit than I deserve that's the truth and this is a team [ __ ] effort everything that we do that's why I hope I've had enough like this this 24-hour thing is the team and I showed up and read what was on the TV yeah it's just incredible it's incredible so hire good people find good people make sure that they feel good about being here they will bring in other good people it's just it's incredible it's the vibe man you got to create the vibe and every one of the people here has made this a unique fingerprint other people that are here and the company would be fundamentally different and worse if any one of the people were swapped out it's a beautiful place to be yeah I mean I also feel super grateful for this team like it's it's super incredible because I haven't liked really worked in a lot of well I guess like I've had some like corporate experience but like definitely more non-traditional paths is kind of what I've been doing and so it's been really cool to see something that I feel like I would find in not more non-traditional roles reflected in a company like room.we our company you know so that's been cool so this next question comes from Micky Jackson who's definitely been on the feet Hill and the feet all right so what's the one plate wait sorry what's the one piece of advice you have for someone that's starting out very grassroots I have no budget and I'm doing it alone but I'm going to make it happen what would you tell me about what to do first make sure that your content is actually valuable so that's one of those things that like a it's okay like it takes time it takes and I have no idea where he's at or she's at in their journey right so it's that's hard to say so I just know universally you need to make sure that your content is actually adding value once your content is actually adding value then what you want to do is start going out there oh and not you don't even want to wait for that in conjunction you want to be reaching out to people adding value to their community and then pointing them back to what you're doing once you really believe that your content is adding value and if you've been a meaningful contributor to their community and you say hey would you like come check out my page take a look at what I'm doing if you've spent the last six months adding value to their community they're going to do it so yeah do that make sure your content adds value and make sure you're adding value to other people that's critical and if your content isn't yet adding value put all of your time and energy and in fact one of the people that I hope you guys were paying attention to was Luis Garcia who talked about how to get a mentor who talked about how to get the attention of other influencers by really going way above and beyond and by the way if the speed is adding value please share this video we are in our final hour so hit that share button get it out there get as many people involved in this as we can all right yes and I also want to point out that like sometimes having no budget makes you think super creatively because that was also a really big thing because at the time being inside grass was like part of quest nutrition and we didn't really make money it was like a lesser project so my budget was usually zero to Oh like I know you had a budget but like just kidding that's not your budget so you just have to think super creatively and you know push your project forward especially if you believe in it so that's my two cents on that word down to our final 20 minutes yeah the final 20 minutes but like so Christophe legit steam at one point in the future do you plan to make stuff for other languages comics in French etc well we've actually we met somebody at our LA meetup here who wants to translate our stuff into Portuguese for the Brazilian market so right now we aren't prioritizing that from a budget perspective but when we encounter people like that we're very encouraging I would love to see that so if you have translation abilities let us know we're very open so yeah and then there's like a place for you to also contribute those on YouTube too which we totally would appreciate most it's just again not in our project ok so this one comes from kit home Tom have a great time in London what's something that you all you always have to pack when you travel underwear socks toothbrush toothpaste yeah from the shoes I guess is the one like pain in the ass that even I'm like Jesus I really had to make shoes a thing when I travel that's like that's annoying other than that like I'm gonna try and get away with a carry-on this time to London because I'm only there for like four days so hopefully I can yeah if it wasn't for the Meetup I definitely be super easy so that's the only thing that might throw a monkey wrench but notorious over-packer over here ok so this next one comes from Zachary Colette Tom I've been a passive follower for wait a passive follower always grateful for your content but now a true fans so much respect for going 24 hours straight and crushing it yura beasts can I bring you and your team lunch sometime wow that's insanely thoughtful we're always down for kindness so yes thank you all right so the next question comes from mark weeks super appreciate that can boner ability be cultivated is it a skill that can be acquired or developed vulnerability can it be developed yes absolutely read Renee Brown's book really incredible daring greatly work on vulnerability and in her TED talk when she talks about being the man in the arena I love that that