John Danaher: The Path to Mastery in Jiu Jitsu, Grappling, Judo, and MMA | Lex Fridman Podcast #182
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Kind: captions Language: en the following is a conversation with john donahue widely acknowledged as one of the greatest coaches and minds in the martial arts world having coached many champions in jiu jitsu submission grappling and mma including gordon ryan gary tonin nick rodriguez craig jones nikki ryan chris weidman and george saint-pierre quick mention of our sponsors onnet simply safe indeed and lynnode check them out in the description to support this podcast as a side note let me say that john is a scholar of not just jiu jitsu but judo wrestling muay thai boxing mma and outside of that topics of history psychology philosophy and even artificial intelligence as you'll hear in this conversation after this chat i started to entertain the possibility of returning back to competition as a black belt maybe even training with john and his team for a few weeks leading up to the competition for a recreational practitioner such as myself the value of training and competing in jiu jitsu is that it is one of the best ways to get humbled to me keeping the ego in check is essential for a productive and happy life this is the lex friedman podcast and here is my conversation with john donahue are you afraid of death let's start with an easy question there's no warm-up that's it they're jumping jacks let's uh let's break that down into two questions um i'm a human being and like any human being i'm biologically programmed to be terrified of death every physical element in our bodies is designed to keep us away from death i'm no different from anyone else in that regard if you throw me from the top of the entire state building i'm gonna scream all the way down to the concrete um if you wave a loaded firearm in my face i'm gonna flinch away in horror the same way anyone else would um so in that first sense of are you afraid of death uh my my body is terrified of injury leading to death the same way in any other human being would so when death is imminent there's a terror that goes through the same adrenaline dumps that you would go through um uh but on the other hand you're also asking a much deeper question which is presumably are you afraid of non-existence what comes after your physical death and that's the more interesting question um no uh i should start right uh by by by scene from from the start i i'm a materialist i don't believe that we have an immortal soul i don't believe there's a life after our physical death um in this sense from someone who starts from that point of view you have to understand that everyone has two deaths we always talk about our death as though there was only one but we all have two deaths there was a time before you were born when you were dead you weren't afraid of that period of non-existence you don't even think about it so why would you be afraid of your second period of non-existence you came from non-existence you're going to go back into it you weren't afraid of the first why are you somehow afraid of the second so it doesn't really make sense to me as to why people would be afraid of non-existence you dealt with it fine the first time um deal with it the second time but your mind didn't exist for the first death and it won't exist after you die either but it does exist now enough to comprehend that there's this thing that you know nothing about that's coming which is non-existent actually you do know about it because you know what it was like before you were born there was just nothing every every every time you go to sleep at night you get a sneak preview of death it's just this kind of nothing happens you wake up in the morning you're alive again but it's not about the sleeping it's about the falling asleep and every night when you fall asleep you assume you're going to wake up here you know you're not waking up and the knowledge is a whole step from that to the idea of fearing it i'm fully aware that there's going to be a time i don't wake up but are you going to be afraid of it is there some mortal terror you have of this no you didn't have it before you don't have it when you sleep um going from the fact that you know you won't wake up to terror is two different things that's an extra step and at that point you're making a choice at that at that point what about what some people in our in this context we might call like the third death which is when um everybody forgets the entirety of consciousness in the universe forgets that you've ever existed that john donahue ever existed so it's almost like a cosmic death it's like everything goes yeah not not just i would say it's like knowledge the history books forget about who you are because the history books this is inevitable by the way we're all very very small players in a very big game and inevitably we're all going to go at some point yeah but doesn't so you're it's it's disappointing of course like it's um but but it's not even it would be arrogance to say um i'm disappointed in the idea that i will disappear but there's this far greater things than me that will disappear i mean it it's crushing to think that there's going to come a time when no one will ever hear beethoven's symphonies again that the mysteries of the pharaohs will be lost and no one will even comprehend they once existed like humanity has come up with so many amazing things over its existence and to think that one day this is just all happening on a tiny speck in a distant corner of a very small galaxy and among millions of galaxies that this is all for nothing okay i can understand there's a kind of dread that comes with this um uh but there's also a sense in which the moment you're born and the moment you can think about these things you know this is your inevitable fate is it so inevitable so if we look at we're in austin and there's a guy named elon musk and he's hoping in fact that is the drive behind many of his passions is the human beings becoming multi-planetary species and expanding out exploring and colonizing the solar system the galaxy and maybe the rest of the universe is that something that fills you with excitement uh it's as a project