Kiat Bersabar #4 - Bersabar dapat Membuat Hati Bersih [EN-ID Sub] - Ustadz Dr. Firanda Andirja, M.A.
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Kind: captions Language: en أن يشهد أنه إذا عفا وأحسن أورثه ذلك من سلامة القلب لإخوانه ونقائه من الغش والغل وطلب الانتقام وإرادة الشر وحصل له من حلاوة العفو ما يزيد لذته منفعته عاجلاً وآجلا على المنفعة الحاصلة له بالانتقام أضعافًا مضاعفة Syeikh Islam Ibn Tayyimiyah said One shall realizes the fact that when he forgives and reacts well, it causes him to have open heartednes and cleanses his heart from intending evil from seeking retaliation This is an extraordinary delight It is true that one might be satisfied by retaliation Aren't you satisfied when you retaliate? There is this delight One says that you are a pig You replied, You are a pig So, after you retaliate, you are satisfied One says you are a liar, you tell him that he is too, you are satisfied There is satisfaction, there is delight But Ibnu Tayyimiyyah rahimahullah said If you forgive, the sweetness of pardoning is more than that of retaliation More than the delight of retaliation Although you are satisfied after retaliating There is more sweetness in pardoning Your heart is calmer Nothing in your mind good sleep You are busy with your wife and kids ignoring what other say Our heart is small When one is about to sleep and remembering his problems How insolent So-so is How insolent the Ustaz is, he made fun of me in front of the forum How insulent the Ustaz is, he said that I was a liar Eventually, sometimes he has problems with his parents How insolent my mother is How insolent my father is Quarrels with siblings How insolent he is He remembers this while he's about to sleep, when will he sleep? When he wakes up, he'll have stroke uric acid at the least Therefore, my fellow Muslims, may Allah bless you If he forgives, there is nothing else He can sleep, nothing to think about Wouldn't he feel in peace? Wouldn't he be feel fresh waking up in the morning? When one says So-so is saying things about you I don't want to listen If he doesn't listen to it he's happy and in peace If he listens, his heart would be busy thinking about it Thus, my fellow Muslims, may Allah SWT bless you I say, there is a satisfaction in retaliation But it would be more if we forgive from the saying of Syaikh Islam Ibn Tayyimiyah This is the theory, the practice is difficult But this is the theory that we have to understand
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