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HjOJaWzjXZ4 • Q&A on Overcoming a Poverty Mindset and Loved Ones Who Are Stuck
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all right what is up everybody welcome
to another episode of Facebook live Q&A
I have a very special guest with me
today none other than the astonishing
the gifted the lovely the talented and
beautiful Lisa bill you she didn't want
me calling her Elizabeth Diana billu EDB
is in the house boys and girls so Cindy
is still out there traveling um So Lisa
is kind enough to fill in for her miss
you Cindy we all miss you Cindy and uh
yeah we cannot wait to have you back
it's going to be good to have you back
things move at lightning speed around
here so we'll have to catch you up uh
with all the fun stuff that's been going
on but welcome everybody let's get into
it Lisa take it away what do you have
for us you're supposed to have some
questions God do you have any
prepared okay so Jared was very kind to
give me some questions to start this off
nice um you can always count on agent
Smith yeah oh yeah agent Smith coming
through in a pinch um all right oh I'm
supposed to say about the activations
bear with me guys it's my first time I'm
in training Mo right now we want we need
some shares boys and girls we need some
shares that's what it's all about you
guys know phase one build the community
and by the way I feel compelled to warn
everybody I in a super weird mood today
like a super weird mood so I noticed
that this morning yeah like I don't know
what happened so I wake up this morning
so we were the three of us in fact we're
traveling yesterday went to Texas to
meet with Success magazine uh some
really cool stuff that we're working on
with those guys really really excited
about a potential partnership with them
speaking at an event that they have
coming up in April and so anyway go
there there and back come back super
tired wake up this morning and I'm like
wow I do not want to get out of bed and
but thankfully today was a day where the
10-minute rule really saved my ass and
because the last time Jared and I were
on I had missed by like 4 seconds I had
missed my 10-minute Mark so I thought
I'm not letting that happen again so I
made sure I was up out in 10 minutes and
uh got in the gym and I actually you
know how sometimes you'll do like ex
external affectations to communicate
something so like you might do a big
dramatic side because someone else is
there I was doing stuff like that and I
was by myself because I was just so
tired have our babies here no I didn't
have the monsters nothing and so I was
cuz normally you just use that as an
excuse yeah to talk out loud exactly and
didn't even have that excuse and I was
sighing and I was like wow I'm like so
tired and then you have given me this
technique that you use which is
on the days where you least feel like
working out you sort of punish yourself
for being mentally weak and so you go
harder do which is actually a pretty
good strategy uh so I started doing that
and pushing myself a little bit more
than I normally would um and by the time
I got out of the gym I my like mindset
had completely shifted I felt Wide Awake
ready to go and when you woke up I just
I felt like super high energy which I
never feel high energy after the gym so
it was really really fun and interesting
and so since then I've just been in a
super weird mood and we like everything
has gone wrong today and that's the
irony so yesterday we thought we were
going to be filming two episodes of
impact 3 2 uh amazing guest we're so
excited and then the first Domino fell
wasn't able to it was going to be a last
minute Edition um first Domino fa could
make the schedule work so we're going to
have to push him off a couple weeks and
then the second person who you I am
unbelievably excited to interview this
person is Jay samit the author of
disrupt you I I cannot wait for you guys
like to meet this guy and he is like
socially anyway kind of under the radar
but is one of the most profoundly
effective entrepreneurs alive no joke
and when you guys get to spend time with
him you're going to see like the way his
mind works is so so powerful so was
desperate to do this interview and he is
sick and so he had to cancel this
morning and so even despite all of that
and aent Smith is like really eyeing
something
hard oh
God I can't believe I don't remember
that's all right that was all for the
live that was all for the live C fact
can I pause for a second cuz like I said
I'm filling in and I'm not prepared cuz
we were traveling yesterday and we had
to deal with the issue this morning um
so agent Smith can you log me into
Facebook on my laptop please this is bad
this is
bad I'm like trying to find the page as
I'm listening to you bless you for
trying all right so I'm logged in I just
need to find the page for well whilst he
logs Us in uh why don't you hit us with
the first paper question let's do it all
right all right so these are questions
from previous uh lives that we didn't
get a chance to answer correct all right
this one's from Rob Weir sorry if I'm
butchering your name um I'm fascinated
by everyday people and their impact and
their awesomeness do you have any goal
to include people like this on impact
Theory period I not wellknown
Titans um wow that's so weird okay so
actually before I answer that we should
do the official intro now um and I'll
beep this here for the
editor hey everybody welcome to another
episode of Facebook live we are taking
your questions and I am joined by my
lovely and very talented wife and
co-founder of impact Theory Lisa Bilu
welcome hello hello hello all right so
hit us with that first question again
this is fascinating that we're starting
with this one because we were just
talking about that this morning we
really were which is kind of bizarre all
right so this is from Rob we I'm
fascinated by everyday people and their
impact and their awesomeness do you have
any goal to include people like this on
impact Theory I.E not wellknown Titans
yeah so yes there's a a content type
that I have in my soul that we're sort
of code naming impact Theory discovers
where we're bringing on people that
we're fascinated by for whatever reason
and I want to discover them in real time
and the the thing that we really use as
a barometer of whether or not to bring
somebody on to impact theory is I have
already encountered them in um either
their book or stuff that I've seen
online and there's somebody that I know
is going to bring value to me as I
research and to you guys as we present
them in the interview and it's obviously
I've researched them to death I know
their story and what I call their loop
from sort of every conceivable angle and
then because of that I know that I'm
going to be able to bring value to you
guys um and if I don't already know them
uh am not sure yet how much value
they're going to bring we've we've
always issued it and and I think of it
as you know what is will I have to fake
the funk in the intro and that's been a
really powerful barometer for us and in
fact when Chase Jarvis came on the show
uh we always do these things at the end
where we asked them just to tell us a
little bit about their experience on the
show and he said something which was
really really meaningful to me that that
it's becoming known which is dude if
impact Theory invites you to be on the
show go because they curate that list so
hardcore like just to be invited is
something meaningful and that really
meant a lot I think to the whole team
because from day one that's been like
the focus is you know we're thinking
about you guys we're thinking about
creating value in your life and so we
see it as an obligation to really um
make sure that we have a high bar for
people to pass and so we're we know
we're passing on incredible people um
that either just haven't quite reached
that level um or we just don't know them
well enough or whatever the case may be
so um that was that's really been a big
thing for us it's obviously people are
beginning to understand that so but I
there are people that I'll read about a
headline I'll hear a story someone will
say something and it's like whoa that's
so interesting now I don't know enough
about them and I'm not prepared yet to
go spend a day or a day and a half
researching them and writing the intro
and all of that especially on a gamble
