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664QJQ90-sM • How to 3x Your Career | Jason Mayden on Impact Theory
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Kind: captions Language: en hey everybody Welcome to impact Theory you are here my friends because you believe that human potential is nearly Limitless but you know that having potential is not the same as actually doing something with it so our goal with this show and Company is to introduce you to the people and ideas that will help you actually execute on your dreams all right today's guest grew up on the south side of Chicago amid unimaginable violence and dreamed of one day working at Nike designing shoes for hero Michael Jordan virtually everyone told him that this dream was ridiculous for somebody like him but he refused to listen making his mom take him to shoe stores not so he could buy something but so he could sketch the shoes and see if he can improve on them nothing came easily for him but Jus as Jordan put up a thousand shots a day to improve he began doing a thousand sketches a day he persisted and after several rejections he got a design internship with Nike becoming the first African-American to do so insanely hungry to make a name for himself he took all of the projects nobody else wanted his assignment to reinvent laces the most boring job in shoes was actually meant to Haze him but he crushed it so hard that it resulted in him being awarded multiple patents and attracting the attention of Nike founder Phil Knight he also poured himself completely into another maligned and orphan project known as the barbecue shoe for dads and turned it into the Monarch the highest grossing shoe in Nike history while it normally takes roughly 15 years to become a senior designer at Nike he did it in five he went on to design shoes for Carmelo Anthony Chris Paul Russell Westbrook Eminem and of course the king himself Michael Jordan not satisfied with being a great designer however he went back to school and received his master's degree in Business from Stanford and when he returned to Nike he worked his way all the way to senior Global design director for the Jordan brand having fulfilled his dream and wanting to help his son son overcomes some health issues he departed Nike after 14 years and is now embarked on his entrepreneurial Journey co-founding superh heroic Inc a company focused on creating quality play products for kids so please help me in welcoming the real life Lucius Fox the media designer at Stanford's D school and CEO of superh heroic Jason Maiden welcome to the show dude your story is is an insane tale of what happens when you are willing to work yourself nearly to death yep how did you get the mentality man like that's crazy yeah I think you know there's several things that I fundamentally believe are true in terms of difficulty and what it gives you um so for me being born on the south side of Chicago in a blue collar environment you don't make excuses for yourself there's no such thing as anyone starts life you know behind the start line I look at myself as equal to everyone that I'm in a room with and the separation between where I want to go and where I am is my work ethic so my mindset is always that anybody can be great I want to be the greatest ever what I do so everything I touch everything I pour my time and talent into I don't think about being great I think about how can I be the greatest and that takes a huge amount of introspection it takes a huge amount of self-reflection and honesty um and it also takes humility because you have to ask for help in order to be the greatest so that's I've never heard anybody say that before that's really it takes humility to be the greatest it does so how much so you and I must have grown up roughly at the same time so I had I'm not a fan of Sports at all but I had Michael Jordan hanging above my bed was that shot of him dunking the moon remember that yeah oh there's something about like that era where you could see somebody becoming the greatest of all time in real time right it was like he just transcended this sport captured everybody's imagination how much of like your mentality was being literally in Chicago at that time while he's I mean a living legend at the height of his prime uh I would say 100% 100% I mean he didn't make excuses you never saw Michael get on television and post game interviews and complain about you know the defense you know grabbing him too much or the referees not giv him a call he understood that there's a difference between a response and a reaction a reaction is very emotionally driven it's not calculated it's not thoughtful a response is strategic it's intentional and it's meant to have a person understand your TR true you know disposition or reaction to whatever moment that you're in Michael was a very calculated analytical person and I saw him com to my city create a name from himself but also contribute off the court by giving us a tangible example of what it means to overcome every single obstacle possible um so once again you know growing up in that era seeing great athletes like Michael seeing great athletes like Bo Jackson Deion Sanders like these were multi-dimensional people for the first time we saw the emergence of the athlete as a brand a human that was now a walking brand and I figured okay if he can do that for basketball then why can't I do that for sport and design why can't I be that person in my industry so his work ethic his ideals his principles I learned from him and I just applied it to my craft and my my sport which is design how did you learn to deal with suffering which is something you've talked about like being necessary to get across the Finish Line um you know I I I encountered suffering at a very early age at the age of seven when I was in the hospital with septicemia which is a severe blood infection and it was at that time in the hospital where I had to play with children who were terminally ill children who were in intensive care children who weren't going home and I realized like you know what there's always someone who is going through more than you there's always someone that has you know real significant problems while you may have an inconvenience and so while I looked at myself as as having a challenge a Health Challenge and suffering I still felt that that was just an inconvenience it wasn't terminal leukemia it wasn't you know a brain tumor it wasn't a heart transplant it was it was something that I can overcome so I look at suff in as a way to keep me humble cuz you know when you think about the archetype of a superhero they always have an obstacle to overcome there's always the height of climax and I don't believe that I'm so great that I don't you know um have the ability to go through difficult circumstances I think it's necessary in order to realize your greatness CU When You're tested you are given the ability to have a testimony so you can't have a testimony without a test and just you know in my life I've been tested significantly and each time um you know I've I've developed a new skill set or a new muscle to help me run this race do you like hip-hop I love it do you write I used to because you have a way with language like there's so many I I'm actually not sure if I've ever taken more notes on anyone anyone I've ever interviewed than you because you have like all these phrases like oh God I would rather um try and fail than fail to try I mean there were so many things where there was like a rhythm a Cadence like is that a way for you to remember things do you just have a natural love for language like where does that no you know what where it came from is I was an insanely shy child um and I read a lot of comic books and comic books are very short Punchy statements and I realized that the escapism that came from reading a narrative that was written with the intention of helping you understand you know the hero's journey um was different than reading a traditional book A book is to teach you something a comic book is to make you feel a certain way it's a