it's very exciting i um the whole i mean we all grew up with science fiction the idea of exploration the same way uh human beings in earlier centuries were thrilled with the idea of discovering a new world you know america or some other part of the world that they sailed to and come back but now instead of sailing oceans you're sailing solar systems and ultimately even further um so of course that's exciting but as far as relieving us from non-existence it's just plain a delaying game because ultimately even the universe itself if the laws of thermodynamics are correct will ultimately die of course we might not understand most of the physics and how the universe functions you said laws of thermodynamics but maybe that's just a tiny little fraction of what the universe actually is maybe there's multiple dimensions maybe maybe there's multiple universes maybe the entirety of this experience you know there's guys like donald hoffman i think that all of this is just an illusion that we don't like human cognition and perception constructs a whole it's like a video game it would construct that's very distant from the actual reality and maybe one day we'll understand that reality maybe it'll be like the matrix kind of thing so there's a lot of different possibilities here and there's also philosopher named ernest becker i don't know if you know that is he wrote denial of death and his idea he disagrees with you but he's dead now is is that he thinks that the terror of death the terror of the knowledge that we're going to die is within all of us and is in fact the driver behind most of the creativity that we do exploring out into the universe but also you becoming one of the great scholars of the martial arts the philosophers of fighting is because you're actually terrified of death and you want you want to somehow permeate like your knowledge your ideas your essence to permeate human civilization so that even when your body dies you live on i would agree with him and so far as uh death is the single greatest motivator for action but going beyond that and saying it's somehow terrifying that's that's an extra step on his part um and not everyone's going to follow him on that step i do believe that death is the single most important element in life that gives value to our days if you think for example of a situation where a god came to you and gave you immortality life would be very very different for you uh you're a talented research scientist you work to a schedule why because ultimately you know your life is finite and actually very finite and could be even more so if fate plays its hand and you die an early death or what have you we never know what's going to happen tomorrow as such we get work done as soon as we can the moment you gain immortality you can always put every project off you can always say i don't need to do this today because i can do it four centuries from now and as you extend artificially a human life the motivation to get things done here and now and work industriously and and excel fades away because you can always come back to the idea that you can do this in the future and so what gives value to our days is ultimately death and value it's not the only form of the reason behind value but a huge part of what we consider value is scarcity and death gives us scarcity of days and is probably the single greatest motivator for almost every action we partake in it's kind of tragic and beautiful that what what makes things amazing is that they end yeah i think it would actually be a terrible burden to be immortal you would um life would be in many ways very hollow and meaningless i think people talk about death taking away the meaning of life but i think immortality would have a very similar effect in a different direction so given this short life we could think about jiu jitsu we can think about any kind of pursuit what do you think makes a great life is it the highest peak of achievement you know you think about like an olympic gold medal the highest level of performance or is it the longevity of performance of doing many amazing things and doing it for a long time i think the latter is kind of what we talk about in at least american society you know we want people to be healthy balanced perform well for a long time and then there's maybe like the gladiator ethic which is the highest peak is what defines you asked an initial question which what makes a great life but then pointed towards two options one of longevity versus are there a degree of difficulty there's got to be a lot more than that shortly i mean think about um first of all we have to understand from the start there's never going to be an agreed-upon set of criteria for this is a great life from all perspective uh if you look from the perspective of say machiavelli then stalin lived a great life he was highly successful at what he did he started from nothing so the degree of difficulty and what he did was extraordinarily high he had massive impact upon world history he oversaw the defeat of almost all of his major enemies he lived to old age and died of natural causes so from machiavelli's point of view he had a great life if you ask the ukrainian farmer in the 1930s whether he lived a great life you get a very different answer so everything's going to come from what perspective you you begin with this you're going to look out at the world with a given point of view and you're going to make your judgments was this a great life or was this a terrible life um going back to your point you were actually i think focusing the question on on more in terms of uh great single performances versus longevity performances yes presumably this isn't really a question about uh what makes a great life then because there's so much more than that to a great life i don't know i'm going to push back on that so i think their parallels are very much closer than you're making them seem i think let's compare stalin stalin is an example of somebody who held power considered by many to be one of the most powerful men ever he held power for 30 years so that's what i'm referring to longevity and then there's a few people i have to i wish my knowledge of history was better but people who fought a few great battles