because I may at the end of all that go
I'm just not sure that uh that it's the
right fit so we want to do this thing
called something like impact Theory
discovers where I can discover them in
real time so I would sit down with them
and they would tell me about their book
or whatever and then just like you guys
I'm going to be discovering them and
you'll get to follow my flow and see how
I see things and how I chase someone
down when I don't know them and I think
that that could be um really valuable
content but it would need to be
something separate and so that was the
big debate today is do we do when we had
the two people cancel do we bring
somebody on the show um that I haven't
done the research on but could be an
intriguing human being and the thing
that we came to was yes it's a great
show but it would need to be a separate
piece of content it shouldn't replace a
main episode um and so what does that
look like and where would we release it
how frequently would we be willing to do
it cuz God another piece of weekly
content would would be difficult so uh
that's a very long way of saying yes
they're intriguing people we will be
bringing them on we just need a new show
format cuz yeah we get a lot of people
that write in and tell us their stories
and what incredible things that they've
done and um that really impacts us
internally like we love hearing those
stories and and man I'll tell you one
thing I really wanted to become a thing
like I was on impact Theory discovers
and that's like that becomes the We're
The Taste makers right so that like Ed
Sullivan back in the day if you I think
agent Smith is trying to [ __ ] something
for you um back in the day if you were
on The Ed Sullivan Show then it was like
you were going to be the next big thing
and obviously that's how the Beatles
broke into America and all that stuff so
I think that could be pretty cool all
right all right what did he down no idea
what he's fing me down that already said
my new goal is to be on nice all right
let's give him a shout out who said that
are you seeing that I'm learning the
ropes for yeah my wife is giving herself
away right now she is rubbish on
Facebook I mean I
have no shame no shame if you don't ask
you don't right but if you don't ask say
that that's important yeah if you don't
ask you never going to learn right never
be afraid to look stupid respect and let
me tell you in school I used to pretend
I knew cuz I didn't want to get picked
on and now I'm kicking myself cuz of all
the lessons I could have learned and I
could have been more powerful more D I
respect that that's [ __ ] awesome damn
all right refresh okay I'll have to
refresh every time sorry guys hey you're
learning in real
time ah there's a lot of people on
hey all right but let's give a shout out
who said they want to be on Laura
def Laura defrain Laura defra what's up
Laura defra all right in fact yes
comment below if you think that this is
a new show we we should be doing that's
a good question and then who wants to be
on it come on Laura love it love it and
guys please if you haven't already share
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trust me we've already laid out on the
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can check that out there but um I want
people to know we're calling our shots
like we have a Grand Vision for what
this is is going to become and we need
the community in order to help us
identify the types of content and
companies that we're going to be
supporting um in the not too distant
future in fact we've already got there's
two companies now that we're sort of in
in contractual talks with um to
officially take ownership in their
company and help them um develop it so
this is all happening um very very
rapidly and we want to involve you guys
as much in that process as humanly
possible um but the only way for it to
be sort of sta ically relevant is for
the community to reach a certain size
our thing is that we will provide value
and value for free to help build this
community to make sure that it's
worthwhile for you guys to come and
engage in that we're working on the
technology piece already we have a
technology partner that's going to help
us gamify being a part of the impact
Theory Community um so yeah that's a
that's a thing um so it's all coming
we're working on it literally around the
clock so we're trying to just smash
value and I'm going to give myself away
I just lost year thank you thank you
have my coffee indeed your sort of
dribble of coffee and lots of water yes
which is how you Ro um there's an
awesome question that I'd love to ask
um all right this is from
woot EO sorry I have a really long Greek
maiden name and so people always used to
butcher it and so I really do apologize
W eot woot eot yeah woot eot all right
right dig hey Tom what what are your
spiritual beliefs and practices like
also how do you combine these with
vocation and
money wow um so I the the path of
spirituality that I follow is really all
about human potential and being able to
actually develop that potential so I
believe that the reason that we're all
here is to find out how many skills that
we can acquire that have utility and put
that utility to the test in service of
something larger than ourselves now when
I say something larger I'm talking about
Humanity very specifically um and when I
think about so Charles Darwin is often
misquoted as saying that it is the um
survival of the fittest he never said
that so that actually came from somebody
well after Darwin had died what Darwin
actually said is it's not the strongest
of the species that survive nor the most
intelligent but rather the most adaptive
to change and what I think he understood
is that humans certainly are adaptation
machines like the reason that we have
become the apex predator the reason that
we're the only species that you can find
literally in every part of this globe I
mean you you could find at one point you
could find James Cameron at the bottom
of the marianist trench okay so like
humans are everywhere it's crazy and the
reason that we're able to do that is
because we adapt so we can go in and not
only adapt our physiology and if you
look at um like the Inuits and I I'm I'm
admittedly right now I'm I'm at the edge
maybe a little bit beyond what I truly
truly understand from the physiological
perspective I'm almost certain that this
is true that they levels of what's
called Brown fat are higher than people
say at the equator because um mean by
Brown fat so Brown fat is more
insulating um and I can see that there
we go uh Brown fat is more insulating
and uh so it it's going to help you stay
warmer which is I I very much doubt that
you would see Inuits with six-pack abs
just because from an uh evolutionary
perspective it's not adaptive uh for
survival so
again sort of at the edge maybe a little
beyond what I could really say I've read
the studies on that but I've heard
enough about it to know that that's
directionally true even if it's not sort
of Highly specifically true they're
alternate facts right Jared throwing out
alternate facts today uh so that that to
me is is really fascinating so that that
is like the core of my spirituality is
seeing like okay how far can I push
myself how far can I develop myself no I
think there's something Beyond us there
is clearly in fact this is one of the
things I want to talk to J salmon about
when I was a kid I would would have
trouble falling I'm talking like 7 years
old I would have trouble falling asleep
because I was obsessed with the notion
of if the universe is expanding what is
it expanding
into I remember you talking about like
Dr finesse just walked by Dr finesse
what the hell is the universe expanding
into if anyone there has an answer write
it below what was that that is question
of right nobody knows okay so the
universe is expanding into what nobody
has any idea that totally freaks me out
as a kid I used to sit there and think
if you build a house you have to build
it on a plot of land like what is the
plot of land that the universe is
expanding into so I get it there is
something bigger than me that I do not
understand I don't comprehend it I don't
pretend to comprehend it I find it
amazing that's why I'm utterly
fascinated with things at the
cosmological level that's why I think
about that stuff all the time that is
why I want you guys to start a campaign