reflection of society so when I speak now I think about about how do I want people to understand how I reflect back the ideals and principles of a young black male growing up in the world today how do I do it in a way that's succinct articulate you know uh Vivid and colorful but at the same time respected and intelligent and so hip-hop at its core became you know I would say my petri dish of experimenting with my own tone of voice and and I try to model myself after Nas who's my favorite MC like his album Illmatic was L like listening to Langston Hughes over over beats I mean a big fan of jazz big fan of the written word but something about the way he writes man it's so illustrious it's so rich it's so detailed and I always tell myself if I can design something that makes people feel how I felt the first time I heard Illmatic then that's my I've done my job that's something I I find interesting about really talented artists in general and it's really apparent with you is this concept of being um interdisciplinary like you've even talked about like through data analytics you've looked at like what the future Michael Jordan's going to be and he's going to be black and Cuban I mean it was like this fascinating sense of intersection like explain to people and I don't think they have to be an artist CU I think a lot about that in my own life like where how do you pull from all these different areas why is that powerful how can you do it systematically what does that look like yeah I think a lot of that natural ability to be a polymath has been labeled as having add if you look at historically people that have been Masters in various disciplines they all had one thing in common C curiosity and curiosity is something that starts a childhood but it's stripped from you as you grow older cuz they tell you pick a lane focus on this become that and we subscribe to labels people place on us and that limits our potential so I just fundamentally believe that I don't let someone else Place their limits on me my limit is the limit I set and I believe I'm Limitless I believe that if you have a life and you don't you know um utilize it and you settle for just being average and that's a waste of the gift of life like every day I wake up when people ask me how you doing I say man I'm thankful I woke up today cuz that's the first gift given is another chance to be great so you know I think like you mentioned people who are multidisiplinary people who are curious and inquisitive the reason why they become great is because they don't believe that they truly have mastered their craft they don't feel settled in what they've developed they don't feel as if they're the best and for me my mindset is that it's it's you know right now it's daytime where we are okay which means I have the advantage over my competition because they may be sleep but when it becomes night time it's their day so I refuse for them to get ahead of me so I stay up when they get up cuz like they may be more talented they may be smarter but they won't outwork me because that's where Excellence comes from it's the small things done well consistently over time and it's never the smartest is the person who who runs the hardest and who doesn't quit that wins and I'm just willing to push myself and you know break down my own insecurities to build up my confidence in my skill set do you know did you ever meet Tim Grover I did yeah one time so Tim in his book Relentless and I've had the very good fortune of meeting him and interviewing him and he he was the first person that really talked about the darkness like when I so I've seen so much footage on you you can't imagine and you are so upbeat and positive and bright and sunny and when you're with your family oh my God like it just literally it pours out of you but there's like you're so driven do you have like a foot in like the darkness do you know like how to balance like how does that work for you yeah I mean you know um it actually you have to have both so if there's extreme Darkness there has to be extreme light is Duality to every everything so I just tend to bias towards what I want to see in the world more you know what I want to see more in the world which is joyfulness which is being present which is being you know um thankful and so that's what drives me it's the things people told me I couldn't become it's the the negative circumstances that I come from I don't let that limit me limit me at all that's my Catalyst because I I look at it like okay why not me I've already overcome this why can't I go and start a company why can't I build something that's meaningful why can't I create this new paradigm shift in the way we look at the world as big giant super training facility because if I looked at it the other way and started to take you know um the count of okay well I can't do this because of where I come from I can't do this because of how I look I can't do this I wouldn't start anything everybody would wake up each day doing subtraction I look at my life as addition you know I wake up and say what can I do today to add to my skill set what can I do today to add to someone else's Joy what can I do today to serve someone else so when you keep a mindset of service your problems in that Darkness become smaller cuz you're not going to focus on your own insecurities your own problems you're going to figure out a way to amplify someone else's experience so I go through life looking you know looking at people as as an opportunity for me to serve cuz while I'm waiting on my blessing I can be a blessing and that's how I counterbalance that when you focus solely on your Darkness everything becomes about you you become selfish and you could be driven to a point where it becomes toxic and that's why you see some people implode once they get to where they're going because they look up and no one around them really wants them there for me I I have this mentality that if everyone around me is fed then no one is starving then I don't have to worry about people being being um villainous or hungry and trying to take from me so the way I feed is through time through joyfulness through good energy because sometimes all you need to do is tell a person that they matter and show up that's the greatest gift is to acknowledge people in the world that's so busy and so hurried to slow down and be present and to acknowledge a person's existence is to me how you balance out the darkness with the light when you're driven I love that I think that's amazing and there somebody that ascended so rapidly through Nike like a to move through a traditional um culture like that in a way that's positive is is pretty spectacular do you think that was part of why you were able to move so quickly cuz people wanted you to win um no quite the opposite quite the opposite no you know no no honest yeah no I you know I I never assume people want me to win you know just like anybody man I've had my setbacks in corporate setbacks in life you know my strategy is very simple I'm very honest with myself so I figure out the ways people can tell me no and then I take that no off the table so the last thing they can say to me is a yes and what I mean by eliminating the way people can tell you no is taking an inventory of your weaknesses taking an inventory of your gaps in your offense or your defense your skill set your mindset finding someone to learn from or going and put yourself through a class to learn it so I knew when I got to Nike that I was very good at drawing drawing and designing are two different things I can draw anything but designing something is very different it's a process it's it's it's strategic it's intentional it's driven through research and empathy and I didn't that skill set so I went and I found people that did and I learned from them but then when I learned from them I added my layer to it which was narrative that was my core differentiator I said everybody else can do that well I tell stories really really well so I'm going to double down on being known for this one thing but I'm going to go and ask for help