and they did not maintain power but that's this contrast here for example alexander the great yes who died at 33 um from probably unnatural causes um uh had around four to five truly defining battles in his life which uh responsible for the for the lion's share of of his achievements and burned very bright but didn't burn long um stalin on the other hand started from nothing and quietly methodically worked his way through the revolutionary phase and uh gained increasing amounts of power and as he said um went all the way to the end of her uh of his career um yeah there's there's definitely something to be said for for longevity um but as to which one is greater than the other you can't give a a definition or um a set of criteria which will definitively say this is better than that but when you look ultimately we look at alexander as great but in a different way and we look at stalin i didn't think many people would say sam was a great person but from the machiavellian point of view he would say he was great also but when you think about beautiful creations done by human beings in the space of say martial arts in the space of sport what inspires you the peak of performance i i see where you're coming from like it's a great question um for me it always comes down to degree of difficulty but things are difficult in different ways okay um a single flawless performance in youth is still that wins a gold medal let's say for example um uh nadia komenichi won the olympic gold medal in gymnastics the first person ever to get a perfect score um if she had disappeared after that we would still remember that as an incredible moment and the degree of difficulty to to get a perfect score in olympic gymnastics is just off the charts um and contrast that with someone who went to four olympics and got four silver medals i mean they're both incredible achievements they're just different the the attributes that lead to longevity um typically tend to conflict with the attributes that bring a powerful single performance one is all about focus on on a particular event the other is uh on spreading your resources over time both that present tremendous difficulties there's no need to say one is better than the other there's also just for me personally the stories of the of somebody who truly struggled are are the most powerful i know a bunch of people don't necessarily agree because you said perfection perfection is kind of the antithesis of struggle but i look at somebody okay my own life somebody i i'm a fan oh i'm a fan of everybody i'm a huge fan of yours i'm trying not to be nervous here but uh somebody i'm a fan of in the judo world is travis stevens he's a remarkable fella by the way a remarkable human being insane in the best kinds of ways i think i started judo i i really started martial arts i have wrestled if you consider those martial arts that's my that's been in my blood i'm russian so but beyond that you know the the whole pajama thing we wear the ghee i started by watching travis in 2008 olympics was that accidental did you know travis prior to watching no no i just tuned in now that's an unusual choice it was just random you just tuned in and you saw travis stevens i tuned into the olympics and i was wondering what judo is and then s i started watch we're we're all proud of our countries and so on so i started watching he was i think the only american in the olympics for judo uh maybe the so this kayla harrison was 2012. and ronda was there too so i watched rhonda and travis but obviously sort of i was i was focused on somebody who also weighed the same as i did so there was a kind of i think 81 kilograms so there's a connection but also there's an intensity to him like he would get like angry at his own failures and he would just refuse to quit it's that kind of dan gable mentality i just that was inspiring to me that he's the underdog and the way people talk about him the commentators that it was an unlikely person to do well right and i they the fu attitude behind that saying no i'm gonna still win gold obviously he didn't do well in 2008 but that was the that was somehow inspiring and i just remember he pulled me in but then i started to see this sport i guess you can call it of effortlessly dominating your opponent and like throwing because i in to me wrestling was like a grind you kind of control you slowly just break your opponent the idea that you could with like a foot sweep was fascinating to me that just because of timing you can take these like monsters giant people like incredible athletes and just smash them with it it just doesn't there was no struggle to it it was always like a look of surprise judo dominance in judo has a look like the other person is like what what just happened yes this is very different from wrestling it's built into the rule structure too the whole idea of an epon of a match being over in an instant and um that creates a a thrilling spectator sport because you can as you say with usherwise or the footsweeps you can take someone out who's heavily favored and if you're not judo is the most unforgiving of all the grappling sports you can if you have a lapse of concentration for half a second it's done it's over um if those guys get a grip on each other any one of them can throw the other the the idea you know uh when you see someone like um nomura who won three olympic gold medals to to win across three olympics and that's an incredible achievement given how many ways there are to lose in the standing position in judo and how unforgiving it is as a sport it shows an incredible level of dominance i think when i was i was also introduced at that time to the idea jessica judo i think in jiu-jitsu is the same a lot of sports is probably the same is there's ways to win that include kind of um if i were to use a bad term stalling which is like use strategy to slow down to destroy all the weapons your opponent has and just to wait it out to sort of break your opponent by yeah shutting down all their weapons but not using any of your own yes and now travis was always going for he's off of course really good at gripping and con to that whole game but he was going for the big throws and he was almost getting frustrated uh by a lot of the