I want to be on Star talks with Neil
degrass Tyson no one knows that side of
me I never get to talk about it but I'm
totally totally obsessed and Dr finesse
whose job it is to get me on Star talks
uh is back there giving a thumbs up I
really really really want to do that uh
that would be just a lot of fun so
thinking at the cosmological level is an
echo of that side the way that I think
of spirituality there were two other
parts of that question though business
and money and money now there was
something else use another word find it
that I found
interesting all right so I mean I guess
I can talk about it um from money how
how is my spirituality tied to that so
oh I found okay um what are your
spiritual spiritual beliefs and
practices like also how do you combine
these with vocation and money so um my
spiritual practices basically the the
only thing that's really a deep practice
is read read read I'm just reading at
all times I guess meditation you could
call that but I don't I actually don't
think of that as being um spiritual in
any
way because I'm not trying to commune
with anything other than my brain so I
fully spirituality is outside of
yourself I think that's how most people
would Define it yeah so and I think it
would be a little misleading to but I
mean look I guess my own definition is
about seeing how far I can push my own
skill set um but acknowledging obviously
there's something bigger than myself but
I'm not I'm not um like when Jamie wheel
was on and he said that meditative
practice when really taken to the
extreme can take you into a non-ordinary
state of consciousness that has like
sort of um Remnant tones of what you can
get through a psychedelic experience
that that just didn't not ring true for
me in my experience like cuz I don't
meditate like that sort of aggressively
and I've only been doing it for like a
year a year and a half or whatever um so
maybe like 20 or 30 years from now I'll
realize whoa like once you really
develop your skill set that you can push
it that far but for me I'm just it's
it's gas and break for me so you've got
the parasympathetic nervous system and
the sympathetic nervous system so the
sympathetic nervous system is fighter
flight and parasympathetic nervous
system is rest and digest where you're
calming yourself down um I'm just trying
to tap into that I'm trying to apply the
brakes lower what I call background
radiation so it it doesn't feel like
communing with anything for me um the
other part vocation um ah would I say I
have a vocation not really I don't think
in terms like that um my calling maybe I
guess you could say uh money money is a
facilitator to me it just it allows you
to do things so money is incredibly
powerful um I think the desire to
accumulate wealth makes because there's
so much control in that it allows you to
do what you want to do um and without it
like when you don't like there yeah oh
God I'm I'm self-censoring right now and
I apologize but there are just things
that money are going to let you do that
we'll hopefully be able to talk more
openly about in the next month or so um
but there's things that you can do that
you otherwise would not be able to do
and having that level of control is very
very important to me and I can feel I'm
going on way too long in this question
so no it's all good and I've actually no
a huge difference since you started
meditating and I know you're trying to
get me to do it I've tried I haven't
really dedicated time to it but yeah
I've definitely noticed the difference
yeah you you my dear more than most
would benefit cuz your background
radiation is through the roof can you
hear it right now yes I can feel it's
keeping me warm is that what the buzzing
that is what the buzzing is coming from
agent Smith knows what's up aent Smith
yeah he ratted you out on that yeah my
wife's background radiation levels are
are astronomical so you would love it
like if you got into it you just have to
understand like there's no it's not like
you're doing it wrong if it's not
amazing at first you're it's just
getting good at lowering those levels
and
truly when when we have gone through
hard times in our
life it it really has the only thing
that feels true is to say that it saved
me yeah and ah yeah and and when
something is it's like the way you feel
about your favorite food and you just
want other people to experience it like
you experience it that's how I feel
about meditation it's like it's so
amazing but you have to you have to push
past other the you feel like a little
bit awkward at first and remember I just
use just breathe meditation so it is
literally I breathe in through my nose
and out through my mouth it is very
simple that's it I'm not trying to do
anything lots of questions let's get I
know there are lot of question in fact
agent Smith let's we're going to I'm
going to hold myself to speed round here
here we go short
answers
um in fact I would love to know agent
agent Smith thinks that um I'm at my
best when I force myself to go really
short and I don't agree I want to know
what people think which is all that
matters so uh if you guys like short
Punchy answers then I will start giving
more short Punchy answers so tell me you
want them all right so this is long or
short long or short I want to see it in
the comments this is going to be a short
answer these are going to be short no
matter what cuz I want to give what's
your favorite video game system and game
PlayStation 4 Destiny without question
Destiny
Warlock and she's good and and she's a
liar though actually yeah I am a liar
yeah I'm not so tell them what you
really are um a hunter there you go I
can't believe she made that mistake she
only ever plays with hun it's the
pressure it's the pressure yeah it's all
right she's amazing
um what do you think you were best at
Dan bro Fitness Dan brro Fitness I am
best at um analyzing why understanding I
am better at understanding why I do what
I do and because of that because of that
self-awareness and Clarity I can
adjust I like this question good answer
by thank you Ben Evans thank you Ben for
this question could you talk a little
bit about your passion for social
justice and some of the ways you were
doing to reach people in
need God talk about asking a big
question I have to give a short answer
to um some people are saying they like
long answers okay but we I I'm doing
this one's for Jared this one's for
Jared so here we go um multiple people
are saying long answers thank you guys
thank you um we'll stick with the short
for a minute we can always Circle back
around so uh here's my thing the I I
actually shy away from the term social
justice because I think that it has a um
a like Crusader icky Vibe um but I care
deeply about helping people be their
best and I think that um whether through
um people being sinister
or accidental it doesn't matter to me uh
we trap people in a mindset and it is
only mindset holds you back I want like
write that down only mindset holds you
back that is it and once you free people
from feeling like they have to act a
certain way to please somebody um or
that uh they're they're just not
educated and they don't have the right
frame of reference to empower them once
you give them that then I believe you're
on an equal playing field but until
people have the mindset that all like
think about billionaire PA right grew up
rough grew up impoverished uh was living
in his car and then one day I'm I'm
going long here and then one day
realized that he that it was his mindset
that was holding him back period and so
he started telling himself these really
empowering phrases over and over and
over and over and over and has gone on
to do amazing things and I really think
that kid 10 years from now he he will
have done something incredible and so
that's why I'm so because I'm not saying
that once you have the mindset all of
the sudden you're you're at another
place in your life I'm saying you're
capable of getting there and that is the
thing to which I'm prepared to dedicate
my life making sure everybody gets that
mindset they need and then if you choose
not to build from that that's on you
right but at least that you have the
mindset all right question from marit
conney after you made your shift in your
self-image did you backtrack at all
that's a really good question if so how
did you maintain that new image
so I think the the only truthful answer