from other people the second thing I did is I didn't Focus heavily on building deeper relationships in my discipline I went to parts of the company where they normally didn't see designers so I spent time in supply chain and finance and inventory management and compliance illegal and I asked them how did their job impact my job so I humbled myself cuz I knew even though I draw this picture somebody had to have the budget somebody had to get this thing produced someone was making sure it shipped and got through customs how did my job impact theirs and vice versa and doing that my name was now in rooms of really big decision makers that had never would have interfaced with me had I only focused on being cool with the cool kids right and so um you know my strategy is very it's methodical it's almost like I look at life like chess I'm thinking five steps out and in order to do that I have to be honest what what I'm not good at and I learned that from Michael he always would say turn your weakness into your strength and you know they said he didn't have a jump shot he developed a jump shot he didn't have defense he went the defensive player of the year so every year I do a tear down and I do an inventory of what I did well what I wished I could have done better and what I liked about you know the experience in between so it's like I like I wish I wonder you actually write these things down that's my new year I don't do New Year's resolutions I do like New Year's inventory and say okay I like I wish I wonder like I wish I wonder I like that I did this I wish I would have done that I wonder if I tried that what would have happened um that constant inpection is almost like in a lot of ways it's um driven through my love for stoic philosophy I'm a big fan of Marcus aurelus in the book you know um the um the emperor's handbook he did a very great job of you know jotting down his thoughts in an introspective manner about his troops and his country and what he wanted to be as a leader and I try to do that with myself you know so at hard I'm part Lu Fox part still a philosopher one thing I Lov that I heard you talk about um was how Marcus aelius like even though parts of his army wanted to assassinate him and they were coming for him like he didn't respond emotionally he didn't freak out like he there was an acceptance of okay this is human nature this is like the game that we're playing is that like a a non-emotional mindset that you try to use as well yeah yeah I mean your greatest enemy is your enemy it's the conversation you have in your mind so so all my heroes are people who have mastered themselves not a discipline not a industry but themselves Bruce Lee he mastered himself you Marcus a real is he mastered himself you know um Batman mastered himself you know these are people real or not who figured out that the battle that's within is greater than the battle that's in the world so once you able to fight that consistently and calm yourself and control yourself and be methodical and specific about how you respond nothing will surprise you you're you're immovable at that point you won't you won't wait you won't you won't break and I always tell my kids like yo you you can bend that's okay but you'll never break breaking is when you feel like you can't come back from something bending is when you you get punched but you get back up you know it's a palm tree versus a dry twig palm trees are bend over but they don't snap when the wind blows um and so you know people like Marcus aurelus are important in my life because you don't see that anymore you don't see people who who have stuff thrown at them and they respond with logic you know critical discourse is no longer an art form you know rhetoric and and and learning how to have a healthy debate is no longer practice it's just I go out I say what I want I don't think about the repercussions words are things and they leave a residue of of positivity and negativity on the person and on the place where you where you say those things so I really focus on making sure that the words that come out of my mouth you know they they they they they bring life they don't they don't destroy um and in order to do that I have to check myself which is a constant battle cuz sometimes I just want to have my I want to have my stream of consciousness cons and just rent but other times I know that that's not it's not healthy you know I really wish you were a rapper like Jesus dude like you really have an amazing way with not just words you have an amazing way with Concepts and I'm going to assume that it's because you read so much I know you're a big fan of History um how do you pick like what to read like you were clearly very well read how do you decide um you know I always ask people what they're reading so when I meet an interesting person you know whether it's on a plane or it's in a meeting or if it's conversations like this I'm like yo what books are you reading cuz you know that's the quickest way to learn from others um but also I try to get outside of my comfort zone I break my own patterns like I I I'll go to usually I want to go to fashion and Art and Design sections uh in bookstores or online or you know browsing when I'm shopping but I'll switch it up and I'll say you know what let me go into a gardening book let me just read gardening I don't know why let me try this out today um cuz I feel like there's a there's a red thread that connects every single thing on this planet you know we talk about the golden section and we talk about Divine mathematics how everything is you know has a ratio and a proportion to it that makes us unified I believe the same thing is true with information it's when you search for consistency across multiple you know um buckets of knowledge then you realize that the Human Experience is a shared experience whether you love gardening whether you love physics and finance you know whether you love art and fashion is something about those things that exist um in a way that's consistent so I'm just a big fan of searching for that and you know I don't I don't reject knowledge I'm open to other people's opinions and so you know right now I'm reading a book called How children succeed um very compellent argument about our education system and and having the framework of do you focus on Mastery of a skill set or do you focus on determination and grit which one is more important for children to have um at the same time I'm reading a book about um quantitative easing and why they why that became a thing so I try to find right brain and left brain Concepts and read them at the same time um I joke and say that you know add is a superpower you know cuz cuz I have ADD um um but it's the way that gives me that balance you know something creative and inspirational and something highly analytical and Technical I kind of have to do both at the same time so where do you come down on the argument about kids do you think it's mastering a skill or do you think it's grit and determination I think it starts with grit and determination which leads to Mastery because without grit you don't stick at a task it's like if you want to perfect your jump shot you get in the gym and you keep shooting right that's grit and after a while you master your jump shot so I think you need both it just depends on which one is encouraged and celebrated I think we've over indexed on celebrating Mastery and we've under indexed on celebrating Discovery and what you get through play and failure cuz failure is a gift because you learn what you don't know at that point and so in our in our household we say either we win or we learn there's no such thing as losing you only lose when you stop trying so as long as you keep trying you won't lose you be further than way you started so I can't tell people how to raise their children but I purposefully give my kids a safe environment controlled environment to fail in so that they they they you know you realize what you're made of when you get hit in the face for the first time it's like oh I'm still alive yeah I got my tooth knocked