opponents i remember uh ola bishop i think yes uh from germany from germany very talented very incredible i know he's very good at doing big throws and he's incredible judoka but he was also incredible at just frustrating his opponents with like gripping and strategy and so on and i just remember feeling the pain of this person like travis who went through just he broke like every part of his body he went through so many injuries just this person who dedicated his entire life to this moment in 2008 and then 2012 and in 2016 just ever gave everything you could see it on his face that you know his weapons are being shut down and he's still pushing forward he's still with that both the frustration and the power i mean the the the kind of throw he does is the his his main one i think is the standing was called tsunagi keep on saying i can hit pause that was that was the other thing is like the techniques he used was the these big throws that there's something to me about the synagogue i fell in love with that throw uh that's my become my main throw standing sanagi that is like why do why do you favor the standing variation because of the amplitude you get a more powerful yeah power it's like are you a fan of koga yes that's so that's why travis so koga and travis opened up my uh travis uses the same gripping patterns for saying i guess all the same and the way he uses his hips and turns and i remember like going to my judo club and other judo clubs and ask and they're all saying this is the wrong way to do it the way travis does is the wrong way to do it and i remember like i've always been amazed by this by the way i don't mean to cut you off but i i could literally fill 20 hours of reproductions of people who will tell me that either my students or other great world champions um are doing things wrong yeah and i'm i'm looking at them and i'm like who would i rather trust here in in their judgment koga who was one of the greatest throwers of all time or you [Laughter] a recreational guy who couldn't throw my grandmother yes um uh i'm supposed to take your word over his well say don't listen to what people say i'm going to give you a piece of advice here watch what the best people do okay that's how you get superior athletic performance i'm going to say that again don't listen to what people say watch what they do particularly under the stress of high level competition because that's when you see their real game what they really do under pressure okay and if you can emulate that you're going to be very successful i guess what i was frustrated with to your point is that the argument against koga is what he has a very specific body type and he figured out something that worked for him thus the statement is that might not be applicable to you or to the general public of of uh judo players that want to succeed that by the way at the shallow level might be true might be true the point is there might be a body of knowledge that's yet to be discovered and explored that koga opened up that i wanted to understand why his technique worked it made no sense to me that with a single foot like the way you turn the hip the single foot that steps in why does that work because it was actually very difficult to make work uh for me as a white belt in the very beginning it doesn't make sense like people just they don't they don't get loaded up onto your hip anyway for people don't watch koga highlights watch travis stevens highlights but the the the details of the technique don't make sense but when mastered that it feels like there's something fundamental there that hasn't been explored yet it's like koga and travis made me think that we don't know most of the body mechanics involved in dominance in judo like we just kind of found a few pockets that work really well the ichimoda there's these different throws also i wonder if there's like totally cool new things that we haven't discovered and that's saying i gave a little peek because there's very few people that i'm aware of that do it the way travis and koga did may i ask you a question yes um the choice of standing sanagi um i i should uh say this for you for your listeners they're probably thinking what the hell are these two guys talking about um uh sanagi is one of the more high percentage throws in the olympic sport of judah um probably uh uchimata is probably number one and variations of sanagi would be in the top five for sure um the basic choice you have in modern competition is the more difficult standing where you literally are up on your feet and you perform a shoulder throw that takes your opponent over from a full standing position the most popular form of synagi and modern competition by a landslide is not the standing version it's a drop saying argue where you go down to your knees um this means you have a much easier time getting underneath your opponent's center of gravity the defining feature of any synagogue is getting underneath your opponent's center of gravity and lifting them that ceo literally means to to lift and carry why did you choose the more difficult version what was your motivation you know you're a smart kid you know right from the start that for every standing sanagi there's 20 drops and argues in modern competition one is obviously more high percentage one obviously works for a wider variety of body types uh the number of people who are successful with standing sanagi is dramatically lower and it appears to be a move which is completely absent in the heavyweight divisions and rarely seen in the lightweight divisions why what was the motivation why did you willingly adopt the less high percentage over the this would be very interesting percentage i i i i would love you to break it apart because um i apply the same kind of thinking to basically everything i mentioned you offline there's these boston dynamics spot robots when i first met spot i found love i don't understand what exactly but there's magic there and i just got excited by it and that met that fire burns i want to work these robots i want to work with robots i want to i felt like there's something special there that i could build something interesting with create something interesting with and the same with with the same standing sanagi