is um research the Corpus colossum and
you'll see that if you so the Corpus
colossum is what connects the left and
the right hemisphere in the brain and if
you cut it um people can actually have
duality of personality and it gets the
most fascinating way that that um
expresses itself is you can have one
half of the brain that believes in God
and the other that doesn't think about
that for a minute one is convinced God
is real and the other's convinced that
God is not real in the same brain okay
so no matter what I have a voice in my
head that tells me I'm a loser I'm not
good enough like uh that I'm you know a
failure always going to be a failure a
fraud a fake like like anybody so I have
not silenced that voice because I
actually think that voice is incredibly
incredibly
useful once you know how to harness
it and I've just tried to put a lot of
tactics in place to deal with that voice
to never let it hold me back or never
let it have the Reign and control which
direction I go so um in that sense I
slide back 50 times a day 100 times a
day and I just catch myself and what
I've tried to do is get good at
assessing what's going to move me
towards my goals and if and there are
times where believing that I have failed
is useful and to use that as motivation
to get better and so yes occasionally
for very brief moments I will stare
nakedly at that I'm bad at something
that I'm not good enough that I need to
do more um so if that if we're calling
that sliding back then yes I have sliden
back but you're really good at asking
that question CU I remember when I first
met you there were certain things that I
really believed in and you're like oh
but have you thought about this and I
never asked myself the question to then
open my mind to having those two ideas
so is that just would you say that's
just based on again mindset and make
pure
strategy pure strategy that is I read in
a book somewhere somebody says Hey in
fact this is a Tony Robin saying the uh
the quality of your questions will
determine the quality of your life I
love that and so I thought what like the
first time I read that I thought that
doesn't make any sense and then he's got
this whole thing um about whatever you
think that thing in your life that is
the worst thing that's ever happened to
you think about being abused right let's
just go right to the heart of one of the
things that really really destroys
people you've been abused mentally
physically emotionally sexually whatever
you've abused how is that the best thing
that ever happened to you and I promise
there's an answer and it for some people
will be something like It's Made Me
Stronger it's made me more compassionate
it's deepened my empathy It's Made Me
committed to helping other people right
I mean those are going to be the things
right so once you and now because you
get what you focus on about to say now
you flipped it you're not thinking about
it's not that it isn't bad it's not that
it didn't introduce a thousand horrific
things to your life because I'm sure it
did did and the way that it messes with
the mind like 100% but it's because
you've been focusing on the negative
side the way that it made you feel bad
the that it made you feel weak insecure
alone unloved you know whatever the the
case you focused on that because you
focused on that that became real that
became dominant the same exact scenario
you flip it and you're not diminishing
that it was horrible you're just saying
there is also something amazing that
came out of it and I choose to focus on
that thing and it all came from just
flipping the question
so every time something horrific in fact
today when we had the when the first
guest canel like nobody took it too
seriously he was like that's a little
more manageable when the second guest
called in sick then we were like the the
initial messaging um was that you know
okay this is bad and my thing was this
is awesome like what are we going to do
now like this is amazing everybody
should be let's can we should we be
really real let's see how real you're
prepared to be right so I woke up this
morning get a text saying got cancelled
and I came down ready to work out come
downstairs you're already awake for
hours I can't believe we've got a guess
that's cancelled what are we going to do
oh my God and he just was like well this
is amazing I literally looked like what
do you mean this is amazing do realize
all the KnockOn effects that this has
and you like no this is amazing what can
we now do that we didn't have time to do
before or you know what what doors does
this now open and just that reframing it
in my mind and then we as a team we got
together and everyone spitting out ideas
and all the cool stuff we can do all the
projects we wanted to do but haven't had
the chance to do it so that that switch
in the mindset of just saying that one
little film made all the difference to
how at least I approached this morning
and it's all technique it's all
technique it it when I said it I didn't
know how it was good you know what I
mean it's like but I just know that if
putting that out there yeah like if I
respond with if I tell myself this is
amazing like everything in my body
changes my brain chemistry changes so I
just don't allow myself because it's not
effective right and that's what I want
people to understand it's just not
effective if it were effective to wallow
I would wallow with everybody else
because it's not effective then I just
know hey like go with this is amazing
this is the best thing that ever
happened this is awesome I'm so stoked
on this and they've done so many studies
you can give you can make take Stephen
Hawking literally robbed of his body he
has he can move one muscle in his cheek
and he can move his
eyes think about that for a second right
if right now today all of the sudden for
the rest of your life by the way you
could move a muscle in your cheek and
your eyes
period most people are going to be
pretty traumatized but he will tell you
that he's had the breakthroughs in
physics that he's had because his body
shut down on him and all he had left was
his mind and he wanted to make the most
of his mind so if you ask him would
would he say that it was the best thing
maybe but he would certainly say it's
the most important thing that's happened
to him and so excuse me that's where I
think people have to get to is you just
have to understand the way the mind
works and you will get more of what you
focus on if you focus on how it's bad
negative then your life is going to seem
bad negative if you focus on how it's
amazing and positive you will actually
start to see solutions that other people
won't see period and it's been
incredible to see how because when
something bad or something happens um
how do you switch that mindset how long
does that take you you now go straight
to positivity like you don't even spend
2 seconds wallowing or thinking like
that I sadly haven't got there yet um
and right now I think that we've um come
up with like almost a system where I'm
like I just need a day or I just need an
hour I just want to express my
disappointment my upset my trauma
whatever that situation is and I don't
know if that's because I'm a female or
whatever but I really do just need that
time to
wallow and then you're like cool how
long do you need and you like an hour
and you're like cool time starts now and
then after that hour is done literally
he's like all right so where's the
positivity what are we goingon to do
like and so yeah that's at least a
technique that I use because I just need
some time to get it out cuz I noticed if
I don't get it out it just starts kind
of piling on as like you know the hay
the boat the cam was back the shore the
sh say the boat the
hay she's British everybody cut some
slack um not that they say that in the
UK by the so in a way so that's at least
the technique I use you you go straight
to positivity yeah so I just need that
kind of grace period I guess fair enough
know thyself um all right there was a
great question you guys are asking great
questions um I just need to find it
now um oh
God Joey do you have any that you like
over there we really do have to get a
mic for the third person we have a mic I
just haven't had time to set it up sorry
guys and what she what she meant to say
was it hasn't been important enough to
set it up because there's plenty of time
just hope that we're notes yeah that's