out but I'm still standing so I try to I try to do that for them in a controlled way so when they get into the world and they start to have that you know that interpersonal dialogue over oh should I quit oh man I'm so scared the voice that's in their head is a positive one and they know like I did it before I can do it again so I think you need both it just depends on what how you reward and praise those you know the grit versus the Mastery conversation you said that introspection is a huge part of your success did you learn that is it something that people can improve on that's yeah something I learned something I learned one cuz I'm a middle child so I had no choice but to that was my way of navigating like man how do I figure out how to get out of trouble and how do I get out of not being blamed for Stuff um but you know I think it's people can improve on introspection and how I do it in my life is I ask myself whether it's a circumstance where a person doesn't like me or it's a difficult situation I always stop and say well what did I do what did I do to cause this cuz I contributed to it even when people you know people talk about the concept of haters and how you should be happy when you're when you have haters because it means you're succeeding I look at it like okay there's a reason that person hates me there's a reason now I may not have to agree with it it's none of my business to even know why but I have to acknowledge it I don't have to accept it but I do have to acknowledge it and if if there's a little bit of Truth in everything and that person hates me then I have to say okay am I showing up is arrogant and cocky and Mak and triggering the insecurity in that person am I acting selfish or ungrateful and that person's like Jason should be more thankful for what he has like what is it about me that makes that person feel that way and then that forces me to take an inventory once again like you know what yeah that tweet or that image yeah that was kind of cocky or that thing I did that that I could see how that person could not like me you know that okay I need to take take that into account cuz it's none of our business what people think of us but we do have to acknowledge that if there's something out there and it's a chance for me to get better I'm all for it so if a person has something to say about me positive or negative I look at it as a learning opportunity and I force myself to listen even if I don't agree because it gives me a chance to improve and if you want to be the greatest to something you have to be open to improving there's no way around it you can't say I'm good I'm done that's it I'm the best ever and I don't have to develop a new skill set n man every day I'm searching for ways to add to my to my game you know I use a lot of sports analogies so you know one day I have you know practice on my jump shot then it's my post moves then it's my defense but that's how I look at design it's like one day is you know design research the next day is business modeling the next day is sketching however I can get better that's where I want to go that's what I want to do were there other things that Jordan taught you specifically about becoming the greatest or just getting ahead um uh the people you surround yourself with you know um everybody that you put in your inner circle should have one thing that they do better than you um that way you're always a student so if you look at Michael's Inner Circle it's people that have significant skill sets they're the Michael Jordans of their industry um and he learns from them which is fun and weird to say like oh Michael Jordan but I've surrounded myself with Michael Jordan's of the industry and he talks in that way I try to find people that I I wish um I had their skill set and I befriend them and I hang out with them and I learn from them and it keeps you it keeps you sharp it gives you a different of inspiration points to pull from um and so his philosophy and I agree with it is the greatest I would say leaders on the planet are also the greatest curators they don't create a lot but they curate thoughts and they put it together and they put their perspective on it I try to do the same thing I'm like man this person's amazing at this this person's amazing at that how can I learn from them and then put my spin on it um that's helped me so much by being a curator um because it gives you an embarrassment and riches in terms of information and information is the greatest medium to use to create and if you have a single focus and your information is limited then your outcome the products that you produce are always the same just different versions of the same thing so by hanging out with people who have knowledge in areas where I don't I feel like I get to pull unique inspiration you know like most designers don't even know who Marcus aurelus is I learned about him from hanging out with the person who was a retired General and he was telling me about leadership from a military perspective did you end up with a retired General man so Random I was in the airport in Santa Barbara and I asked this Old Gentleman like what are you reading he was reading that book um and I was asking him why did he read it he was like well son this is how leaders are born through War I was like what do you mean I started asking him like well why and after about five wi he just was like listen here's the deal I'm going to give you this book it's going to change life it's going to show you exactly why leadership is critical to do anything great like you have to learn what it means to be a leader leadership is not a position it's a behavior and you can improve that Behavior it's not like you get a title and now you're a leader like no if you you my dad always says if you're a leader and no one's following you you're just a dude taking a walk and so he gave me the book and then coincidentally a young man that I was mentoring the book was Emperor Emperor's handbook then a young man I was mentor and sent me a copy of the book so I was like okay this is the universe is telling me to read it um I'm a big fan of just talking to people randomly all the time I hate seeing people sit by themselves and no one acknowledges them so I'm the person that's like hey how you doing morning strike up a conversation and just put good energy into their world and walk away and normally you know um I walk away with unique context or unique experience or in this case new knowledge so I don't know man I'm just excited about life like I'm just a giant kid you know I was going to ask you how you stay open like one of the things that I think is most critical because a lot of people have encountered the same people and ideas that you have but they they haven't been changed by it yeah um and that to me is like when people ask me how do you get ahead how do you be successful it's like you have to open yourself up to actually being changed like when you read a book yeah stop and like really think like how can I use this how do I put it to work is that something that's just always come naturally to you or was that an Insight someone gave you um you know I think it came naturally because I was like I said as a kid you know I joke about being a middle child I joke about being quiet but when you're quiet and you're smaller than everyone and you're an introvert you can hear more than everyone else cuz you don't talk that often so you pull in information and you can get better at it so I learned how to speak publicly from watching very confident popular people cuz that wasn't me as a kid like my older brother was the man like everybody every girl dudes everybody loved him I wasn't that kid I was the weird Little Nerd who I was like the black goon um it was great I mean it worked out for me um but just by being quiet and still and and being invisible you know that became my super super power like I was able to see everything and learn and I got better and added to skill set so when it was my time to have something to say um I felt more confident and so I think it's not about being