it's not quite a quotes it's so [ __ ] long but the man in the arena concept that she really just embodies beautifully is amazing so yes definitively you can learn to let your guard down you can learn to be strong enough in who you are that you've got your own true north so you can be defenseless and and recognize yourself as the man in the arena and not let the hecklers [ __ ] you up too much yeah all right so Gemini cruise later in life what is one goal yeah what is one goal you'd feel and like what is one goal that you would regret if you didn't accomplish I only so this is the on this is actually what came to my mind if I failed to make Lisa feel like my number one that's the one thing that would [ __ ] haunt me yeah the most upset I've ever been in my entire life was one time when I upset her so yeah protecting my wife making her feel good that that would be horrifying all right so this next question comes from sim land what social media strategy has the greatest impact on the growth of impact theory as a brand high-value content so that that really is it so high-value content to get more useful for you high-value content that we break into clips and we get big accounts to share and I think honestly the thing that's impacted our Facebook the most are we put out our content and people steal it and as long as they tagged us it's insanely beneficial for us and then also by stealing our content which by the way when you take us we don't mind at all yeah so do you want to take it just make sure that you link back to us we're super stoked on that spread that word that message and then a lot of times we'll go we'll reach out and we'll build official relationships with people if we get results obviously so that's been a huge win for us huge win for us we really are the house of virality so people talk about how you can't engineer if I rally us we [ __ ] again like we we go we've gone viral like seven or eight times so we go viral I think more than once a month just [ __ ] crazy and we're defining viral as over a million so we now have like think about this for a second we now have this little you know influencer that nobody's [ __ ] heard of our shows had over 250 million views so I mean it's crazy it's crazy town so yeah you you absolutely can bring on amazing guests set them up give them space to say they're cool [ __ ] which they will do all day for it in books about it give them the space to say the cool [ __ ] and then cut that into clips and then a hope people steal it as long as they credit you and if they won't steal it go and build partnerships with them coming in - all right that's a week so originally was gonna be capped at 6 a.m. you want the record to reflect yeah because otherwise it's a sieve and it just leaks forever which I'm happy if that's the case I'll just I'll happily make sure we answer every question that came in before 6 a.m. because that was my promise ok then we will I'll keep answering until 10 but at 10 I do have a podcast ok cool yeah I love that yeah it's great idea love it all right so let's keep chugging but making sure that we stay true to what I said yes I agree with that - that's what I'm talking so fast and trying to get these so this one comes from Christi Ratliff loved all the content Tom thank you for serving the community with his impact a thon adding so much value my question is how do you be a lynchpin employee while also having great work relationships with your team I work in a pretty competitive environment where we all tend to want to outperform one another but not in a fun friendly way I want to foster good relationships but as soon as I step ahead it seems that I start getting the cold shoulder so I'm not in that environment so I can't say for sure but I will say this if you start performing like a beast and you turn to people and say what can I do to help you and or don't even ask just in a meeting like when you've got a sincere compliment to pay them or you've got an opportunity to help them shine if you take that opportunity I'm telling you that it's a winning strategy in the long run for sure make sure it is sincere make sure you're never bullshitting people make sure that it's not fake flattery but really find sincere ways to build a reputation as the one who's like the encourage er the one that's inspiring other people the one that's like really encouraging them like a when you get a negative environment that should is infectious but so is a positive environment and if you can find a small cadre of people and you can really like build some earned trust over time because if it's a competitive relationship but not in a good way it's gonna take time to really get some people to realize like whoa like she actually just actually wants to help and she wants to take these time to help other people shine and you may not be able to dedicate time to helping them shine but when you notice that somebody's done something awesome and you just you're supportive you're the anti cold shoulder over time I really believe people are gonna begin to thaw if you're doing that well like you're legitimately finding real connection and all that and you're helping them shine and you're crushing and doing your work and people are still I see leave now that presumes that you're doing it well and oftentimes people are not but if truly and honestly you're executing against that strategy well and it's still this dog-eat-dog non supportive environment I would find somewhere else yeah I agree that so this next question comes from furrow so