true it hasn't been at the top of my
priorities yeah fair enough okay so
question from
POA
Fus oh God God we're so bad at these
names I really apologize I was in a
meeting all day yesterday though where
the guy kept mispronouncing my name does
that give me does that give me anything
so no it's too bad so St luck so this is
a two-part question yeah Tom how do one
you overcome a poverty mentality and
number two destroy the limiting beliefs
about ourselves so the feeling bad and
being worthless Etc yeah it's a it's a
process
so Jared assures me that um that you can
repeat the same things over and over
because uh it takes a while for like
what' you say they say it takes seven
touches to get a conversion but you were
saying today that it's more like 10 with
some of the things we're trying to do so
I'll repeat myself um it
uh I actually in saying all that forget
the story that I was about to say how do
you just it's a process oh the letter
there we go I I found my way back you
guys know I'm always practicing that uh
so I wrote a letter to my wife because
um I used to get really when I got angry
which took a long time when I got angry
I would stay angry and I would waste
Saturdays because that was basically the
only day that my wife and I would spend
any time together cuz I was working
around the clock was
uh uh yes and so it just seemed like a
catastroph waste of time so I wrote
myself this letter because my thing is
when somebody upsets you of course they
want you to not be upset anymore because
they have every motive in the world uh
they don't want to feel bad anymore so
they want you to be nice and calm and
happy again so they don't have to feel
bad about upsetting you um and I
realized that I was going to later in
the day realize what a mistake it been
to waste all that time that I had no
motive to cheer myself up other than to
do what was right for me what's moving
me towards my goals is I Define right
uh and so I wrote this letter and gave
it to her to read to me the next time
that I got really upset and it seemed
like that I was going to stay upset and
it was like Hey me it's me you know that
you have no agenda uh to try and cheer
you up other than that you're going to
regret that you wasted all this time um
and and I just walked myself I mean this
is a long time ago but I just walked
myself through all the studies about
faking a smile and how that can change
brain chemistry and I would part of the
letter said and I want you to right now
even though you really don't feel like
it I want you to laugh out loud and as
soon as I would laugh out loud I'd stop
being angry because it would just alter
my brain chemistry just enough so that I
could see my wife loves me she's not
trying to wind me up she didn't mean to
upset me so whatever it was like let it
go move on and if you and I think one of
the lines in the letter was if you doubt
for a second that she loves you and
wants the best for you you have other
problems so if you don't doubt that then
you know this is a game of brain
chemistry so I would play games like
that with myself it's all about
understanding the brain the anatomy of
the brain uh you know The Human
Condition what it's like my own things
like knowing that I have a really long
fuse but once I get upset that then I
there's so much momentum behind that
that I had to find ways to break that
momentum so um practice practice
practice that's the the big thing just
keep doing it and um keep hounding me to
write the book so that I will actually
get all these things put down for people
how to escape the matrix and because
that also goes back to a phrase you used
a lot which is emotional sobriety yeah
so you get those moments where you've
got this emotional rush and you're sad
and upset or you're angry and you act in
a way that you wouldn't necessarily
obviously act if you were nice and calm
so a lot of at least one thing that
we've kind of done is talk about things
when we're emotionally sober um and
writing that letter was in your
emotional during your emotional sobriety
where you're very clear-headed you can
be you know very blunt about it um and I
remember reading it out the first time
cuz it's like we're in an argument now
imagine you're in the middle of an
argument and you know you may have like
a golden ticket next to you but you have
to actually read it out loud and in
reading it out loud I think that made us
laugh cuz I'm reading it to him saying
hey me it's
me um and I think even just that broke
that kind of um the tension there no
question so that's cool all right
Welcome to our marriage it's true yeah
it's all the tactics we've put in to be
able to yeah no question yeah
um and someone ratted me out Joe backer
I'm from the UK and I've never heard of
it thanks Joe putting the the hay that
broke the camel's back
yeah um all
right let's see question question
question yes someone mentioned it's
similar as putting the pencil in your
mouth to force yourself to smile yeah
that's very true no question awesome
study all right what's the key this is
from gasan el gani gasan el gani yeah hi
Tom what's the key daily or what's your
key daily habits you can recommend for
the people who who have decided to do
whatever it takes um and take it to the
next level like what are the key habits
there's there's really three super
critical things work out I just can't
stress enough now that's coming from gu
I do not like working out so this is not
me recommending it cuz I want to see the
world fit like this is me recommending
it because because it is the shest fire
way to get your mind into the right
chemical state to approach the rest of
your day um it's just super super
important and we as a species just were
not meant for the level of sedentary
life that we lead and because there's
like physicality forces you to like do
things you don't want to do right when a
weight is heavy you want to put it down
and so some part of your brain has to
tell you to fight through that it's just
while small like those are really really
critical things for you to learn
something about yourself I just think
it's super important uh the next thing
is meditate everyone has background
radiation we live in like this always on
always going hard charging world where
we reward people for being type A and
just pushing pushing pushing so I think
that inevitably leads to what I call
background radiation stress right you
just but it becomes where you don't even
know what you're stressed about you're
just stressed about something and so
meditation is going to help you reset
that and by resetting it every day I'm
it's super effective and when I'm going
through a period of like really really
high stress and I have like I can
tolerate a pretty freaky amount of
stress um but for me like one of the
ways when things really get out of hand
I'll meditate multiple times a day there
have been times in my life where I'll
meditate one or two hours on the
weekends like every day just because I
need to like I I want to keep it feels
so good I want to keep dropping it
because I don't mess around with drugs
like that's a way for me to like have a
druglike effect where you know like for
people that smoke or drink or whatever
it's like you're trying to alter your
brain chemistry to get into a more
pleasant State that's exactly what
happens to me through meditation and
then third is read or I just discovered
oh man I want to know who in the feed
like do you guys know um Dan Carlin's
Hardcore
History that's the bomb it's so good I'm
like uh I don't know a quarter of the
way through one right now it's my very
first one but it's
amazing yeah amazing and the reason I
started reading it uh who was just
saying uh Chase Jarvis Chase Jarvis like
actually had a pretty big impact on me
researching that guy was a lot a lot a
lot of fun uh so if you guys don't know
Chase Jarvis creative live he's the guy
that created that um he's also the guy
there are some amazing people out there
that have these Tales of like Chase
Jarvis should have made hundreds of
millions of dollars he was a he had a
photo app a year and a half before
Instagram came out long story short he
made some bad decisions and um didn't
end up selling it and then it went away
and um but what he learned from that and
what he's built on the back of that is
just amazing amazing amazing so anyway a
super incredible guy and one of the
things he was saying this is what