open to change it's about acknowledging that you have to change in order to grow because no one is comfortable with ambiguity that's a lie and people say oh man are you that's a lie you just you know I talk about it often you have to be willing to amb to go into ambiguous situations but also acknowledge that change is part of life you grow up you leave home you change addresses you change jobs change is a constant theme in our in our existence the sooner you become comfortable with that concept you're free at that point because you're you're open as you as you say to letting the universe letting whatever it is you pray to believe in you know um divinely inspire you and guide you in a way that forces you to remember that it's not about you it's not about you you know this moment isn't happening by you it's happening through you um and so that's what I do I always tell myself this isn't mine this is something that was given to me this little moment what do I want to do with it do I want to covet it or do I want to create something that I can share and I just I want to create something that I can share so that helps me evolve helps me stay in constant motion um because I don't want to be stagnant I don't want to be a designosaur so I have to evolve you know a designosaur yeah I like that do you meditate or do you just like think while you drive like the these words are the result of a lot of hours of thinking yeah when do you do said thinking uh all the time I'd never stop thinking um you carve out like quiet time or anything no no I mean you know I I would say my quiet time is when I'm serving other people that's my meditation is doing something for someone else um cuz when I'm quiet the way my mind works is I need to create if I'm in a room and I'm trying to breathe and close my eyes I'm thinking like I'm man I should draw that I should make that I wake up and I start making it so in order for me to to turn off my brain I have to do something that I won't benefit from which is literally helping someone else you know whether it's a service project in my community jumping on the phone with someone who needs advice you know showing up at a friend's house who is feeling a little bit down and depressed that's my form of meditation is service um and in doing that it frees me from the burden of having to be perfect you're having to be you know have the answer so when I come back to the thinking mode putting on my thinking cap I'm more Lucid in my thoughts because I've had that that breather to focus on someone else um and it's helpful it's a helpful exercise to to give your you know some people do it through mindfulness you know that they have the coloring books for adults uh my version of that is is like I said showing up and serving people so your new company is about facilitating play it has a heavy shoe involvement if I'm not mistaken um what do you do to stay FR cuz you've said like I really want to be childlike I want the mind of a child like what do you do to cultivate that yeah um hang out with kids lit literally yeah hang out with my kids I I mean and my favorite people on the planet um I volunteer a lot I read a lot of comic books you know um um I look at the world in childlike way you know adults walk through cities and they look straight kids walk through cities and they look up so I walk through cities and I look up I try to see the world how kids see the world I try to look at everything with fresh eyes I never just get fixated on my destination I keep my head on a swivel and I I look for those moments of um of delight and joy that exist what I find really interesting about you is if I were to take sort of any like 3 to five minute segment of this interview you're going to sound like different people from the moment where you were talking about like I'm going to be the best in the world to like I just want the you know Mind of a child and I walk around and experience things uh that's really interesting but what makes it the more fascinating is you're not an empty dreamer you're not somebody who just pontificates when your brother I think you were high schoolish your brother worked at Foot Locker and you would go and quiz him about the shoes the boxes the everything so that you could get a better sense of how you could design shoes yep and then when you go to Nike you've already talked about like going to the different departments finding out how it all puts together but like traveling around to China and finding out how to use different textiles and materials and you've talked about spider silk and finding way like how do you take all the ideas like you sketch something out how do you go from this is just an idea and most people stop here at the drawing to weaving spider silk into it made from a very specific place in China that you know the manufacturer you've been on the floor like how do you bring it all together yeah so I think you know um ideas remain ideas until you give them a deadline so I give myself forcing functions so I have a forcing functions forcing functions what's that so A forcing function is whether it's a an intentional behavior that you do consistently and I so one example is um on my social media feed I have this thing I started called 77 days of Joy so now that I'm ramping up to La my company it was 77 days from when I started this first post I gave myself a forcing function where one time a day day I have to think about something that I have in my life that brings me joy so as an entrepreneur it's very difficult you know you get hard days days you just want to throw the towel in so I gave myself this thing that I publicly said I'm every every day I'm going post one thing that makes me happy for 77 days straight having that as a forcing function makes me stop think about what I'm thankful for post and then I'm I realize okay it's all good the day is okay so I do it's the same thing with the design process I have an idea and I'll be like all right I want to you know how might we you know make people feel like they can fly then I'll say Okay flight what's the principles of flight it takes lift takes drag okay the underlying principle is propulsion okay propotion what does that mean for human beings is it the quickest first step is it leaping ability is it getting back on defense is it Heel To Toe transition okay you know what that could be it could be quick first step how would we do quick first step we got to reduce the weight we got to reduce so it starts in this this big massive hairy audacious go to beag and then it goes into the idea and then I decipher the idea in very tactical and tangible steps and as I'm continuing this dialogue I start to see okay there's an example of a product here that does it that becomes inspiration then I find the material you know vendor who made that product and I call them so all all I really do is I don't I don't settle for the idea the idea is not the reward it's it's taking the idea and seeing someone react to it and in order to get from A to B you need force and functions you need deadlines you need a process and it's so crazy cuz creative people say oh I don't believe in the word process and but you need it you need you need guard rails cuz if you don't know how to say no to stuff then everything becomes an opportunity so my design process like I said I start with the idea then I dissect it dissect it dissect it till it's very simple and I can say it in one sentence and then I try to bring it to life um cuz if you can't say it to 8-year-old and the 88 year old it's too complicated so that's my barometer I explain it to my grandma and if she says baby I don't know what you're talking about I'm like okay I explain it to my daughter and when she gives me the Tim Duncan face like I don't get it you know that's that's my parameters like my grandmother and my daughter cuz they're very honest with me so if I can get both of them to understanding and say oh that's cool then I did my job um so that's another thing you know forcing functions in trusted editors so those two things help me get from my idea to to um to execution