from koga and travis i just fell in love with that technique just even watching i didn't even know what the hell to do with it was it aesthetic it's the standing scene i guess more beautiful in execution there's no engine in in my own let's we're talking about love here right in my own definition of aesthetic yes it's not just beauty because you could argue there's more elegance sort of ichimata is very beautiful and effortless i love i love something about the dominance of it i love the idea in sport of two people that are the best in the world and one of them dominating the other and uh to me the standing say nagi you're lifted off your feet and especially when it's done perfectly and with really strong resistance from the other person it results in a big slam and that was like beautiful to me that's the uh alexander carell and like big pickups i love that it's interesting though it's you're correct and so far as you you're not just going with aesthetic and the sense of beauty but also but you are making uh as it were value judgments yes about the throw and that's fascinating to me um because there's two elements to any grappling sport i've always i'm always um insistent upon the idea that jujitsu is both an art and a science okay it has scientific elements insofar as it works according to the laws of physics and lever and fulcrum et cetera et cetera um but it also has an aesthetic element and so far as you're making choices with technique you're expressing who you are as a person you have 10 000 different variations of moves you could use but you're specifically choosing these that's an element of choice and self-expression on your part and insofar as that is true combat sports are not just a size but they're also an art so most combat sports have this sense which they have the features of both an art and a science and um it's not just about high percentage in in your case i mean me personally i'm obsessed with percentages what what are the ways to make signs yeah but that's also choices involved yeah but um but there is an undeniably aesthetic element to martial arts where you as it were express who you are as a person in terms of the techniques you're ultimately going to choose does that get in the way do you allow yourself to enjoy the aesthetic beauty of a technique of course yeah when i when martial arts have done well it's the most beautiful sport in the world okay when it's done poorly it's the ugliest but but a beautifully applied submission holder perfect throw a a superbly set up takedown are among the most difficult techniques to execute in all of sports and when they're done well they're magic to observe but do you uh prefer certain techniques over others because of their like for example i'll tell you for me chokes of all sorts with the ghee without the ghee probably with the geese the most beautiful to me personally i i value them above all others um people mostly associate myself and my students with leg locking they're usually rather surprised to learn that i actually value strangleholds far above leg logs um but not for aesthetic reasons for effectiveness we can talk about that later a few wish well let's step back sorry we drifted awfully far off topic man this is with i think this is beautiful uh we're drifting along the river of uh life and martial arts can you explain the fundamentals of jiu jitsu yes if i couldn't i wouldn't be much of a coach um jiu-jitsu is an art and science which looks to use a combination of tactical and mechanical advantage to focus a very high percentage of my strength against a very low percentage of my opponent's strength at a critical point on their body such that if i were to exert my strength upon that critical point they could no longer continue to fight well that's about weapons and defenses but then is there something more to be said about the set of tools that are that we're talking about that's where the art comes in because ultimately you have a set of choices and those choices that you make will be an act of self-expression on your part some will prefer this some will prefer that that's where you come in as an individual that's an overall definition of jiu jitsu of being a set of choices that where you're using the things you're powerful in versus the things your opponent is weak in no i was only talking about percentages of body strength if i have for example let's say um we have two athletes athlete a and athlete b athlete a has 100 units of strength however we define that overall athlete b has 50. okay so ostensibly athlete a is twice as strong as athlete b but athlete b can maneuver his body into a set of positions focused around a critical point of his opponent's body where he can apply 40 units of strength out of his total of 50. his opponent can only defend with 20 units of strength out of his total of 100 you have now completely reversed the strength discrepancy originally athlete a was twice as strong as b now on that one localized point the knee the elbow the neck b is now twice as strong as a under those circumstances b should win i guess what i'm trying to get at by the way that's really beautifully said is what you just said could be applied to other games other battles it could be applied to the game of chess uh it could be applied to war most obviously in war i think about for example um the american strategic bombing campaign in world war ii the eighth army air force was tasked with the idea of destroying german industry did they attack all of german industry of course not that would be stupid they attacked the ball bearing industry why because almost all of modern machines require ball bearings in order to operate in order for the mechanical interfaces of machines to operate you have to reduce friction it's done through ball bearings if you knocked out one tiny component of german industry the ball bearing industry the rest of it couldn't operate so too with the human body i didn't have to fight your whole body i just have to fight your left knee if i can break your left knee the rest of your body is irrelevant to me but then isn't the art of jiu jitsu discovering the the left knee the discovering the weak points you know a huge part of jiu-jitsu is understanding the weak strengths