triggered this in my head is the
greatest art comes from references
outside of that discipline so uh great
paintings can be inspired by sculpture
can be inspired by architecture can be
inspired by Industrial design a
conversation a book that you read and
understanding how to go outside of your
world to draw inspiration for what
you're doing I think is super important
so um you know the Temptation for me is
to just look at entrepreneurs all the
time look at businesses read business
articles think about Finance like uh
business models and and marketing and
like that right and I do spend just a
tremendous amount of time reading about
stuff like that but today I thought you
know what there every time I encounter
history I am blown away by what it
reveals because it's giving you macro
Trends it's revealing things about the
way that humans operate and so I thought
I've heard Tim Ferris talk about Dan
Carlin like a thousand times let me
actually go listen to Dan Carlin I was
blown away wow blown away so and that's
tied into reading it's just getting
information from outside of your normal
and I'm going to keep saying umelt like
every time I say it I feel a little bit
guilty but anyone in my community is
going to know the word umelt means
because it's so cool and it's basically
like the universe of things that you
take in right so humans can't see an
infrared okay so it's outside of our
umelt it's there it's real but we don't
think about it because it's outside of
our umelt so if you think of it that way
the spectrum of light that we see that's
part of our umelt the um things that we
can hear which is different than what a
dog can hear or a dolphin like those are
the things that are in our umelt and
when you expand your umelt then things
get really interesting so trying to get
things from outside your umelt in so
that your world of things that you have
purview on expands that that to me is
just so
important and Jared I did like maybe
three questions short and I slip back to
long
so
sorrys yeah oh they do well hey there we
go um all right I've got a question from
Joe Baxter I struggle to make my mind
think positive of certain things some
sometimes I can and others I cannot I
get scared of failure but I have started
my own business and won't get money
coming until I nail it what are the best
ways to forget about money and focus on
delivering results whoa that's a weird
question what's in it Joe Joe backer Joe
Baxter don't forget about money those
are the results so remember people will
pay for Value it is the only thing that
they will pay for over time so you can
uh get a spike where you deliver fancy
marketing or whatever
and get money out of people and that is
what makes people think that companies
are evil and a bunch of jerks and but
when people are talking about sustained
value and that they want to deliver
something what somebody's doing is
they're saying okay I have this money
money is latent potential okay money by
itself and during the Civil War they had
these things called Confederate dollars
because they were trying to break away
from the US government so they can't use
US currency so they created Confederate
dollars and at one point it was like
inflation was so bad in the Confederate
states that it took like a wheelbarrow
full of money to buy a loaf of bread
okay so money inherently doesn't do
anything and that's why it's like its
relative value can fluctuate so
dramatically so understand that money is
potential money is like the human mind
and that's probably why I'm so
fascinated by wealth creation because
like the human mind if you put it to
work to do something amazing it will do
it like it is incredible we have agreed
as a society that it's the current that
you can exchange for things that we say
it has value and therefore it has value
and so you can get things that are very
meaningful with money so money is the
game that we're playing right now why
don't people like to talk about it oh
God you want to talk about a big
question that because people mistakenly
s about talking about because they tie
selfworth to it they because other
people do not here's what the
fundamental thing people don't
understand about money please I'm
begging you pay attention to this one
the thing that people don't understand
about money is they
think that money will make them feel
about themselves the way they feel about
other people with money so they look at
other people with money and think oh man
they've achieved something they have
something I want they are something I
want to be and there's a reverence for
that now they think when I get money I
will feel that same way about myself and
so they are are chasing this external
thing thinking it's going to make me
feel amazing and people are going to
look at me with reverence and the irony
is people will look at you with
reverence but you won't feel any
differently about yourself not not a
lick so if you love yourself you're
going to love yourself whether you have
money or not if you hate yourself if you
think less of yourself if you think
you're unworthy no matter how much money
you get you will feel that way about
yourself promise so money is inert
meaning it has no intrinsic value it
does nothing it just sits
there it's what you want to do with the
money that becomes important right that
you can dedicate yourself to that you
can get excited about and if that thing
that you want to do with the money is
enrich your experiences I think
everybody can get behind that that's
amazing people love to have awesome
experiences if you want to improve the
quality of life for the people that you
love better healthare uh a roof over
their head um just uh stability right
stability is one of the natural human
drivers um if you want to do something
for other people and you want to build
something Bill Gates is going to cure
malaria um Elon Musk is going to get us
to Mars he's going to uh create the you
know first really powerful electric car
and just there are amazing amazing
things that people can do with money but
most people are chasing it because they
think having a fancy car and a big house
and a lot of cash will make them feel
differently about themselves period end
of story that's it
and so one that chase is so empty
because it's so internally directed you
just won't have the energy to see it
through you just won't it it's just too
hard right so fighting for like having
that part of what we're doing at impact
3 for sure is about wealth creation 100%
but that's why eh I'm not tense about
like there's going to be a huge Chasm
between where we are today and when we
start making our first real money I
don't care because it doesn't make me
feel differently about myself I just
know that it there's a delay between
when I'll be able to execute on some of
the things I want to execute on because
they're going to require
Capital so that but knowing what I'm
trying to do right knowing that what I'm
actually trying to do is change the
frame of reference for anybody who has
an impoverished mindset that that is my
calling I feel I have built a lot of
skill set that let me do it through just
spoken word uh I've developed a skill
set that lets people just watch me right
so if you're um on this team and you
watch How I behave you will see [ __ ]
like okay there's just a different way
to think and approach things lead by
example for sure and then there's being
able to really Reach people on a global
scale to help get them out of that
situation which I've worked from a
business perspective to be able to do
and I think that Commerce is the only
self-sustaining engine that we have
today so the only way to I mean even
look at governments while they may not
generate Revenue through anything other
than taxes um they need money to sustain
that's just that is the engine um so
yeah those are those are very important
and once people break free from the
limiting belief that money is icky and
wrong and bad because that will stop you
from having the resources that you need
in order to execute um and Mother Teresa
is sort of my favorite example to give
to people because Mother Teresa I would
say transcended um money but at the end
of the day she's trying to influence
economic systems she's trying to say hey
we need to help the poor but how are we
going to do that we're going to do that
we're not going to revert to a barter
system we're going to do it because