um because they hold so the trusted editors hold you accountable and the forcing functions push you to make a decision um without those two then it's just you're just spinning your own will do you have a certain process for um the so we've got our guard rails we have a deadline so it's not just a dream it's now a goal but it involves like actually going out and figuring out textiles it goes from how do I actually translate this and I I'm actually maybe more fascinated about what led you into your brother's store because you had no resources than when you're with Nike and there's like sort of enough energy where you go around the corner and just say hey where do we Source spider silk but like how did you break down down that process before you got to Nike of just like I I mean even like so maybe forget the shoes but like you convinced um your college not only to let you into a degree that they didn't think you were ready for but you convinced them to let you do your own major that didn't actually exist like how do you who do I talk to like what do I say like how do you go through that process of breaking these things down into executable steps yep um great question uh you know it it starts with the willingness to put yourself out there ask a question that's uncomfortable um and so when I you know at CCS when I started my own major everybody had that went to that school wanted to do cars and I was like well I can't afford a car my car is Footwear that's my mode of transportation so I want to take those principles and apply to this discipline but there was no way to do it uh and I figured i' never seen someone create their own major why not me why not I just try right that's it I mean that's my Pro it's no secret sauce I just I know what I want to try and I go and ask the person that I think can help me and if they can't help me I say well could you tell me who can could you refer me to someone else normally people will if they don't want to help you they'll push you off on someone you know um which may be the biggest blessing ever or they'll connect you to someone that can help so it's just about putting yourself out there and going to the person you have access to it doesn't you don't have to have access to the right person you just have to have access to a person that you feel comfortable sharing your your your your idea with that person may know someone and if they don't now you have a person who at least is going to help you think through how do you move forward so I search for the experts I have access to so my brother was an expert at Footwear he was what I had access to he worked at Foot Locker you know which was to me the closest thing to the Footwear industry right so I went to him he's my expert can I see the product can I learn about it then I learned about the concept of a sales rep oh the sales rep works for the company they actually oh okay cool let me talk to the sales rep and the sales rep said yeah you know we have this department called HR you can get an internship what's an internship oh we give college kids jobs during the summer so I have to go to college okay well which colleges I don't know then I you know so you just you can see how it just it builds on itself it compounds on itself but I tell people start where you at you know use the people you have access to and keep asking them questions and ask them to connect you to one person that they know and then you see this this hockey stick effect where you get exponential you know um contacts exponential opportunities exponential networking all through start with what's in front of you so many times people get discouraged because they feel like they need to jump to the most visible person the famous person the powerful person but the person at the front desk the admin of that executive is more important than the executive the admin controls the calendar talk to them get to know them you know ask them how should you approach it and then he or she will put you in touch with the right person to grow you and groom you all right super random right turn here um you've talked about your friend who got shot M uh as being the starting gun to your life but I could never quite figure out why why do you see that as the starting gun for your life well I mean you know where I grew up and and where kids are still growing up they're they don't believe that being 21 is a real thing you you're basically living to make it to the age of 16 and anything after that is kind of like I don't know what happens next so at the age of 14 when I saw that it made me realize several things one I didn't want that to be my outcome two that no matter where I am in life no matter what's going on no matter what disagreement I have with a person violence is not the answer um and so I wanted to be a person of Peace a person of great compassion and love and I knew I needed to I needed to figure out a way to get myself out of an environment that would turn my heart cold so if I stayed there and I started to accept that as my reality and I normalized this extreme violence I normalized how people were systematically put in socioeconomic situations where they started to have these Savage behaviors and I accepted that as my reality I gave up on my life and going back to the age of seven where I was already spared once you know I felt like it would be a waste of this gift I was given if I sat here and I settled for this is my reality and I told myself one of us has to make it out why not me and if I make it out I'm not going to pretend like I'm not from there I'm going to celebrate it to let people know that yes things go wrong in this community yes there's violence yes there's poverty but there's also Beauty there's also creativity entrepreneurship possibilities we just have to look at it a different way the children in this neighborhood the people I grew up with they're not bad people they just don't have hope they don't have resources so when you don't have any hope you don't have any resources and you're angry because the world walks right by you and blames you for your circumstances even though you didn't create them you're born into them you lash out in a way that's self-destructive and that's what Chicago was for me it still is like that very limited jobs very limited opportunities um and it results in a lot of you know activity that that is negative but I just use it as motivation cuz if I can make it through that if I can see that and I still see the world for what it could become and I still have a growth mindset instead of a fixed mindset then I make it possible for someone else in that neighborhood to succeed cuz everything I do is not for my own benefit I just believe that I have to live a life where I find a person who's going to replace me in my job and whether that kid is from Chicago or from Colombia you know my wife is from or from Bangladesh or from Japan I don't care but my life story should be an example of what's possible when you just fully believe in yourself without any fear cuz I didn't look at it as me running from Chicago I was running towards what I believed I can be in my life which is the exact person I am today and I didn't want to waste you know my life um because I knew that it would be disrespectful to my two friends who would never have the opportunities that I had um and you know there was moments where one of them who was involved in that that situation right when I moved and went away to college she pulled me to the side and he said listen I'mma die in Chicago but you you're not like you're different than us you need to go you need to do something with your life because none of us will that that for some people that's a heavy burden but for me I took that as like that's my mission to not waste my life to not waste my gift to not waste my blessings because they didn't have the same opportunity so my mission is not to fix broken adults it's to build stronger children cuz those stronger children grow up to be broken adults and they grow up to do the things that my friends did so I'm all I'm doing with every project