and weaknesses of the human body there's parts of the human body that are shockingly robust and there are other parts that are shockingly vulnerable the major joints and of course the most vulnerable of all the unprotected neck so if we take the something i'm not familiar with but i was incredibly impressed by is the body lock that i saw um nick rodriguez nick rodriguez used last time a few weeks ago but then i also got to hang out with craig jones who also has a very good body loan so that that was uh i don't know if this body lock applies to all positions but i was seeing it from when craig is uh on top of your opponent and trying to pass the go or passing the guard use the body lock as a controlling position the the principle behind it is that it shuts down as you've spoken about it shuts down the weapons of a very strong opponent that's absolutely correct in the case of um guard possession what makes god position dangerous what makes someone a powerful guard player is the movement of their hips forward and backward and side to side body locking is designed to shut down that movement and does a very fine job of it you'll see all of my students accelerate gordon ryan is probably the single best body dog guard passer i've ever seen nikki ryan is outstanding with it nick rodriguez is very good craig jones is outstanding all of my students use this for a very simple reason understand what is the central problem of shutting down a dangerous guard player it's his hips that's what makes him a dangerous leg locker you go up against a dangerous leg lock him body lock guard pass single best way to shut down most of his entries um we're all strong in leglogs so in our gym you gotta control the hips as soon as possible these can otherwise can be a very difficult thing to avoid leg entanglements as you go to parts and across the board my students excel in in uh in body lock guard passing they understand what's the most dangerous feature their opponent has the lateral movement of their hips what's the single best way to stop that body lock and then work from there so if this asymmetry of power is fundamental to jiu jitsu how do you discover that how do you how did you discover the body life that as a as one of many methodologies of achieving this asymmetry um it would be an overstatement to say we discovered the body line right body law passing has been around longer than we've been around um but what i would say is that in a room full of dangerous leg lockers you've got to have a way to shut down the hips and so once we started using body locks we saw that was one excellent way to get around that problem as with all development it comes from trial and error you will often see people teach the technique to a certain level and you see the teaching you know there's a lot of inadequacies there and that doesn't cover a lot of the problems that we're encountering and so trial and error is the single most important part of the development trial and error in um in the training room amongst ourselves in in hard training or no it never begins with hard training or everything techniques are born the same way we're born weak and in need of nutrition uh you have to like this build them up organically like children and you start with minimal resistance and you make progress over time when you first go to the gym do you put 500 pounds on the bench press and try to bench press it no you'll be killed you start off with the bar you build over time and then one day five years from now perhaps you really are lifting 500 pounds but only a four would attempt that on their first attempt and they're born like children in your mind first like uh there's a spark of another one it's like scientific development on a subject matter which is intrinsically simpler okay there's a sense in which naive and overly simplistic assessments of scientific method may not work well at advanced levels of science but they work damn well in the training room with jiu-jitsu whether the subject matter is inherently simpler than it is in research science and as a result there'll be a spark you'll see something right and there's possibilities there okay let's let's puzzle this out let's work with this and uh you run into a lot of failures this you know you've suddenly been oh man if i put my hip this way this works really well then suddenly you try and spare and you get caught in a simple alma plata and you know okay that didn't work as well as i thought and then you look to rectify things if things go on promising research directions you keep them if not you discard them well it's funny you say science it feels like more like art there's somebody i really admire that talks about this kind of ideas johnny i from apple he's the lead designer he recently left but he was the designer behind most of the products we know and loved from apple and when you say designer be more precise what exactly was he was he working on in apple the iphone which which parts of the iphone did he would like the entirety of it was he a leader of a research team or was he the person personally responsible for their development he's kind of i would say very similar to your position he wasn't necessarily the last the person executing the fine the manufacturer right yeah of course but there's the uh he's somebody that's very hands-on and it's it's like okay so he worked obviously extremely close to steve jobs steve jobs has this idea we should have a computer that's as thin as a sheet of paper and then you start to play with ideas of like what does that actually look like the reason i bring it up is because he talked about he had these ideas that he would not tell steve because he he talked about in the same exact language as you're saying is there's like like a little baby that it's very fragile it it needs time to grow absolutely and then steve jobs would often roll in was too ruthless you're too ruthless this is he would destroy ideas because uh johnny ive and the team didn't have actually good responses to the criticism at first because when they're babies you can't defend the baby uh but you needed time to develop you need to sleep on it you need to rethink it to do dream things and all those kinds of things it's fascinating you say this