hospitals either write things off and
help people donate equipment donate
their time you know whatever things that
are monetizable they're going to give
for free but at the end of the day it
all was based on at some point it was an
economic vehicle that created that thing
so and even she just was she was a
master at media she was a master at
capturing people's imaginations so but
at the end of the day what she's trying
to do when she captures people's
imaginations is take something that
either is monetary in nature or could be
monetized and get people to give it to
somebody but that's not a sustainable
vehicle for the whole world to do
without collapsing back to a barter
economy which just isn't efficient read
Matt Ridley's uh the rational Optimist
where he talks about one of the greatest
advances that we've made is
specialization so um as we're able to
specialize we're actually able to
further culture and society and that's a
good thing but then you need some sort
of common currency so it used to like he
GES gives some great examples about how
there was a time where people traded
seashells and there's always going to be
something uh and then it was gold and
the thing that makes me laugh seashells
gold they're pure purely aesthetic
spices right which was like gold dust at
one point and so much of the what's that
tea yeah like things that are purely
just consumable become massively
massively important but you could do
without spice it just masked the fact
that the food was disgusting truly and
became like the most sought after
commodity I'm derailing but that is
fascinating and there was something you
mentioned all right Jared what the
charger
oh I think it's in the backpack which is
right over there you have to a tech
issues that we have every I'm not sure
check
um one thing you mentioned actually that
reminded me do you remember that
documentary we watched about all the
people who had won the lottery and where
their lives ended up like that's so
incredible because everyone always
thinks that money's going to solve all
the problems and then it's I think it
was called something like the Cur of
winning the lottery but I think the
truth is bad things always happen in our
lives um it's just people assume that if
you have money you can get rid of that
sort of things so when the bad things
happen you're like it's because I lost
you know won the money but the truth is
that may have already that may have
happened in a way actually think the
money did ruin their lives really yeah
because what's going on is they nothing
has changed for them internally one of
the nice things about um having to earn
your money is you're going to have to do
things to your mind in order to get
there
and um Jay samit talks about this and
disrupt you he said uh only 133% of
today's
billionaires inherited the money um all
the rest so the remaining what 70 87%
yeah 87% of people um had to do
something to their mind to become
capable of that level of performance um
in order to become a billionaire and so
in doing all of that like there's so
much internal reflection soul searching
all of that um and once you remove that
equation people don't know to deal with
relatives who then then come looking for
money they don't know how to manage
money so the money starts going very
quickly um and there's an overwhelming
sense of the fragility excuse me the
fragility of money in that like you you
know easy come easy go but they don't
want to go backwards and so there's a
sense of you know wanting to hold on to
it and how do you say no to somebody who
comes and asks um for money when you
just want it and it's somebody that you
know it's your family and so suddenly
you know you've got there's that great
line and the Eminem song suddenly I have
30 some cousins or you know whatever it
is and people just coming out of the
woodwork um looking for money and so I
think people have sort of this weird
feeling about it because they didn't do
anything to earn it and so it's like
well then what right do I have to it and
you just trigger some weird um
psychological things it's actually
really interesting yeah and then I don't
know I also have like I never played the
lottery even when we were dirt poor
because I felt that that said something
funny about me like I want to earn what
I get like like that was really
important to me um so yeah cuz it's
interesting cuz so many people go back
to well if I won the lottery so it's not
that
they they don't want the wealth it's
that maybe they just think it's not
accessible to them and so the only way
they can get wealthy is to win it versus
change your mindset work on something
that can bring value and kind of do it
through that way 100% And and that was
one of like I I don't mind and I have so
many people that I love play the lottery
and so I totally totally it's fun when
you do a scratch card and you win a
couple of bucks I actually don't I and I
your mother bless her I love her so much
beyond measure um always buys them for
Christmas and sometimes I don't even
scratch them oh you're breaking a heart
right now you realize and she watches
all the content so I'm saying this
knowing like D I love you so much
everyone else
appreciates your son-in-law yeah because
I don't like to win money um just a
thing all right so I've got a many good
questions a
so let's go with how much time do we
have all right so this might be a short
we could do a lightning round why don't
we all right Sophia Katherine wants to
know why are you doing things you don't
like Jesus 90% of my life is doing
things that I don't like in service of
my goals but why so I'm trying to
achieve my goals I do what my goals
demand whether I enjoy them or not all
right um Amber Jacobs speaking of
priorities how do you best assess
priorities for time management you know
this one scares me because I don't know
how to teach it to people so uh your
ability to assess what you need to do is
going to be the difference between you
being successful and not if you can't
see the things you need to do you're
really in trouble and I I will have to
think about that yeah I was going to say
because obviously that can be taught and
practiced and trained man I like to
think everything can be taught and
practiced even I sometimes feel like
it's Voodoo okay but let's say for
instance and I supposed to be short but
let's say for instance you sit in the
morning you go okay these are all the
things I need to do today how do you
then prioritize that day is it well
forget that ask the real question how do
I know those are the things that need to
be done right I yeah right so that
freaks me out so I'm very good at
understanding what my goal is working
backwards to those steps and I'm
surprised nobody's called me on it
before working backwards to those steps
feels like Voodoo so like and this is
one of the things in J samut's book like
he'll go he'll say stuff like he just
gives amazing examples of times where
it's like hey think like an entrepreneur
like let me give you an example of a
time where I did it I hit this obstacle
and here's what I realized and I was
like how the hell did you realize that
like so brilliant it is so brilliant but
I know better than to dismiss him and
say that he's extraordinary so there is
something going on I just I haven't
dissected it yet to figure out like
because I'm clearly going through some
sort of step by- step even if it's
happening below my conscious level like
I know that all the information that I'm
feeding it is playing in so okay how do
I decide like why did I watch Scott uh
not Scott Carlin he's an amazing human
being but not who I'm thinking of Dan
Carlin with um the Hardcore History like
why did I decide to listen to that but I
guarantee something he says in that
episode is going to come up later in a
Facebook live or in an it or in a
business meeting and I knew enough to go
outside my umelt but that was the
critical decision the critical decision
which the the what to do this morning is
going to be born from that I was smart
enough to go that I was not smart it's
not the right word I was strategic
enough to know hey I need to get outside
of my umelt don't just read things that
are in this universe like get outside of
it that's going to be the thing that
makes it clear what thing to do one day
like and as I'm processing this out loud
I'm beginning to sort of piece together
so without the spiraling out of control