I work on is trying to save my friends before they turn into those two people wow wow you've said that minorities and people that grow up hard have some of the same skills or develop some of the same skills that the most successful entrepreneurs have to develop what are those skills and why do you think that becomes um such a great Proving Ground yeah I think you know when we talk about startup culture we talk about being lean and efficient and you know uh being being Scrappy I call that being broke I call it being you know it's and when you grow up and you know I always joke cuz I have some really really really successful friends that are entrepreneurs and they say yeah man it was so hard man it was for a long time when we eating ramen noodles and I'm like bro I grew up eating ramen noodles that was what I ate so you we've we've we've we've almost turned struggle in entrepreneurship world into like this badge of honor like unless you eat ramen noodles and you're not Scrappy right like so while we while we celebrate that as an entrepreneurial trait we also demonize it for people who don't have a lot of things we say ah why don't you just pull yourself up by your bootstraps oh why don't you go out and fight for it get a good education get a good job it's like yeah but what if I have to choose between reading a book and learning or getting a job picking fruit because I'm 14 and my family needs me to contribute to the overall household finances so the best entrepreneurs that I've met have come from you know countries where they didn't have anything and so when they talk about hey here's a million dollars be Scrappy they stretched at a million dollars for a really long time they take on multiple jobs if they don't know how to do something they learn it themselves that's exactly what happens in at least in my humble opinion for people who don't grow up with a lot or people who are often regarded as a second class citizen or a minority whether you're a woman or a person of color or a person with a disability because I think we don't talk enough about disabilities as a minority group they're severely overlooked um you have to have a sense of resilience you have to have a sense of self-confidence and fearlessness when you're in that environment cuz it's bold to come from nothing and say I'm going to become something with no evidence of your greatness no family name no money no degree and you say I'm going to be something bigger than what this world tells me I can be that takes a huge amount of like yeah I want to say the word but I balls that the word yeah I was trying to find a more eloquent way to say it but you know balls it just takes that and I think it's the same thing with an entrepreneur whether you whether you you know you come from a a family that's well off to start anything that hasn't been done before to put anything new into the world it's hard it's really hard so there is no difference between I would say an entrepreneur and a person who comes from an impoverished background because it's the same thing you're overcoming the odds right that's it I'm a unicorn cuz I made it out of Chicago not because I have a billion dollar company that's the thing that people need to realize like I'm a walking Miracle the fact that I'm a young black male I'm you know stable I have my wife and kids you know I'm doing something positive and eyes of society I don't I'm not supposed to exist but that's a false narrative because I know millions of dudes like that same thing with entrepreneurs who are successful oh man you know this one person built this billion dollar company man that's man you're a unicorn like no but what about the person that did the 100 million dollar company the person who exited for 50 that's still successful that's that's still success but we've like I said we've romanticized it we want the most extreme versions like the kid who grew up in a cave and became a CEO or the person who EX for 20 billion but there are these different levels of success in between that we need to acknowledge and so that's why I talk about the similarities between people who are impoverished and people who are overlooked and in Founders because it is the same thing it's you're overcoming the odds right so what advice do you have for the kid that has to take the job picking berries so what do you tell them I tell them that use it as um building blocks you know so how I started an entrepreneurship was I used to cut grass and shovel snow and it was it was you know I'm not a fan of gardening it's not my thing um it was a means to an end you know I wanted to buy sneakers I needed to pay for own school clothes and take care of myself so I I found a way to work but what I found in that experience was how to talk to people how to set my prices you know how to you know negotiate how to schedule how to organize so don't look at it as a burden like a I got to do this for my family look at it like okay what what skill set can I learn from this that's transferable to something else so if you're a kid that has to wake up at 4:00 in the morning or 3:30 in the morning to go and help your family you know pick fruit um think about it this way okay you're picking fruit you're waking up early along that user Journey are there areas of improvement that you specifically are uniquely gifted to disrupt is it hey maybe there's a system where you know me as a child of a migrant worker maybe I get a different type of reminder on my phone maybe I can create an app maybe I can do this maybe I can do that look for ways to leverage your circumstances and turn them into opportunities that's all I did is the fact that I had to you know shovel snow and cut grass to put my own buy my own school clothes I started to realize the value of money I realized that um not everything I paid for was really worth it so I'm very particular about crafting how things are made cuz I think about that when I make a product somebody worked really hard and saved all their money and this may be the first time they can afford something I worked on I have to have good quality product I love that I have to figure out something that's more than just a shoe it has to be a story so all these little things it's just reframing man it's not a struggle it's an opportunity it's not a problem it's a possibility like I just I don't have a fixed mindset I don't feel sorry for myself you know I I look at it as an opportunity so we we got to keep encouraging these kids like yes you should climb but also as you're climbing don't put your joy in the future find joy in the moment even if it's the most hard labor intensive work demeaning work possible find joying that work cuz that will help you in the future when you're a leader cuz you'll be able to say man I get what it's like to be a janitor cuz I was a janitor like I cleaned toilets I was a mover a janitor I know what that's like so I treat those people with so much respect cuz I know what that person is doing and that's given me a very unique sense of of empathy for my users when I create products so my whole thing I guess in summary is um look at your struggle as a mive empathy put yourself in this position to learn and then figure out how you can help other people from from your struggle look at your struggle as immersive empathy that's amazing amazing all right really fast we're running out of time which I'm horrified by it could go on with you forever um are you actually thinking of running for mayor I am of Chicago I am so tell me about that so you know I don't as you could tell from my life story I I'm not a I'm not a person that complains I'm a person that tries to bring Solutions I think Mayors or city officials of the future have to understand three things the technology environment which is why I specifically went to the Silicon Valley to have credibility two how to build from scratch so entrepreneurial um Endeavors I think Mayors have to reinvent cities completely in this next Generation like we're going to have a very unique American population that would be more transient they won't buy homes they