lex because this is actually the entire history of scientific development is literally the story of the juxtaposition between the need to protect and nurture new theories versus the need to rigorously test them with with harsh testing that either verifies them or falsifies them and learning to find a satisfactory compromise between those two is a very very difficult thing when you look at the history of science you will see that there's some pretty damn chaotic moments anytime there's major theory change where all kinds of apparently um uh undesirable tricks they use to protect certain theories with ad hoc hypotheses etc etc and uh and ultimately only time and success over time will justify a theory there's usually a period where when one theory goes in to replace another there's something of a battle between competing uh groups of scientists some of whom advocate theory a some who advocate theory b they often use seemingly unscrupulous methods to protect or attack another person's theory they dig for proofs and usually some period of time has to go by sometimes in some cases it simply involved older scientists protecting an initial theory dying off and new scientists just replacing them with numbers and this is a common common theme and the same applies in jujitsu you know so many times especially when i first started working with leglocks i would show things i had worked on to even world champion black belts they would try it once or twice and fail be like it doesn't work and we're like you tried it once on it on another guy who's also a world champion who has a strong ability to resist it and that's it no more it doesn't work and then uh five years later they would see my students finishing world champions with it and in some cases finishing the very people who said that the technique would never work i mean if there was ever a refutation of a statement that that's a pretty clear example um and there has to be a sense in which you you can't be too forgiving you have to test hypotheses but on the other hand you can't be too ruthless either you have to look for uh promise and and uh my advice is start slow like again the analogy of lifting weights you don't lift the heaviest weights on your first day you build up you work progressively over time um now you also have to have some common sense here you can't be too forgiving to a technique if it's repeatedly failing then and good people have tried it and multiple good people have tried and it's just not working out then okay it's time to dismiss it but don't be too quick you know is this where your idea of uh training with lower belts yeah quite a bit comes from yeah i've actually just as a side comment and maybe you can elaborate i the the place the gym uh balance studios with the phil and rick mcglarees where i got my black belt where i grew up as a jiu jitsu person in philadelphia they have a huge number of black belts but they have a huge number of all other ranks and the way they picked sparring partners people you train with is very ad hoc it's very loose it's very one of those places one of those gyms where you can just kind of you can train for like three four hours and it's great you could take a break or you could jump back in very informal yeah and you can go to war with black belts but then you can also play around with the purple and the blue belts and so on excellent and that was really beneficial for growth and you know you can pick which because everybody has a style you can pick which style you really want to work on right and then i came to um uh boston broadway jiu jitsu with john clark who i love he's a good friend but you know the it's a little bit more formal and i found myself it's a very interesting journey if i would be training with black belts the whole time and uh it was a very different experience i found myself exploring much less i found myself learning much less i mean part of that is on my on me but part of it was also realizing that uh wow there's a value to training with people that are much worse than you yes is there is there a philosophy you could speak to on that yeah um you probably know it already um you know from your studies and artificial intelligence that all human beings are naturally risk-averse this is a bias which is deeply seated in in all of us i'm sure you're you're well read on people like duversky and etc who talk about this all the time for your viewers uh there are numerous psychological experiments that have shown that most people to the point of irrationality fear loss more than they are excited at the prospect of an equivalent gain so for example if you have a hundred dollars in your wallet you're more worried about the idea of losing the hundred dollars that you have now then you would be excited by the prospect of gaining a hundred dollars that i could potentially offer you um this comes out whenever you get black belt versus black belt confrontations or any kind of similar um skill level whenever you get similar skill levels the chances of defeat get very very high interestingly if you're a white belt and you're going against a black belt you'll take risks why because there's no shame in losing to a black belt when you're a white ball so you'll you'll play more light-heartedly and you'll you'll have a more fun role but when you have very similar skill levels you're going to come back to what the techniques that are most likely to get you a win that number of techniques is usually pretty small and if you're always battling with the same tough opponents every day where if you make even a single error it will cost you that match in sparring and you don't like losing you're going to stay with a very small set of moves you might get slightly better at their execution over time but you as an individual will not grow growth as it does in organic life forms comes from small beginnings and builds over time you can't take an untested untried move and get it on a world champion black belt it's going to get crushed so it's not ready for that it's like a a lion cub being thrown out into the serengeti plains the lion cub is just too small and too ineffective it's a lion but it's a cub and it's not until it grows into maturity that it can be a line that can dominate