um because we could do a whole episode
just on this you you really you really
have to um I'm going to have to figure
that out so I can teach people cuz I
think it's going to be an important part
but that's like the critical skill is
knowing what to
do so set goals most people don't do
that and then accurately be able to
assess what the steps are between you
and there right awesome all right
question from cnre hes Mark what is your
view on college now as there is such a
large amount of quality education online
for free that's a great question yeah I
don't think college is necessary at all
um and so colleg is is can be powerful
and there are certain degrees that are
still going to require it I will not go
see a doctor that didn't get a degree um
but I was thinking the other day like
why anyone becomes a doctor is totally
Beyond me uh you want to talk about a
system that just seems
broken um if I had to do it over again I
would not go to college but I loved it I
really enjoyed my time think you learn
any lessons from college that you
implement today of course I did tons but
the question is in those four years
knowing what I know now would I be
better off going to college or would I
be better off doing what I tell everyone
they should be doing which is the
second you can go to somebody who's
living the life you want to live and
give them the following speech right I'm
going to work harder and smarter than
anyone you've ever met for the next 90
days at the end of the 90 days if I
brought so much value to you that you
would rather pay me than lose me than
put me on payroll like that's what
people should do and it's either yes or
restraining order like that's it and
that always turns out is every time I
give the speech people then write to me
keep in mind there's only so many people
I can do that for so make sure make sure
that I'm the one that's living the life
that you want to lead uh before you
write me because first of all I think
I'm a little bit um I maybe harder on
people uh in that domain when people say
that they want to be me like I flip a
switch in my mind it's like you sure
because then then you have to work like
I work and most people just AR PR say
the brutal honesty that you tell
yourself and people aren't prepared to
oh people really aren't prepared for
that I've pissed a lot of people off
with that yeah me included sometimes
yeah but look no I mean that's actually
what I need to then get better so you
know I appreciate it just doesn't it
doesn't feel great in the moment yeah
yeah no I get it that's what you got to
do it's like working yeah let's do one
more Jared we got one more all right one
more this is from Laura defrain how do
you deal with Laura coming through this
is question two for Laura defrain oh wow
really every time I know because every
time I think of Andy do frin so be
discovers nice
nice Laura I'm really digging your
questions and a lot are coming through
so sorry if I've doubled up and haven't
I've left people out sorry guys um but I
really like this question Cool how do
you deal with people that you love
dearly but are determined to maintain a
fixed mindset I know you can't save
everyone but when it's a close friend
that you truly love what do you do and
the reason why I love this question so
much is every single person I'm sure
watching right now that wants to develop
their mindset has someone in their life
that they would love to just Shake awake
right um and we talk about this all the
time because we've got people in our
lives that we definitely want to shake
awake um but yeah so what are you what's
your advice CU obviously it's not a it's
not a cut and dry answer oh yes it is
every answer every answer is cut and dry
the all the world is binary and I hope
somebody throws that in my face the next
time I'm like waffling on in some like
abstract realm uh but all the world is
binary and if you're not thinking in
binary terms you're holding yourself
back um strong opinions loosely held I
think that's the quote I forget who said
it that oh it's so good I did not make
that up you have cuz I've said it so
many times but I probably said them to
you at times when you were um not happy
to hear that answer so but strong
opinions loosely held um here is the
truth compassion is the only answer so
do not try to save them do not try to
educate them you why because it's not
effective so the the reason I say
compassion is because it's effective
it's the only thing that you have any
hope of working in the longest of long
runs and in the short and medium and
even sort of near Long Term it's the
right thing to do to another human being
is to show them compassion and empathy
not sympathy I'm anti- sympathy but
compassion and
empathy love them love them where they
are let them be where they are it is not
your job to save them and the more you
try the more they will entrench you will
move yourself backwards you will not get
what you want out of the exchange it
will make them dislike you they won't
want to be around you their deep seated
lizard brain will begin to associate you
with pain so just stop you will just
push them trust me I've tried this is
this is one of those lessons I have
learned the hard way because I was
convinced and for a long time was just
preaching that that I could help anyone
anyone that anyone could be reached and
now while that may be true just cuz my
worldview forces me to acknowledge that
um the the amount of effort would be
catastrophic and so it just act as if
it's not possible don't waste your time
with it they won't like it and it won't
get you where you want to go so do
what's effective be compassionate love
them where they are and lead by example
and over a long enough time period maybe
they'll wake up yeah CU I think the one
thing people do is they so want someone
um to improve to they see an issue a
problem they so want them to get better
at it that sometimes almost causes
friction between the two people like if
you just listen like I'm really trying
to help you and then they end up almost
doing the opposite like you're trying to
help that person because you love them
and then you but heads and now you're
almost like and you've backed them into
a corner 100% you've backed them into a
corner where now for them to do what
you've suggested they would have to
admit that you've been right this whole
time which by definition sort of a fixed
mindset just isn't going to let them
whereas if they come to it on their own
and they just see your life getting
better and better and better and you're
loving them and you're being kind and
you're not judgmental and you're just
always warm and welcoming um and by the
way the only catch to all of this is
nine out of 10 people with a fixed
mindset nine out of 10 you got to cut
them out of your life you just can't be
around it so but there are people and we
can all think of who that might be in
your life you're just never going to cut
out um and so and those are the people
that you show compassion to and look
show compassion to everybody like
nobody's trying to be in a fixed mindset
they're scared
so accept that that they're there and
have empathy for them being stuck and
and you know just acknowledge that that
you should be grateful that you're
not awesome all right with that I think
we have to bid you all Ado guys thank
you so much for joining us for this
episode of Facebook live Q&A thank you
to Lisa for filling in for Cindy which I
really really appreciate it was awesome
um and I am I am admittedly trying to
get Lisa to uh come in front of the
camera more and more and for those of
you don't know she's weeks mere weeks
away from launching her own podcast and
I know some of you are going to hear
this uh when that podcast is live her
co-host is somebody big and amazing that
is a dear friend of Lisa and has been a
friend for a very long time we're not
saying who it is now cuz don't want to
seem like we're trying to um leverage
them but it's just it's super super
exciting what you guys are doing I'm
super amped up about it uh it's going to
be a lot of fun female empowerment is at
the core of it uh it's going to be
awesome so if you want more of this
amazing woman uh soon my friends soon
and until then we'll keep plucking her
in for fun stuff like this thank you for
the awesome questions guys amazing
really cool yeah always always
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