won't drive regular cars so you have to redesign a city so you need an entrepreneurial mindset as a mayor and thirdly um you know being independently wealthy which is why I started a company because I don't want to have to take money from people I don't want private interest you know fueling how I go about governing a city I want I want it to be about the people completely so all my moves are very specific and strategic because I need to Signal when I do run for mayor whatever period that I've built businesses I understand technology and infrastructure and where our country is headed and I'm not doing this for the money or the power of prestige I'm doing it because it's the right thing to do so when I go back and I run from May Chicago I'm excited because I see the city as the world's most open a beautiful architectural Museum so what's the beautiful thing about museums you see something you learn something from it so I want to turn into a open air learning environment everything should be something you can interact with and learn from so when you want to have a smart city it's not just street lights and parking meters it's everything the school system the water the economic opportunities the food everything has to be you know interactive everything has to be part of a big ecosystem so um I'm excited you know cuz I put my goals out there so that I hold myself accountable so when I do run from Air nobody be surprised people may laugh when they hear it you know how's a kid dressed like this going to do it but people have laughed before and I've done it before so when I do run I plan on winning you know one thing you said about living your Dream Out Loud naysayers that I found incredibly moving was you said you have to get numb to the criticism before you can ignore it and to get numb to it you have to like hear it you so that's really moving to me that you're putting it out there not because you think that oh I'll put it out and everyone's going to rush to my Aid you're putting it out because you know that some people will help some are going to attack and you've got to get very used to that you've got to be very resilient and fight your way through it I also loved you called um naysayers they're like Defenders trying to stop me from scoring what do you mean by that yeah um you know I mean the goal you know whether it's metaphoric or if it's literal um for me is to is to finish my race meaning my life sprinting across the finish line I'm not going to limp across the Finish Line beat up I'm going to Sprint across the Finish Line in my life and so the people who stand in front of me who try to stop me I love it cuz I was running back so I'm going to run through you over you around you like please please please step up please get in front of me please try to stop me cuz that's the only way I get better and the reason why I say my goals out loud I explain this to my wife like you know the thing about something that's scary cuz it's scary to say you want to run for married that's like people can make fun of me for that but then that fear won't conquer me if I say it to a human being another person that's the hardest thing is to talk about something you're afraid of to another person and look them in the eye and say I don't know how do that am I smart enough am I qualified but my dream is to be married at Chicago one day that's scary to say but the one thing that that does for me is when I say it and that person doesn't laugh at me that person doesn't look at me crazy that person doesn't say oh dude you're you're stupid then I've conquered my fear you have to get it out of your head in order to conquer it you cannot conquer what you do not acknowledge and I acknowledge my fears and insecurities in front of other people so I can conquer and master them and move on to the next thing and so when I think about haters and Defenders and all that it's like man the only reason they can win is if I don't talk about what I'm afraid of and when I say that first then what do they have what could they say what could they say about me that I haven't already acknowledged you know um so it removes the fear and fear is what stifles so many people from trying to do anything great in life fear failure fear rejection so I address it I conquer it and I move on I love that all right before I ask my last question where can these guys find you online um they can hit me at Jason Maiden on every social platform I'm pretty simple j s o n m a y d e in on Instagram on Twitter um Facebook is just my regular name I'm a regular dude so there's no special like Jade nasty 59 none of that stuff I none of that stuff I'm just just very conservative with my my my naming on on social so pretty easy to find me all right fair enough what is the impact that you want to have on the world the impact I want to have on the world is to encourage enhance and enable pure physical play for every child and I qualify a child as anyone with imagination so if I can have everybody feel like their best play memories are are inspired and encouraged by the work that I do in my life then that's a life worth living wow it's amazing Jason thank you so much for coming on the show man that was incredible thank you sir all right guys he may not have a fancy name but I'm telling you until he cuts his hip-hop album I will not be satisfied with life and I think that it will be an amazing platform for him to run for mayor off of the success of a hip-hop artist and I say that I'm actually only mildly tongue and cheek I'm deadly serious like go back listen to this episode I always tell people to listen to things on 2x especially me I can't stand myself at 1X but go back and listen to this one again on 1X he threw away like as an off-handed comment like 86 of the most powerful phrases I think I've ever heard in my life not the least of which is immersion empathy go back and watch it again it's incredible I was freaking out you gave me the chills it literally this guy is amazing and one of the things we didn't even get a chance to talk about if if he had stayed at Nike I swear Phil Knight would be sweating right about now that he was going to take his job I mean just that level of Ascension so quickly through a company is literally magical to have made it your dream and to be a kid from the south side of Chicago that has a vision of where he's going to go he put a picture of the Nike campus on his ceiling at College to remind himself that it was a real place and it wasn't a fantasy land and that if he worked towards it he could actually make it real to have that level of EX execution to go in and talk to your brother and look at the boxes that the shoes come in to go and talk to the sales agent and figure out what that means and ask one person to the next to the next he got rejected from Nike multiple times kept coming back literally forced that dream to come true meets Jordan in his first week there if I'm not mistaken drinks everything he can from Jordan learning at all times like a sponge learning introspection like even just the first like three minute talk that he gave at the beginning of this is transformative if you let it be guys this is one of the most incredible stories of somebody setting their mind to something and making it real starting from nowhere USA and literally making it happen watch this one again he's got a lot of amazing videos out there go check him out you won't regret it all right this is weekly show if you haven't already be sure to subscribe and until next time my friends be legendary take care I'm buying that hip hop Alum I'm right now hey everybody thanks so much for joining us for another episode of impact theory if this content is adding value to your life our one ask is that you go to itun and Stitcher and rate and review not only does that help us build this community which at the end of the day is all we care about but it also helps us get even more amazing guests on here to share their knowledge with all of us thank you guys so much for being a part of this community and until next time be legendary my [Music] friends