the serengeti plains why i always encourage my students to play with a variety of belt types um and spend the majority of their time with lesser belts for development purposes when you're getting closer to a competition you obviously want to change that you want to be getting more a competitive sense of of hard work but you must learn to divide up your training cycles into non-competition cycles where you're presumably working with people who are slightly lower in leveling yourself and in some cases quite a bit lower than yourself and then competition cycles where you're working with people much closer to your own skill level is there something to be said about the the flip side of that which is um when you're training with people at the same skill level being okay losing to them yes you have to see training for what it is training is about skill development not about winning or losing you've got to you've got to understand that you don't need to win every battle you only need to win the battles that count and the the battles that count are in the world championship finals okay that's the one that counts think about that win okay that's the one you're going to be remembered for you're not going to be remembered for the battle you lost on tuesday afternoon at 3 p.m and some nameless gym with some guys that no one cares about no one's going to remember that you're going to be remembered for your peak performances not your everyday performances focus your everyday performances on skill development so that your peak performances you can focus on winning you know i just this is not a therapy session but if i could just speak every session is a therapy session there is still an ape thing in there of course you think i don't feel it you think everyone in the room doesn't feel it because for example you haven't never seen me roll uh you know when there's people you know i've seen the look in people's eyes when they see me train and they i could see maybe it's me projecting but they think i thought you were supposed to be good i thought you're supposed to be a black belt like that look they're like i'm gonna give you some therapy okay do you know how many people have come up to me over the years who have visited the training halls that i work in and they come up to me and go man i rolled with gary tonan i did really well with him like like really well really wrong i'm like oh that's very very good very impressive and then i see them talking to their friends like man i tapped out gary toner and i'm i'm sitting there going yeah and you can see that they're just like wow dude i'm i'm way better than i thought i was gary tonin all of my students um i pushed him in the direction of of giving up bad positions so that they practice working getting out of critical situations is a huge part of our training program but gary tonan takes that to a level that just no one else even gets close it's it's just amazing like he will put himself in impossible situations where it's a fully locked strangle a hundred percent on with both his arms behind his back and he'll try to work out from there yeah and seven times out of ten he does but three times out of ten he gets caught he i'm a huge advocate of handicapped training where you handicap yourself to work on skills he's took that to heart to a level that few people i believe can match i just wonder what his psychology is like because it goes back to what we talked about four legs you have to understand its skill development don't take it personally um i understand i hear where you're coming from we've all got what you call the ape reflex where we want to be dominant okay we all do like because there's thousands of white belts out there that have tabbed gary tonin yeah and they're walking around and they're people saying online dude i tap gary tonan like gary tonan's like one of the best in the world so i'm one of the best in the world and um uh does gary get upset about this no of course not because gary knows that when it counts on stage he's going to be going 100 with a set of skills that very few people can match um he can go into an ebi overtime at the 205 pound weight division against an adcc champion starting in a full arm lock position and effortlessly get out with no problems in seconds because he's been in that situation 25 000 times with varying degrees of skill opponents and there's just no panic no fear he's just doing what he's done so many thousands of times and that's a fine fine example of a guy who didn't give a damn what happened in the training room but when it counted on the stage in front of the cameras it it kicked in yeah he's he's an incredible inspiration actually uh this he's a practitioner something you've recently talked quite a bit about which is uh the power of escaping sort of bad positions uh i think you've talked about it which is really interesting framing is uh escaping bad positions is one of the best ways if not the best way to demonstrate dominance psychologically over your opponent that anything they throw at you like their weapons are useless against you um there's a little bit of legs friedman kicking through on this question your obsession with dominance is um uh it's a therapy session it's a therapy session i'm coming from a wrestling perspective i think it's not just lex friedman i think it's dan gable i think it's dominant the gary tonan ethic it just goes against everything wrestling is about you never put yourself in a bad position and the fact this it's uh philosophically i don't know what to do with it it's a total reframing of showing dominance by escaping any bad position yeah let's talk about the idea of what what what is the value of escapes why do i put this in as as the first skill that every jdc student must master um believe it or not uh when i talked about how it pertains to dominance that's its smallest value its greatest value has nothing to do with dominance it has to do with confidence you can train someone and teach them technique until you're blue in the face but at some point the athlete in question has to go out there on the stage and pull the trigger when the time is right what's going to give you that ability to
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