Marie knew hey guys I know this is a simplistic question but how do you get to the point where you believe in yourself and your dreams that you can make it is it just a case of daily step by step and it comes by itself you've got to earn credibility with yourself and this is something that I think people really miss out on so why do I work out in the gym every day even though I hate it so other than for health reasons knowing that I don't like it and I still show up every day really really earns credibility with myself doing a 24 hour live not bulking not hesitating like really just getting in doing it being enthusiastic back on the stuff everyone here tonight over the last 24 hours is earn credibility with themselves I'm sure huge credibility everybody showed up everybody played everybody crushed it everybody had a great [ __ ] attitude it's been so much fun I really can't believe that we're like down to the final 10 minutes is absolutely crazy so it's things like that where you're gonna begin building credibility with yourself tell yourself you're gonna do something and then actually do it be very careful about what you say you're gonna do because once you say it you need to actually do it otherwise you're gonna erode your credibility with yourself and also this stuff comes from getting good right when you get good at something and you know you've got the confidence because you know you can perform that you're gonna show up you're gonna deliver because you have the skill set that's where you're really gonna begin to feel good about yourself and look at yourself like in 10 10 year horizons so don't look back from you know today to a year ago look back from today to 10 years ago how far have you come right and then just think about okay if I keep this up I keep executing I keep acquiring skills little by little by little what's it gonna look like 10 years from now and so next year don't look back one year say oh I can't believe I've only come look back again 10 years so it's like that sliding scale be like wow I've really accomplished a lot and then I mean look I then shorten that shorten that shorten that till I'm looking at my last three hours but you really need to know like what duration you need to look at to keep yourself pushing forward to really get perspective on what you've accomplished if you don't do that it just becomes this corrosive attitude of self reinforcing negativity so you have to be very very careful with that comes from Kathleen Woodbridge how much time do you take for introspection alone and how often so I try to do this Monday through Friday a meditative practice I do it for about 20 minutes of true like Just Breathe meditation and then I do another 20 to 40 minutes depending on like if I'm really vibing of think it a ting so so you put that together and what on a long day it's like an hour's worth of real introspection some days it's as short as you know 20 30 minutes but do you feel that's included with like your meditation yeah so that's meditating and think attaining so this next one comes from Christi rep rep sorry Ratliff Thom I would love to hear about how you overcome the feeling of being overwhelmed Oh overwhelm is the one that impacts me the least so when I'm feeling overwhelmed I literally stop so overwhelmed to me can be addressed through physicality so when I'm feeling overwhelmed I slow down as everyone else is speeding up as the stress is like piling as it's like I'm realizing that more and more things to do you can feel everything ratcheting up including that pressure and literally you're gonna do like literally the kinds of things I'm doing with my body now and so when I feel it I just that that deep belly diaphragm breath I let it out and then I I literally just tell myself like one thing at a time it's all gonna be fine and that I find overwhelm will go away like that so I think for somebody that isn't meditating it probably stacks because what you're actually dealing with is the background radiation and then somebody hits you with something that's like stressful and isn't adding more and yeah you just like camp I can handle it because you've never taken your background radiation which all identify as stress depression anxiety you've never taken those three to zero and I and and I believe when you do a just breathe technique well not not right just well like you're doing it you're lowering your heart rate you're lowering your rate of breathing like you're lowering that background radiation if you learn how to do that and you just keep going keep going keep going ten minutes 20 minutes 30 minutes 40 minutes how long do you need to do it just keep back to your breath back to your breath back to your breath until you hit zero I have been in some insanely [ __ ] stressful situations insanely anxiety-producing where millions and and millions and millions of dollars are on the line and I've never once failed to get back to zero so when it's a really [ __ ] stressful it takes a lot longer like on a normal day let's say it takes me five minutes to get in the zone okay on a super stressful day it might take me 45 minutes okay but you just little by little little by little bringing - just breathe just breathe just breathe just breathe and you stay there until you get to zero and if you've got that discipline like now you're at a reset right and on really brutal stuff it might pop back up relatively quickly but if you can practice like getting it back down to zero you're way ahe
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